Sounds like some of the fellas need to pony up and TOFTT instead of frequently asking if there is anyone else that did.
Not for me, but small yellow flags for me would be if she advertises frequently, then why not get a local number and if she's been here often then no reviews, or even a blip, is quite sus . Take it for what it's worth.
Tgtbt - spider senses on alert. So I set up short sexting session. And sure enough - crickets after ETransfer. Sure I got burned but rather lose $40 instead of way more.
Scammer. Be aware