Looking for a Swingers Club.
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I know there are a ton of swinger clubs in and around Toronto, but I want to clarify Wicked to not be one. It's more of a bisexual women's-hedonistic lifestyle club, as opposed to traditional swinger. Don't get me wrong, it's a great place, I go often, but I wouldn't call it a swinger club. Neither do they 
www.wickedclub.com
www.wickedclub.com
I can verify that Wicked is a poser club where conceited people go to display their gorgeous selves while scowling at the dross who aren't good enough for them.
My GF and I went to Wicked one weekend and Club Abstract the next. While at Abstract there came a moment between songs when the music went silent. In that few seconds one could clearly hear the hubub sound of many people talking. My GF pointed out that when that happens at Wicked, one hears only silence. Conclusion: nobody talks at Wicked. Do real swingers talk to each other? They certainly do ...
My GF and I went to Wicked one weekend and Club Abstract the next. While at Abstract there came a moment between songs when the music went silent. In that few seconds one could clearly hear the hubub sound of many people talking. My GF pointed out that when that happens at Wicked, one hears only silence. Conclusion: nobody talks at Wicked. Do real swingers talk to each other? They certainly do ...
I don't see how you can consider Wicked not a swinger club - only couples go there, and on occasion they have sex with other couples. To me, that makes it a swinger club. That does not mean it is for everyone, half the time when we go there we have a great time, the other half we swear that we will never go back. We prefer Abstract and X Club to Wicked, other than the fact that you can have sex at Wicked.
If anything, I think that Toronto has fewer swinger clubs than it should, given the population and Canada's liberal attitudes towards sex. Toronto has one on-premises club, that is open two nights a week, and a number of off-premises clubs, none of which are open more than two, or perhaps three nights a week.
New York City, Las Vegas, Miami, San Francisco and Los Angeles all have multiple on-premises clubs, some of which are open five or more days and night per week. I do not understand why Toronto could not support that level of activity.
If anything, I think that Toronto has fewer swinger clubs than it should, given the population and Canada's liberal attitudes towards sex. Toronto has one on-premises club, that is open two nights a week, and a number of off-premises clubs, none of which are open more than two, or perhaps three nights a week.
New York City, Las Vegas, Miami, San Francisco and Los Angeles all have multiple on-premises clubs, some of which are open five or more days and night per week. I do not understand why Toronto could not support that level of activity.
When my girlfriend and I joined the lifestyle 12 years ago, there was a culture there carried on by established and experienced swingers who had been active for 20 or 25 years.
As the years went by, some clubs closed and others opened, often offshoots of existing clubs. Then came the newbie invasion. Swinging entered the mainstream and all sorts of people thought they were cool and so was swinging.
Just as the old time swingers who knew what they were doing retired or dropped out, the clubs became diluted by a tsunami of clueless newbies who thought that because they knew how to have sex they knew how to swing.
The swinging culture and it's tenets of honesty, fairness, respect, class, patience, tolerance, affection, generosity, dignity and depth has all but disappeared with the experienced swingers. Like Tarzan swinging through trees, a vine got missed and Tarzan has fallen to the ground.
So if you think that having sex in front of other people or anonymous sex with people who have less than a year experience is what swinging is all about, then by all means go to Wicked and congratulate yourself on how cool you are.
As the years went by, some clubs closed and others opened, often offshoots of existing clubs. Then came the newbie invasion. Swinging entered the mainstream and all sorts of people thought they were cool and so was swinging.
Just as the old time swingers who knew what they were doing retired or dropped out, the clubs became diluted by a tsunami of clueless newbies who thought that because they knew how to have sex they knew how to swing.
The swinging culture and it's tenets of honesty, fairness, respect, class, patience, tolerance, affection, generosity, dignity and depth has all but disappeared with the experienced swingers. Like Tarzan swinging through trees, a vine got missed and Tarzan has fallen to the ground.
So if you think that having sex in front of other people or anonymous sex with people who have less than a year experience is what swinging is all about, then by all means go to Wicked and congratulate yourself on how cool you are.
I do not understand what you are saying, can you explain? So if you have sex with people who have less than a year of experience swinging, then you are not really a swinger? Or you are not cool? You do not like people who go to Wicked because they are not your kind of swinger, yet they think they are cool?rick dickulous said:
I don't really care what other people define swinging as being all about, we just do what we feel like. We try and treat people appropriately, but that is based on our general values about how people should be treated, rather than by a swinger code of some kind.
Yup the only club in toronto is wicked, it's alright but its gets boring very quick. I guess because its the crowd they have
I like pussy palace but that one is a lesbian/bi girls only swinger club
I like pussy palace but that one is a lesbian/bi girls only swinger club
Swinging is something you do with your SO, your partner, your wife. The mass of social conventions that we have learned since a child is like a balloon, it is all the things we are allowed to do and must not do. Swinging is not a pin that pops that balloon, allowing us to break the most important rules, it is a bulge of top of the balloon. You have to learn a further set of rules of conduct in order to be a classy and experienced swinger.
For instance you don't just plop your dick into any woman's mouth, you don't cruise around as a bottom feeder or a selfish girl, you don't ignore your partner or make demonstrations of affection to other women. You don't stick your fingers up a girl's pussy just because she agrees to dance with you, you don't pull, pinch, twist or bite nipples or do anything in a rough fashion. You don't obsess over any couple and demand their phone number, you don't tell a girl you have blue balls and she has to finish what she started, you don't manouver a girl away from her husband and do things out of sight, causing her to have huge arguments at home for days, and you don't look at other women while you're pleasuring the one in front of you.
The list goes on and on. If you think that you just go to a club and swing then you are very naive. People have been swinging in Ontario for the last 25 years and they are still learning.
For instance you don't just plop your dick into any woman's mouth, you don't cruise around as a bottom feeder or a selfish girl, you don't ignore your partner or make demonstrations of affection to other women. You don't stick your fingers up a girl's pussy just because she agrees to dance with you, you don't pull, pinch, twist or bite nipples or do anything in a rough fashion. You don't obsess over any couple and demand their phone number, you don't tell a girl you have blue balls and she has to finish what she started, you don't manouver a girl away from her husband and do things out of sight, causing her to have huge arguments at home for days, and you don't look at other women while you're pleasuring the one in front of you.
The list goes on and on. If you think that you just go to a club and swing then you are very naive. People have been swinging in Ontario for the last 25 years and they are still learning.
