I've lost my interest in paid pussy. Should I be worried?..

[Mao Tse Tongue]

...or am I on the way to better health? (smirk)

Since the online dating thing kicked in, the pussy has been coming in like a squirter on Christmas morning.

I simply am no longer into the paid pussy.

Man, there's nothing like the hot chicks that aren't pros, in the same way there's nothing like a pro when all you've had is amateurs.

Yin and yang.

I'm not going to get high and mighty because we all know that those who swear off the paid pussy ALWAYS come back...lol...

Just want to say that all my regular pay girls have noticed their car payments are harder to come by. Sorry girls

Who knows how long I'll last (less than 10 minutes, probably).

 

[i_am_good]

variety...

...is the spice of life.

Just have fun!

 

[Snook.fr]

Mmmmh....Interesting Thread here

The way I see it, losing interest in PAID Pussy is losing interest in Pussy altogether.....As NO pussy comes for free:

1. Professional = You pay for time, know the menu, leave
2. Amateur = You pay BIG TIME to get to unlock the mind that controls the pussy (Efforts), you don't know the Menu, you can't leave after 1 time as you already invested quite some cash there

I mean, it's Hassle Vs Hassle Free battle (unless your name is Leonardo Di Caprio).

A little of Both Worlds is the ritht thing for me.

 

[ycghiydvo]

I don't ever pay cats... they spend it all on catnip and mice and Meow Mix

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

Mmmmh....Interesting Thread here

The way I see it, losing interest in PAID Pussy is losing interest in Pussy altogether.....As NO pussy comes for free:

1. Professional = You pay for time, know the menu, leave
2. Amateur = You pay BIG TIME to get to unlock the mind that controls the pussy (Efforts), you don't know the Menu, you can't leave after 1 time as you already invested quite some cash there

Men say this a lot: you pay either way. But the substance of it is totally different. Sometimes, yes, dollars laid out are the same, sometimes even MORE than an SP, but the fact of the matter is that a regular chick is sleeping with you because of you, even if 'you' includes your car, your money, nice dinners. It's different.

Enough.

For me.

 

[Brigitte]

I've gotta add my two cents here.

My boyfriend had to wait 6 months before I gave him a bbbj and a year to have sex with me. In the meantime, he had to take me out to dinner, the movies, the theatre, trips etc. We had to have weekly hour long phone conversations, he had to get tested for stds, he had to drive me around to run errands, he had to help me move 5 times, he had to tell me intimate secrets (without hesitation) and the list goes on.

To this day, considering how much I cost him in money, time and effort, he swears it would've been cheaper and less hassle to call an escort over whenever he needed it.

I tell him that the plus side is that his "investment" has paid off because now he has an always super horny girlfriend to give him massages when he wants, cook for him when he's hungry and talk to him when he's having a bad day.

It all depends on where you are in your life and which of your needs require satisfying.

Some men work hard and don't want to deal with the bs involved in having a relationship, so they call escorts.

Others need the closeness that a relationship brings and always have girlfriends.

To each his own.

(btw, how many people know women who've left their SO's because he lost his job and couldn't afford cable, much less going out and leaving the apartment?)

 

[TheNiteHwk]

Does it ALWAYS cost?

I'll answer my own question. lol.

In most cases... very high %... I would say yes... you always pay somehow.

Having said... I have on occasion got 'lucky' on chat lines and picked up a one nighter or a quickie and cost me nothing, nadda, zero.

Ok I lie... I had to pay TTC and or Taxi fare.

Funny this topic should come up though. I will maybe post in SC section... I was at BR last Friday and was very board. Before that the last three times I been at SCs... was very board. I thought... ummmm maybe I am losing interest in SCs. That would be something for me... considering how long and how much I have been going to SCs.

 

[onthebottom]

Re: Does it ALWAYS cost?

...

Funny this topic should come up though. I will maybe post in SC section... I was at BR last Friday and was very board. Before that the last three times I been at SCs... was very board. I thought... ummmm maybe I am losing interest in SCs. That would be something for me... considering how long and how much I have been going to SCs.

I've had the exact same experience - I'm bored at SCs now, the SPs in YYZ have me spoiled.

OTB

 

[TheNiteHwk]

You're kidding ... right?

... My boyfriend had to wait 6 months before I gave him a bbbj and a year to have sex with me. In the meantime, he had to take me out to dinner, the movies, the theatre, trips etc.

Actually... I know your not kidding. Each to their own as they say.

But my new GF or prospective GF... we better be 'doing it' by 4th or 5th date... and by 6th date we are going 'dutch'... or I figure I'm just being played ... that or 'the chemistry' is just not there and I am out of there.

 

[duMaurierguy]

My boyfriend had to wait 6 months before I gave him a bbbj and a year to have sex with me. In the meantime, he had to take me out to dinner, the movies, the theatre, trips etc. We had to have weekly hour long phone conversations, he had to get tested for stds, he had to drive me around to run errands, he had to help me move 5 times, he had to tell me intimate secrets (without hesitation) and the list goes on.

Gee Brigitte, your man must pinch himself each and every day to have someone as considerate as you. How often did you have to stoke the white coals this fellow had to walk across to greet you each time he saw you? Damn, you must that good of catch for the guy to wait a WHOLE YEAR to get some (I'm assuming you weren't working as a SP during this time). No offence meant here. You are just saying this for EMPHASIS, right? *LOL*

 

[The Baroness]

I couldnt wait wait a year for sex with someone I was attracted to.
Hell I cant wait half an hour in the same company as my current boyfriend.

As for someone "having" to do all that for me in order to get into my precious pants.......................................No, Miranda, dont say it,shutup.



* Jenn tapes Mir's mouth shut* again

 

[shredder]

I've gotta add my two cents here.

My boyfriend had to wait 6 months before I gave him a bbbj and a year to have sex with me. In the meantime, he had to take me out to dinner, the movies, the theatre, trips etc. We had to have weekly hour long phone conversations, he had to get tested for stds, he had to drive me around to run errands, he had to help me move 5 times, he had to tell me intimate secrets (without hesitation) and the list goes on.

Patience and pererverence...hmmm. Nope, no way, couldn't do it.

 

[The Baroness]

Sara! youre supposed to be my back-up when jenn is off giving birth and whatever else it is she does these days.

 

[The Baroness]

Im sure the sex trade will survive without him.

 

[The Baroness]

I never asked jenn Sara..........she just did it!

 

[Mao Tse Tongue]

Well, I do declare....I actually have a network of duct-tape support. How lovely *she says in southern drawl*

Ahem....back to the topic at hand. Mao has lost his interest in paid services....what should he do about it? Carry on.....

Actually, I'm saying something more profound: when you start monetizing your sex, where does it end?

Of course, life is not perfect: for married men and/or lots of other situations that are less than perfect, paying for SP's makes perfect sense.

And I personally think that SP's literally keep society running the way coffee keeps the economy running. They are almost an essential service in a society completely insane and stressful.

I'm just finding that there's an inevitable dulling of your soul if you keep exchanging money for sex.

And saying "you pay either way" simply isn't spot on enough.

I've been amazed to find that all the things that guys die for here--bbj, bareback, rimming, etc etc--are almost completely available in the dating world now. Young woman are mostly uninhibited about sex, and dole it out regularly without all the b.s. (assuming you're decent looking and well, ahem, well talced.

Over 30 women, less so, for sure.

Two out of the last three chicks (30-35) I've dated--all professional women--have not only enjoyed anal, but have requested it. (!!)

This ain't your father's dating scene, guys.

As Bill Maher says, "I feel sorry for ho's these days, because more and more regular women are dressing and acting like ho's."

Too true.

 

[kwong_1978]

Mao,

Don't worry dude, interest in paid pussy wans back and forth for whatever reason. I think a lot of us go through this stage sometime during our hobbying life. It doesn't matter how you get it, just make sure it's on a regular basis.

 

[Ripper77]

MAo-if you dont have to pay money for pussy,your better off than most of the guys on here.Best not to come back to a pay service,if your doing fine without it. Take care,Rich

 

[Brigitte]

Wow...kudo's to you Brigitte. In retrospect and comparison, I was/am extremely independent and low maintenance. No one has ever "had" to do anything for me. Perhaps that was my problem??? LOL!

Jeez, I didn't think I was high maintenance until I read all of your replies. I asked the beau, he agrees with you all. Apparently, he enjoyed my conversation, opinions and suggestions enough to wait.

I guess I feel that I'm worth all of the effort. (Brigitte says as she runs from the kitchen to check on her Chicken Wellington in the oven) I like to be pampered and spoiled, but I also enjoy reciprocating for my partner.

It's funny, it took him a year to get in my pants and now that he can have it whenever he wants it, he's not that interested. Go figure! (Brigitte says as she books an appointment for an outcall)

 

[Englishman]

1. Professional = You pay for time, know the menu, leave
2. Amateur = You pay BIG TIME to get to unlock the mind that controls the pussy (Efforts), you don't know the Menu, you can't leave after 1 time as you already invested quite some cash there
A little of Both Worlds is the ritht thing for me.

this is an interesting thread... I have to agree with Nic here because the quote above rings all to well and a little of both worlds definately works for me. All the power to Mao Tse Tongue in maintaining monogamy with one S/O, but me being a jaded sod, I can't help but want to enjoy it ALL!