If you caught your SO/wife/GF cheating, what would you do?
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Many members would agree I think:
Cheating with a women - All sex acts must be performed in a threesome (YEAH!)
Cheating with a man - Tell her and the man to join TERB, tell her why not you've been on TERB three months prior to meeting her and the SPs are more Sexier and Hornier than Her! If she really cares about the other guy than make him happy (like you are) by making him a member.
Cheating with a women - All sex acts must be performed in a threesome (YEAH!)
Cheating with a man - Tell her and the man to join TERB, tell her why not you've been on TERB three months prior to meeting her and the SPs are more Sexier and Hornier than Her! If she really cares about the other guy than make him happy (like you are) by making him a member.
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Its Over
Cause there is too much mistrust, disrespect, arguing, discontent, sympathy, loathing and guilt after the fact for the two of you to continue.
Seeing as you are on here.....I assume your cheating as well.
So be nice...CALL IT QUITS...Its over.
Just duck out nicely.
UNLESS..shes stinking rich....
then pretend you don't know...for a while..and spend her cash!!
Cause there is too much mistrust, disrespect, arguing, discontent, sympathy, loathing and guilt after the fact for the two of you to continue.
Seeing as you are on here.....I assume your cheating as well.
So be nice...CALL IT QUITS...Its over.
Just duck out nicely.
UNLESS..shes stinking rich....
then pretend you don't know...for a while..and spend her cash!!
I totally agree here...it has been know for some couples to get through this with counseling, but not without a very rocky road until things can be somewhat "good" again.GOLEAFSGO67 said:
I would say...see ya later..how could you ever trust your partner again? I know I could not, and the constant..wondering what they are doing when they are not around..it would eat you alive.
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Swinging is about relationships. I would ask him if he is interested in an open relationship? If he says no, say "Too bad 'cause your GF is soooo hot". You are a lucky guy and leave it at that.
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I'm not sure I would care that much. I'm pretty easy going lol.
I would be slightly annoyed - but it would just mean that I get a free pass to cheat.
I would be slightly annoyed - but it would just mean that I get a free pass to cheat.
That's what we did.dapperdon said:
Being "cheated on" (i.e. lied to, she's sneaking around behind your back, etc.) is no fun. But having a sexy confident promiscuous woman in bed every night is kind of hot. And it's hot seeing her get excited as I decribe my latest trip to the MP.
This is the key. It depends on why she cheated. In my experience, women in general don't cheat for the hell of it. Unlike most guys, who would fuck just about any reasonably attractive woman if he could be assured of no consequences/no strings attached, most women won't fuck around just for the sake of variety.JohnFK said:
Cheating is often a cry for help, and often the woman wants to get caught. It's basically a wake-up call to hubby. If you're not making your wife feel attractive and sexy on a daily basis (and that includes fucking her on a regular basis), she will fall for the first reasonably decent guy who pays her a compliment and makes her feel good about herself.
For my wife, once we fixed up the relationship, she didn't really feel the need to sleep around. Nor does she feel jealous when I get the occasional massage with happy ending, because I continue to make her feel sexy and wanted. Still, she participates on a couple dating sites and gets a real charge out of having dozens of guys email her on a weekly basis wanting to wine and dine her, and then take her to a fancy hotel for a roll in the bed. Every couple months she'll pick out a lucky guy out of the 100s and suck and fuck his brains out.
What to Do with a cheating ---
Let's see.
1. If it's the wife, the question is: Do you love her? Answer that question and the rest is easy.
2. a. If it's the SO/GF, and you love her too, the rest is easy.
b. If you enjoy her company w/o love, then stick around on an NSA basis till one of you moves on.
Let's see.
1. If it's the wife, the question is: Do you love her? Answer that question and the rest is easy.
2. a. If it's the SO/GF, and you love her too, the rest is easy.
b. If you enjoy her company w/o love, then stick around on an NSA basis till one of you moves on.
Yes, and some of us are single or divorced and in the later category retired from hobbying during the intermediate phase.james t kirk said:
I'm not trying to claim to be holier. But although there is plenty of room for hypocrisy - not on that point.
And I think my first point still stands - very, very difficult to ever make it work again!
My point is that so many men think that it's fine for them to engage in the hobby, or have a FB, but completely expect their wives to remain monogomous with them.
Though, that said, women more often than men have affairs of the heart and not just sex.
I would have no problem with an open relationship as long as the openess was kept on a sexual level. I love sexy promiscuous women.
Though, that said, women more often than men have affairs of the heart and not just sex.
I would have no problem with an open relationship as long as the openess was kept on a sexual level. I love sexy promiscuous women.
