I was reading Alise Amery problems with getting text from an old client and thought "Is this my future" when the SP who I love quits the business. Am I being played and was this her game all along. I hope not but you can never be sure. I've been hobbying for a very long time even before it was called this. I never thought it would happen to me. We met on a call and we seemed to hit it off right away. It was easy to talk with her and I really enjoyed the service. Called again and we grew closer. The more I learned about her the more I noticed how much we had in comman. I listened and said very little about myself but each day we grew closer. Now she comes over and we spend hours together. I can deal with this as a friendship but if it's going to end when she quits then I'd rather end it now. And no she doesn't charge me for all the extra hours we spend together. If I see her where she is working or call the agency then I'm charged. Oh and she knows how I feel about her as well.
Is this my Future
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Why you ask. To be treated that way when she quits would mean it was all a lie. SP's are human or at least I thought they were. They have a friendship and then just throw it away when they quit why did they start it in the first place. I wouldn't do that to my friends if there was no reason to.
Roland cold honest answer, sorry if it hurts.
As an SP she has limited choices. She probably feels she can't find the sort of long-term BF or husband that she wants. The level of guy she's looking for can get women who are not SP's, if you know what I mean. So she's lowered her standards, but also lowered her level of commitment--she probably isn't looking for a "real relationship" right now since what she could get wouldn't meet her normal high standards, only her current lower ones.
So once she stops being an SP her standards are going to go up. Way up. That doesn't mean it's all a lie, SP's need companionship too, but what companion? When the game changes, if she put herself back in play, she'd be playing in a bigger league.
You know whether or not you meet those standards. I don't. You do.
As an SP she has limited choices. She probably feels she can't find the sort of long-term BF or husband that she wants. The level of guy she's looking for can get women who are not SP's, if you know what I mean. So she's lowered her standards, but also lowered her level of commitment--she probably isn't looking for a "real relationship" right now since what she could get wouldn't meet her normal high standards, only her current lower ones.
So once she stops being an SP her standards are going to go up. Way up. That doesn't mean it's all a lie, SP's need companionship too, but what companion? When the game changes, if she put herself back in play, she'd be playing in a bigger league.
You know whether or not you meet those standards. I don't. You do.
Another thing....roland51 said:
Are you giving her any money or other financial benefit? Expensive gifts? Or do you split everything 50-50?
Just saying, often "regulars" have a way of thinking they are more than customers when actually they are just good customers. If you are still in the customer space, meaning she financially benefits from the relationship, then even if it is not the pay per hour deal, what will happen is she will quit the business in stages. First she'll quit taking bookings from new customers but hold on to some of the better pay per hour regulars. Then she'll quit those and hold onto the sugar daddies. Then she'll quit all that too.
Do you know that they are iin the business because they love the money?
They play their roles as a GF, or mistress, porn star, and etc to fulfill the client's fantasy. It's the role we play everyday when we at work. It's all just business. Although, things can develop into something personal sometime. You also need to be ready when you discover that everything just a role to make you happy as a client. I feel sorry for people who take this hobbying thing way too personal. Money is the motivation(for the ladies). Get off, pussies, tits, and etc are the motivation(for the men).
They play their roles as a GF, or mistress, porn star, and etc to fulfill the client's fantasy. It's the role we play everyday when we at work. It's all just business. Although, things can develop into something personal sometime. You also need to be ready when you discover that everything just a role to make you happy as a client. I feel sorry for people who take this hobbying thing way too personal. Money is the motivation(for the ladies). Get off, pussies, tits, and etc are the motivation(for the men).
Cool now I feel alot better. NOT!!!!!. I'll have her read all these post tonight and see her reaction. Let the fireworks begin. Fuji I don't pay her unless I visit her at work and I only do that if I choose to. Most things are 50/50 but sometimes she foots the bill or I do. Money is not my problem, love was. Thanks for your comments Fuji at least you think like I do. Oh and she doen't know what I'm worth and no one does except my Banker becuase I don't live the life of Rily but I could anytime I wish. When I die someone or some charity will be very happy.
I Don't Get It
So you want to be the one to break it off with her just in case she dumps you first? What if she really likes you and the relationship will continue and grow after she gets out of the buisness. My opinion would be to stay and see what happens. Your going to feel hurt regardless of who dumps who first. And your always going to wonder what may have been.
So you want to be the one to break it off with her just in case she dumps you first? What if she really likes you and the relationship will continue and grow after she gets out of the buisness. My opinion would be to stay and see what happens. Your going to feel hurt regardless of who dumps who first. And your always going to wonder what may have been.
Give her $100,000 now that would be a good Christmas present. I had sometihing else in mind. A trip to the Orient where she always wanted to go. I have no intention of giving a review or letting her read this thread. I simply felt the guys pain (even though I don't know the guy) when I read Alise Amery thread. There's more to her story than whats being told.
I don't get it either . Why do you need to buy trouble Roland ? Life is rolling along nicely and now you want to upset the apple cart . Chill . Enjoy what you have and stay in the moment. Would you be getting all bent out of shape if you hadn't read the post in the first place?ooh-ya-more said:
But the question is, will she find a guy that will accept her for her past?KWI said:
The average guy on the street has a pretty dim view of any woman who works anywhere in this industry.
