Do wealthy successful men have to get married in order to keep their investments or should we keep on escorting it until the end of time? I prefer to escort it but something tells me from inside that in order to maintain your wealth status, you have to get married because of credentials respectfully.
Is marriage important ?
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Behind every successful man is a great woman...but you shouldn't marry her unless both of you want kids. If she doesn't want kids, then you can have 100 great lovers and society will respect you just the same...one of the hundred will want kids. 
Credentials of respectability do come with marriage but also the liability of divorce and alimony.
you are asking a bunch of guys that only care about making sure their nut sack is empty above all other things including loyalty and respect if marriage is important ? every guy here cheats on their wives and some blame the wife for their behavior. i think you would want to ask guys that actually give a fuck about their wives and kids. regardless, i think this will be a good thread to read and i am looking forward to it.
Simon,
The only reason your nut sack is 12 gallons full is because your pee shooter does not work anymore. You told us you have not fired one off in years!
I'm not married but I still disagree with you.
I have friends who don't know of my hobbying and who don't hobby themselves, who say on a golf excursion that if it weren't for the kids, they may not be married.
I would guess that hobbyists who are married might concur that marriage is good to bring up kids, if not for other reasons.
Marriage though has its stresses and ups and downs, and may not satisfy every need.
works just fine i just don't base my life around my dick and how many things i can stick it in.
if you and your wife are not happy in the bedroom you should talk to her, perhaps some sex therapy and try to make things work. if you ever loved your wife you should allow her to have the same happiness as you and let her go out and have some young dick that is interested in her or just get a divorce so she can go be happy with someone that respects her.
i am not saying nothing about swingers, they know make their own deal. also single guys can do what ever they want. if you are married though and you cheat i think you are a piece of garbage and disrespecting your wife, your kids and even yourself.
Every guy here isn`t married. For those that are, I firmly believe escorting can help some marriages. Sometimes 9 things out of 10 are perfect and you can`t live without her, but you also can`t live without that pesky 10%. If I were married I`d prefer to be cheated on with an escort rather than a civilian.
You can't judge married hobbyists cuz there are many reasons why men cheat.
A married hobbyist can still consider his marriage important because it is important to him and his family for the normalcy and security it provides. Divorce could be disruptive not only financially but emotionally and psychologically.
Becky, your ideas are another reason for a Terbite to utter `I love you`.
(I take it that even though you may prefer to be cheated on with an escort, you wouldn`t condone it. Nevertheless, you`d give most guys here no reason to cheat sexy).
you pretty well read that wrong. didn`t say every guy here was married. every guy that is here that is married cheats. so as soon you break that vow (or any vow) all the rest mean nothing.
Yeah, it's a rationalization but I'm sure married hobbyists weigh the two evils (divorce but keep hobbying discreet versus end this marriage/family for one aspect).
I can agree that exercise and eating right is important, but I may not stick to that program.
I can agree that I should read a book or do some work or be otherwise productive is more important than writing this thread on Terb, but I succumb.
Marriage is an abtract concept that we can all agree is good and even important even though we may not live up to its full and true intent.
so even though you are supposed to love and respect them it is only important for one person in the marriage to be happy ? guy is getting aid, woman is left at home in a loveless marriage. you should be honest with her, say it's not working sexually but everything else is. then suggest a mutual acceptable solution, anything else and you a liar and disrespecting the person your supposed to respect above all.
The more I think about marriage, the more confused I get. To find the Ideal person, the chances are small and you have to be very patient. I would really think a lot of people "settle" for someone who may be OK, but not the best choice.
Plus people may change completely after 10 years or so, so the person you married is not at all the same.
I think the best marriages would be open and free and not constricting.
You don't own the other person, and they shouldn't do the same to you. We are individuals.... and whatever union we have with someone else is temporary..... so we should just enjoy it or struggle with it "should be."
I have a bit of a hard time coming to terms with marriage, having gone through a really bad one. Other relationships I have had worked out a lot better.
One thing I will say... this is kind of off topic, but I'm just going with it, is I had the greatest Wedding Day imaginable. What a party!
But the hangover..................
Plus people may change completely after 10 years or so, so the person you married is not at all the same.
I think the best marriages would be open and free and not constricting.
You don't own the other person, and they shouldn't do the same to you. We are individuals.... and whatever union we have with someone else is temporary..... so we should just enjoy it or struggle with it "should be."
I have a bit of a hard time coming to terms with marriage, having gone through a really bad one. Other relationships I have had worked out a lot better.
One thing I will say... this is kind of off topic, but I'm just going with it, is I had the greatest Wedding Day imaginable. What a party!
But the hangover..................
I never much thought about the pros and cons.
Then my cousin (we're close like brothers) got divorced. Not very messy financially, and in the end he got primary custody of his 7 year old child. He said that virtually every male friend he has came to him and said "if I knew I could keep my kids too I'd get out of my marriage in the blink of of eye" or similar sentiment. Makes you think.
KK
Then my cousin (we're close like brothers) got divorced. Not very messy financially, and in the end he got primary custody of his 7 year old child. He said that virtually every male friend he has came to him and said "if I knew I could keep my kids too I'd get out of my marriage in the blink of of eye" or similar sentiment. Makes you think.
KK
Yes, you should try to make things work, BUT sometimes it won't no matter how hard you try, or she won't admit there's a problem. What about a wife who tries to blackmail her husband by restraining from having sex with him (easier for women to go without) so that he has to spend money on keeping up with the Jones when his income can't support it or its too early for a raise or bonus? What if SHE is fucking around on him, & he knows it but won't leave her cuz he can't disrupt the illusion of normalcy with his young children? What if she has no libido after having twins, and that he must resort to masturbation indefinitely when he was a stud? So who's happy and unhappy? There are many reasons why people cheat and it may not having to do with falling out of love with someone.
But my original point is that the OP's question is a philosophical one that can be answered by anyone here on Terb.
There are many other examples:
War is wrong but we may have to wage it (or use force) and inflict collateral damage on civilians.
Communism is inferior to democracy, but we can't change the politics in Cuba or liberate its citizens.
It is very important to preserve the environment and reduce greenhouse gas emissions but we can't afford to close all coal plants now.
My marriage is important but I can't help to get the odd tug cuz she's not interested in sex no matter how hard I tried, and she refuses counselling.
Yeah, I started a thread on how bully monopoly public sector unions are so similar to marriages (but it died due to apathy). In both cases, the service can be withheld and it is illegal (or considered socially unacceptable) to seek another provider.
