Ice breakers for first visit.

[porn_lover]

I am relatively new to this hobby and would like some tips from all the veterans on this board, also SP's advice is welcome too.
What are some good ice breakers when you meet a SP for the first time?
Do not want to be too intrusive, instead set up a romantic mood.

Thanks

PS: Please read post #11 for further clarification =).

 

[danmand]

I am relatively new to this hobby and would like some tips from all the veterans on this board, also SP's advice is welcome too.
What are some good ice breakers when you meet a SP for the first time?
Do not want to be too intrusive, instead set up a romantic mood.

Thanks

Just bring cash.

 

[tboy]

I am relatively new to this hobby and would like some tips from all the veterans on this board, also SP's advice is welcome too.
What are some good ice breakers when you meet a SP for the first time?
Do not want to be too intrusive, instead set up a romantic mood.

Thanks

Do a search on here, there's lots of good advice for newbies but here's what I suggest:
1) Have a selection of beverages on hand (fruit juice, soda, bottled water, and wine if you care to)
2) Set the mood with candles, incense etc
3) I find that the more you put into it, the more you get out of it so take the time to talk to her and put her (and yourself) at ease
4) Tell her a bit about yourself, your likes, dislikes but DON'T I repeat DON'T have a mental "list" of what you want to do to her....I have heard many times from many different ladies that they positively HATE that....(plus it shows NO class). But DO have an idea in your head of what you want to do and if the session isn't going quite the way you would like it to, tactfully suggest something that will make it more to your liking.
5) RESPECT her first and foremost and always, afterall, she IS a lady and should be treated that way

The best advice I can give is R E L A X don't get so worked up you can't get worked up lol.

 

[train]

I am relatively new to this hobby and would like some tips from all the veterans on this board, also SP's advice is welcome too.
What are some good ice breakers when you meet a SP for the first time?
Do not want to be too intrusive, instead set up a romantic mood.

Thanks

The romanatic mood will all be one sided but if you want her to feel at ease you may want to consider:

For outcall:
1. Having the agreed amount in plain sight
2. Taking her coat and offering her a beverage when she arrives
3. Background music never hurt
4. Fresh breath and hygene
5. Don't jump her within the first 20 seconds...lol

 

[lookingforitallthetime]

Tell her you forgot your wallet at home.

Keep in mind ice may not be the only thing that gets broken.

 

[hairyfucker]

I just drop my pants. Everyone gets happy real quick.

 

[danmand]

I just drop my pants. Everyone gets happy real quick.

You have cash stashed in your underwear??

 

[tboy]

For the record: all these "cash cash cash" comments are not necessarily true. On more than one occasion I've had sp's leave forgetting the envelope and or not even bothering to count it.....so to some, it's not all about the money......

 

[hairyfucker]

For the record: all these "cash cash cash" comments are not necessarily true. On more than one occasion I've had sp's leave forgetting the envelope and or not even bothering to count it.....so to some, it's not all about the money......

tboy you are right on. all the SP's I have been with but one (from craigslist) never even looked at the money. i offered it and they put in away. the end. i think the comments about "cash" should be changed to "class". all I have ever seen is class from these women.

 

[nautilus]

...except the one from craigslist. Go figure.

 

[porn_lover]

Thanks to all those who replied, but I think I should have been more clear.
I know I have to treat the girls like ladies, my policy is treat others as I would like to be treated.
What I meant by ice breaker was, after both of us have settled in, business has been taken care off, it feels odd to just start the fun and no mood is set. What mini conversations can we have to ease into the fun??

Thanks

 

[cypherpunk]

What I meant by ice breaker was, after both of us have settled in, business has been taken care off, it feels odd to just start the fun and no mood is set. What mini conversations can we have to ease into the fun??

Well let's see what Monty Python has to contribute:

HUMPHREY: So, just listen. Now, did I or did I not... do... vaginal... juices?

PUPILS: Mmm. Mmm. Yes, sir. Yes, sir.

HUMPHREY: Name two ways of getting them flowing, Watson.

WATSON: R-- rubbing the clitoris, sir?

HUMPHREY: What's wrong with a kiss, boy? Hmm? Why not start her off with a nice kiss? ... You don't have to go leaping straight for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy.

WYMER: Suck the nipple, sir?

HUMPHREY: Good! Good. Well done, Wymer.

DUCKWORTH: Uh, stroking the thighs, sir.

HUMPHREY: Yes. Yes, I suppose so. Hmm?

PUPIL IN FRONT: Oh, sir. Biting the neck.

HUMPHREY: Yes. Good. Nibbling the earlobe, uhh, kneading the buttocks, and so on and so forth. So, we have all these possibilities before we stampede towards the clitoris, Watson.

WATSON: Yes, sir. Sorry, sir.

HUMPHREY: Now, all these forms of stimulation can now take place,...

Ultimately, one of you needs to just take the intiative with a little grace.

 

[ig-88]

Ice Breakers chewing gum:

http://www.hersheys.com/products/details/icebreakersgum.asp

 

[assoholic]

....Booze and dope.

 

[thirdtime]

If it's an incall: "Do you cum here often?"

 

[Aardvark154]

When I see this headline I think: http://www.popularmechanics.com/science/extreme_machines/4213353.html

 

[Mongrel4u]

one buddy of mine back in the days when you could FS at MPs used to just go to the room after selecting a girl.. strip naked with a raging hard on..and when she walks in the first words out of his mouth is.. "How much to fuck?" LMAO....he was great for stories and entertainment when pooning

in any event...

just be clean, civilized and your good

 

[MuffinMuncher]

Alot depends on the lady - agency girls are "on the clock" as soon as they make their check-in call, whereas independents are usually a bit more liberal about the time issue. Either way, you have to judge what to say and when to say it based on the personality of the SP.

A simple "I suppose we could continue this conversation in bed, please make yourself comfortable while I use the washroom.... dont start without me" usually works.