I'd much rather my SO fucked a working girl (sorry, 'got companionship from a purveyor of erotic companionship', or whatever the PC term du jour is at the moment).
Look, a ho isn't out to steal anyone's husband. We're not going to phone up the wife and whine to her about how her hubby has been leading us on. We're not going to get knocked up and insist you dump your family and marry us. We're not going to be pissed you can't spend Christmas/Yom Kippur/Valentines with us. We're not going to stalk you. You're not going to break our hearts and make us do a Glenn Close/boiling bunny on you.
We're safer, and we're usually cleaner. A husband might f*ck an escort, but he leaves his wife for the affair. Which do you think most women would prefer? It might still be cheating, but it's a lot safer in the long run.
- Morgan