Is anal sex gay?

[Questor]

Article in Ryerson newspaper
http://www.theeyeopener.com/article/3788

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Anal sex is sweeping the nation. Once the domain of sweaty, buff men plowing each other in the corners of bathhouses, ass-pounding is now moving to the mainstream.
In a survey of 100,000 women printed in Redbook magazine, 43 per cent had taken it in the caboose from their partner. Of those, 40 per cent liked it.

<snip>
She also refutes the myth that anal sex is gay.

“Many gay men don’t have anal sex at all. The most common sex practice among gay men is probably fellatio. The anus doesn’t have a sexual orientation, which is why it’s possible for heterosexual men to be pleased anally by women partners.”

However, before you rush out to buy a strap-on or ram your cock up your sweetie’s rectum, there are a few things that you should know.

So, its official...liking it up the ass for guys is not gay. It just feels good. The anus had no sexual orientation.

 

[a 1 player]

ahem.. ah, yeah, ok.

 

[S.C. Joe]

Its still "gay" to me.

I see the only reason to have a "butthole" is to take a "dump". Never done it and never will-even if she wants me to. Can't get it out of my head its unclean and unhealthy, maybe it can be done clean and safe but I still will pass.

 

[sailorsix]

That reminds me...I had a great session with Lucy on Mt Pleasant last week. There is something about the prostate massage that quadrouples the orgasm.

 

[a 1 player]

Honestly, I think it is only gay when there is another man involved. I good prostate massage is far from gay, though opinions may differ.

 

[gnostic]

ahh, but how does one start exploring? I'm a heterosexual guy not used to anal penetration --> the closest I've come is my family doctor checking my prostate, and even that feels slightly unpleasant.

Are there SP's out there who have a good rep for, um, deflowering virgins, in a gentle and respectful way?

 

[train]

If only 40 per cent liked it why is it sweeping the nation ?

 

[a 1 player]

If only 40 per cent liked it why is it sweeping the nation ?

That would actually be 40% of the 43% who have tried it making it somewhere around 17% I think.

 

[SilverC]

If only 40 per cent liked it why is it sweeping the nation ?

Good question train!! When I read the snippet from the article it says 43% have tried it and of them 40% liked it. I think that works out to just a little over 17% of those surveyed liked it.

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

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im all about prostate play..in a way that is gentle and pleasurable, typically combined with lots oral. the key is using a great lube, finger condoms (so its smooth and hygenic) and lots of patience. it does take some finesse, for sure, but if done right, (not a lot of friction, knowing how to find the g spot)
the majority of men love it.

despite what some posters might think, its not a 'power' thing for me. its a pleasure thing. anything that is mind blowing, im all about!

the two combined (oral and prostate massage) give men the biggest orgasms i've ever seen.

 

[elmo]

You need to qualify the questions
Is it MF?
Is it MM?
Are you giving or receiving?

If it's MM and you are either giving or receiving...yes, you are a fag.

If it's FM and you are giving...no, you are not a fag.

If it's MF and your are receiving...you may be a fag at some point in the not too distant future.

 

[SilverC]

...

the two combined (oral and prostate massage) give men the biggest orgasms i've ever seen.

Absolutely!!!

 

[skypilot]

I have no problems with something being stuck up my pooper by a woman or a hot looking tranny. Gay? Who cares. I wish I was bi then I could double the pleasure.

Its still "gay" to me.
I see the only reason to have a "butthole" is to take a "dump". Never done it and never will-even if she wants me to. Can't get it out of my head its unclean and unhealthy, maybe it can be done clean and safe but I still will pass.

You sound like "you" protest "too" much. You sure "you" aren't harboring "homosexual" tendancies?
"Hmmm?"

 

[straight]

No...as long as it gives pleasure to both. gay is not defined by the way how he has sex.

 

[red]

Is anal sex gay?

well she seemed happy

 

[luv4lust]

warning never greek a person who has gas you might just go flying out that ass

 

[jwmorrice]

If everybody would have just stick to having sex the way god meant it to be...

Jesus Christ! You're talkin' direct to the almighty????

jwm

 

[JohnLarue]

If its two dudes its gay
If your throwing & she catching then....... well?

 

[David Beckham 23]

If its two dudes its gay
If your throwing & she catching then....... well?

If it goes up your ass and it's a dick or a reasonable facsimile, it's gay.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

I dont care how you rationalize it, if it involves having one guys dick in another guys ass, it's gay.

Not that there's anything wrong with it - if you're into that sort of thing.