Internet dating sites

Icespot is bang on. U must be confident, have your shit together and be the leader in relationship.
 
Icespot is bang on. U must be confident, have your shit together and be the leader in relationship.


1 approach with confidence. Women want a confident guy.

2 Never stand there thinking of approaching. That is creepy. Either approach or leave. You can always come back if you have not creeped her out


3 Do not over think it and psych yourself out. Stop making it such a big deal. If you cannot stop being a drama king then start with small things. Open doors with no further expectations. Think of some other small stuff then go do it.
 
I was on POF and only had positive experiences, probably dated about 40 women on there, my wife being the last one. We have a great relationship and two wonderful kids. I never dated anyone so perfect for me.

The other ladies where also pretty good. But I learned to avoid the ones with their longest relationship being 1 year or less and in their 30s. Unless they are Doctors or Engineers, no excuse for having such short relationships.

They also happen to be very attractive with major daddy issues. They usually have a line like "are there any good men left", "will a man restore my faith in men", etc. Daddy broke them and only he can undo the damage.

Also, I met my first wife on Lava life, its something else now. We had 3 kids together and we are still best of friends.

I recommend online dating over bar pick ups.

But take the time to read the profiles and analyze what people write. They tell you so much about their real selves, without them knowing.

Most importantly dont take things personally, and you have to be an Alfa male. Fake it to you make...

Do a search for how to be a badass.

The problem with a lot of the information here such as your statement is that it’s outdated. A lot of these sites started off great but most have deteriorated into a mine field and aren’t worth the time or money.
Checking the reviews doesn’t help because a lot of these sites can dispute negative reviews and have them removed.
 
Concerning all the advice on dating, not that there is t good advice, unfortunately it’s not that simple. Just like most skills (music, dance, athletics, acting, doctor, lawyer, etc, etc) most people can practice all they want and will never be good at some things. Not to say that the people that are good at what they do didn’t work for it, but it’s something you have to have a knack for to be good at. All the advice and practice can’t make you a pro at everything. That’s where a good dating site or dating business could be a big help to initiate the initial meetings that so many people of both sexes have a hard time with or simply don’t have the time. Unfortunately many of these sites are money grabs taking advantage of these people.