I'm An Ass...

There is no good time to break up. If that was the moment then u went with it, fine.

Would it have been better to lie, and pretend everything was ok on the birthday, give her a wonderful celebration, make her think things are great, then suckerpunch her with it the following day??

Breaking up hurts. I don't imagine that it hurts more or less on a birthday. Maybe if it was the same day her dad died or something.
 
Go put on some sack cloth, wipe yourself with ashes. Go..................and sin no more asshole.
 
spiff said:
There will be an apology....

There will not be a gift certificate.....

I have received an email requestiong more of an explanation, the response will be in person not over email and I will APOLOGISE...

I'm not looking for validation, just wanted to get it off my chest, trust me I received a number of calls from mutual friends and I have received an earful but again it is well deserved.

I'm done now, guess i just needed a beating from the Terbites....

I have to ask. Did you text the break up? Or do it by email? Or a voice mail?
How long were you together?

Fernie