Is paying for women on dates considered offensive these days?
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if it's a concern and you feel rusty, excuse yourself and go and pay secretly. No woman will be upset when presented with the fact that the cheque has been taken care of.
Women only find it offensive if you pay and then expect them to put out because of it.
Many women pay their own way to avoid this issue.
Many women pay their own way to avoid this issue.
not even a BJ ?
if you payed for dinner, I would definitely go down on you as a common courtesy
what's the big deal?
This is why I skip the dinner, have the fun and take the cash. LOL.not even a BJ ?
if you payed for dinner, I would definitely go down on you as a common courtesy
what's the big deal?
I've always paid for dinner unless she suggests splitting it. And I don't expect anything in return for the first date like some clowns who take someone out on some expensive first date and expect something. Cringy and needy lol. If you want that then set it up with a SP or SB.
While buying me a drink is probably cheaper for you, I will always take the cash.can I buy you a drink or would you rather have the cash?
LOL.
it wouldn't be cheaper for me, it would be exactly the sameWhile buying me a drink is probably cheaper for you, I will always take the cash.
such a material girl
I guess it's safe to assume that you wouldn't be offended if OP paid for you on a date
If I go on a date, which I will never do again, I would pay my own way every time. I wouldn’t be offended by the offer but I would insist on paying my own meal so I don’t feel like I owe anything. But I am not a relationship type girl. Even casual dating. This is why I escort and basically will until I am sick of sex and men. LOL. I get all of the good parts of a relationship like sex, companionship, male attention and I get none of the bad, the drama, etc. Plus because I have the vagina, I get to pad my retirement and do things like buy a new trailer. I don’t rely on this money to put food on the table, so I can work when I want, if I want and see who I want. So just easier to avoid the hassle of dating altogether for me. I am kinda bias as you can tell. LOLit wouldn't be cheaper for me, it would be exactly the same
such a material girl
I guess it's safe to assume that you wouldn't be offended if OP paid for you on a date
it's all good
I haven't been on a real date since I discovered TERB as well
so I wouldn't know if nowadays women would be offended by man payingI guess it depends on a woman
If she was a woke progressive with special pronouns a guy could be in trouble
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There are relationships where they split the bills . It is not my definition of a provider relationship . But they have some providing sides in the relationship that are non financial. For me a provider man provides financial and non financial support.
