Is it just my refractory period?

[trippingwalker]

Hey guys, lately i've been noticing something and it's become somewhat of an issue. It doesn't matter if its with my SO or with an SP, I have the same "issue". I usually book 1hr appointments with girls. I usually take a 1/4-1/2 a 100ng viagra because i don't need them and they make me super rock hard, gives me a little extra confidence, and it allows me to fuck the girls brains out for like 30-40+ minutes instead of like 10-15.

However, I notice that even though I take the V, after i cum, I usually lose interest in sex. Now, some girls take it upon themselves to initiate round 2 and when that happens i'm obviously all V'd up and I rise to the occasion and we go at it. Awesome. I prefer this outcome.

The problem is when it's up to me. I cum and then after about 5-10 minutes of cleanup/chit-chat, i may still have time on the clock but I don't really want to go for round 2. I then just kind of regret the extra money spent on the extra time. If the girl doesn't initiate round 2 i usually pack it up early and leave because I quickly run out of things to talk about when we're not fucking lol

My guess is that I have a slower refractory period and to be honest maybe I'm just coming to terms with it now. At the same time, I can control my orgasms decently well so it's not like I cum 5 mins into a 60 min appointment and then leave... I thought maybe some of you guys had any thoughts.

My solution could be:
1) find girls with toys. After i cum, maybe i can ask to watch the girl pleasure herself for a few minutes. Just the thought of it is making me hard...
or
2) book 2hr appointments or longer?! I fear that may be an expensive mistake but maybe I just need 20 minutes before i can go again? Even with V, that refractory psychology is a mood killer...

Anyway, i'm a young punk so maybe some veterans have some advice.:mod:

 

[Butler1000]

Or maybe you just want to have one fuck and be done? You don't have to have a second round.

Extend the foreplay of the first a bit. But beyond that I wouldn't worry about losing some time. You are there it sounds like for the EVENT. So enjoy that.

There isn't a set "thing to do" in an appt. Maybe some days you will want the second round, other days a post coitus cheeseburger. But don't make it a chore. Do as you please.

 

[Big_jo]

You can always ask an sp to go for the second round. Even if she is afraid appointment is about to finish you can always request a bj.
On a second note, my apologies for asking a stupid question. If you don't need a Viagra how come you got it. I mean you got it from grey market or your doctor just gave you an prescription without asking anything

 

[trippingwalker]

Or maybe you just want to have one fuck and be done? You don't have to have a second round.

Extend the foreplay of the first a bit. But beyond that I wouldn't worry about losing some time. You are there it sounds like for the EVENT. So enjoy that.

There isn't a set "thing to do" in an appt. Maybe some days you will want the second round, other days a post coitus cheeseburger. But don't make it a chore. Do as you please.

ohhhh... Maybe im a single SOG kinda guy then, huh? I would have thought being a SOG had something to do with age/losing your libido/etc etc... Or does it kind of just depend on the person/psychology/biology?

 

[kherg007]

ohhhh... Maybe im a single SOG kinda guy then, huh? I would have thought being a SOG had something to do with age/losing your libido/etc etc... Or does it kind of just depend on the person/psychology/biology?

Age ABSOLUTELY has an effect. At age 20 - 3 SOG's in an hour quite routine, 4 possible. Now - post 50...lol...if its been a while, and you're feelin good, and the wind is right, maybe squeeze in 2...but usually need 90 mins for that with any confidence. You'll notice the volume and distance changes (if you let your boys off the leash and fly out onto a back or wherever where you can chart their flight path lol).

 

[trippingwalker]

So I'm a younger gentleman... under 30... It's not like I physically can't do it... I just seem to lose interest in sex, kind of like after your masturbate and all of a sudden find porn repulsive lol sometimes I even start to question why I do this hobby at all... It's fucking amazing but then I cum and i don't know what to do with myself. Maybe I should just book HH sessions then (!!!)

 

[ElCapitain]

So I'm a younger gentleman... under 30... It's not like I physically can't do it... I just seem to lose interest in sex, kind of like after your masturbate and all of a sudden find porn repulsive lol sometimes I even start to question why I do this hobby at all... It's fucking amazing but then I cum and i don't know what to do with myself. Maybe I should just book HH sessions then (!!!)

Have you considered booking massage sessions instead of SPs? I'm a single SOG person myself (always have been), and I can enjoy a two hour MA session intensely, whereas I feel quite a bit of pressure with SPs because you're constantly trying to manage when you pop, and then once you pop, it does seem like the rest of the time is for naught.

Also, I wouldn't be taking viagra or any PDE-5i inhibitors at your age... you don't need it, and there are risks that don't offset the benefit at your age (google "viagra" and "long-term hearing loss" for instance).

 

[kherg007]

So I'm a younger gentleman... under 30... It's not like I physically can't do it... I just seem to lose interest in sex, kind of like after your masturbate and all of a sudden find porn repulsive lol sometimes I even start to question why I do this hobby at all... It's fucking amazing but then I cum and i don't know what to do with myself. Maybe I should just book HH sessions then (!!!)

Or learn to prolong the hr session. I like the unrushed feel of the hour vs the hhr. I in fact put my watch somewhere so I can keep track to try to time things a bit and also so I don't take undue advantage of the lovely lady's time. Do more foreplay...just feel her loveliness...enjoy that....I can be like that - when I'm done...OK all is well! No need to do this again today...(tomorrow...another story lol). So don't worry about it is my advice. Hell - in this hobby you can punch above your weight and then have warm thoughts for a long time. Enjoy that.

 

[trippingwalker]

Have you considered booking massage sessions instead of SPs? I'm a single SOG person myself (always have been), and I can enjoy a two hour MA session intensely, whereas I feel quite a bit of pressure with SPs because you're constantly trying to manage when you pop, and then once you pop, it does seem like the rest of the time is for naught.

Also, I wouldn't be taking viagra or any PDE-5i inhibitors at your age... you don't need it, and there are risks that don't offset the benefit at your age (google "viagra" and "long-term hearing loss" for instance).

Yeah as a practicing musician I think i'm done with viagra! I had no idea... Thanks for that. And no... I've never considered booking massage sessions. Mainly because I'm not quite sure what to expect/restrictions/rules/etc... I like SPs because I always get bbbj and i get to do DATO/DATY and of course the FS! You can PM me if there's something you think I should know or look into... I'm open!

Or learn to prolong the hr session. I like the unrushed feel of the hour vs the hhr. I in fact put my watch somewhere so I can keep track to try to time things a bit and also so I don't take undue advantage of the lovely lady's time. Do more foreplay...just feel her loveliness...enjoy that....I can be like that - when I'm done...OK all is well! No need to do this again today...(tomorrow...another story lol). So don't worry about it is my advice. Hell - in this hobby you can punch above your weight and then have warm thoughts for a long time. Enjoy that.

This is usually what I do... thankfully it's not a premature ejaculation issue. Sometimes if I'm going to pop too soon I just pull out and change the pace... Sometimes though I just gotta finish. Thanks! I'll try to worship these beauties until the last 10-15 mins (since I'm done with V and don't want to go the way of L.V.B.)