Life happiness?

[doggystyle99]

I am just curious to see how many people on this board are actually truly happy with the lives they have?

I am a very happy person and around the holiday season I am even more cheerful, but I keep seeing others who are just consistently miserable whether its their relationships, work, personal unhappiness or whatever the case is they are just almost always miserable and complain rather than to make a change.
People say money is not important in being truly happy which is not true as money makes everything people enjoy doing so much easier, so making money that is suitable to your lifestyle is important. We all have different lives and we all go through difficult things in our lives but in reality all one can do is deal with the difficulties in life as best as possible and move on.

Personally I have a great life, have a lot of great trusting and loving family and friends, I have a great job that I love doing and make excellent money at it (own my own company), I also live a healthy lifestyle no drugs (anymore) no cigarettes and social drinking, and workout on a regular basis, I am single and enjoy being single.

Personally if something happened to me tomorrow I can say, and so would others around me that I have lived my life to the fullest and I would die truly happy.
Just want to know if others have all of the above in their lives?

 

[bazokajoe]

Just because someone looks miserable,and they might be,don't judge them for it.Maybe they have a good reason for being in a shitty mood that day. A personal tragedy,lost their job.Next time you see someone walking down the street and they look grumpy,there may be a reason,and a good 1 at that.

 

[nottyboi]

Just because you are happy does not mean you would not change your life with someone else IMHO. Also I think any happy life must have some difficult periods. Its not possible to be happy without having experienced SOME misery.

 

[doggystyle99]

Just because someone looks miserable,and they might be,don't judge them for it.Maybe they have a good reason for being in a shitty mood that day. A personal tragedy,lost their job.Next time you see someone walking down the street and they look grumpy,there may be a reason,and a good 1 at that.

When I said miserable I explained that I meant people who complain about things rather than making a decision and making a change about the situation.

In 2013 I had 6 deaths in my family and all were people who where very close to me and very dear to me, 2 of the deaths were of young people who were my cousins in their mid 20's and were shot by someone who they knew and it wasn't gang related nor were they trouble makers. I personally have had a lot of tragedy in my life in the last few years but that has not changed me to become more miserable in life but it has actually made me be more appreciative for the health, the love and the life I live on a daily basis.

I guess there are people that always look for a negative, and there are people that look for a positive. I usually look for a positive but I am very pragmatic in my desicion making and there are definitely not enough people who make decisions that way.

 

[whitewaterguy]

Just spend a couple of minutes reading any global news feed....take note how the rest of the world is barely eking out an existence, or being killed trying. Be VERY grateful for what you have...and carry on smiling.

 

[explorerzip]

Just spend a couple of minutes reading any global news feed....take note how the rest of the world is barely eking out an existence, or being killed trying. Be VERY grateful for what you have...and carry on smiling.

Yeah exactly. The fact that we're reading this post is proof that we have it better than a lot of people.

 

[doggystyle99]

Just because you are happy does not mean you would not change your life with someone else IMHO. Also I think any happy life must have some difficult periods. Its not possible to be happy without having experienced SOME misery.

If one is truly happy in life they would not change it with anyone else. Everyone in life experiences difficult times in life but all one can do is deal with difficulties as best as possible and continue living.

 

[explorerzip]

When I said miserable I explained that I meant people who complain about things rather than making a decision and making a change about the situation.

In 2013 I had 6 deaths in my family and all were people who where very close to me and very dear to me, 2 of the deaths were of young people who were my cousins in their mid 20's and were shot by someone who they knew and it wasn't gang related nor were they trouble makers. I personally have had a lot of tragedy in my life in the last few years but that has not changed me to become more miserable in life but it has actually made me be more appreciative for the health, the love and the life I live on a daily basis.

I guess there are people that always look for a negative, and there are people that look for a positive. I usually look for a positive but I am very pragmatic in my desicion making and there are definitely not enough people who make decisions that way.

Really sorry to hear about so many losses in your family in one year. Kudos to you for trying to keep a positive attitude during such a hard time. I know many people that were a mess for days when Princess Diana died for crying out loud.

 

[nottyboi]

If one is truly happy in life they would not change it with anyone else. Everyone in life experiences difficult times in life but all one can do is deal with difficulties as best as possible and continue living.

As good as things are I always believe they can be better. So while I need for nothing, having the ability to do more on like an Elon Musk level would be attractive to me.

 

[Moviefan-2]

If one is truly happy in life they would not change it with anyone else.

Nor, I suspect, would they start a poll to see how they compare with everyone else.

 

[MadonnaLove]

There are some people who seem angry and continuously look for conflict .Walk away the battle they are fighting isn't with you, its with themselves.

 

[Experienced1]

11 years ago after my dads passing i made a career change , i look back and to me i made the wrong decision .

Financially i could have been in alot better position than i am now. I am not poor i own a house but i am not where i want to be financially .

And my marriage is ok ,lack of sex is my only complaint

i talk to other married men and the census is once a wife becomes a mother kids are number one priority and the sex is way down on the list.

To me, my kids are everything and they are the number 1 priority in our marriage which is the way i want it.

So instead of arguing about sex all the time , i go see an SP when i get the urge . I dont need another wife or girlfriend

I dont drink, smoke, do drugs, i just need to blow my load when im in the mood. - but after some great oral sex

 

[onthebottom]

Living the dream....

 

[nobody123]

This french dude told me the key to life was to get as much a penis as possible.
He seemed to know his shit so for the next year I tried to get as much dick as possible. Sucked it, took it up the ass, handies, gloryholes whatever.
It didn't do anything for me.

Afterwords I met him again and asked what the fuck. Seemed he said the key to life was to get as much 'appyness as possible.
All that dick over an accent issue. Boy was my face red.


And yes the above is a joke you Dumases.

Alexandre Dumases?

 

[nottyboi]

11 years ago after my dads passing i made a career change , i look back and to me i made the wrong decision .

Financially i could have been in alot better position than i am now. I am not poor i own a house but i am not where i want to be financially .

And my marriage is ok ,lack of sex is my only complaint

i talk to other married men and the census is once a wife becomes a mother kids are number one priority and the sex is way down on the list.

To me, my kids are everything and they are the number 1 priority in our marriage which is the way i want it.

So instead of arguing about sex all the time , i go see an SP when i get the urge . I dont need another wife or girlfriend

I dont drink, smoke, do drugs, i just need to blow my load when im in the mood. - but after some great oral sex

SP = marriage councillor

 

[black booty lover]

nor, i suspect, would they start a poll to see how they compare with everyone else.

lmao!!!!!

 

[red]

Every day is a blessing. Make the most of it. Fight against the coming of the night

 

[Titalian]