I reunited with my female friends that I went to school with

[Tashki]

I have learned more about myself as I interact with more women in my life outside of the sex industry. I reunited with my female friends I’ve known for more than half of my life. When I was younger, I did develop romantic feelings with most of them. A few of them when were kids and one of them when I was an adult. (this is why I think men can never be platonic friends with women) but now those feelings are gone (at least for now. I don’t think they will come back and I’ll tell you why). I think I have love for them though but it’s a different kind of love. It’s quite hard to describe. I don’t ever think about fucking their brains out or them giving me a sloppy toppy. I don’t have a sexual attraction to them compared to my regulars

My romantic and sexual feelings towards my regulars are far more powerful. I always think about my regulars; I always want to have sex with them, I think about having sex with them and sometimes I masturbate to their pictures online. I think ideally that these are the kinds of feelings that I should have if I want to date or be in a relationship with somebody otherwise I’d never be happy to be in a relationship with them.

This is not to exactly say that I want to be in a relationship with my regulars (even though I do) but I’m saying that I would need to develop those powerful feelings for a woman as I do with my regulars. In otherwords, that woman would need to have that archetype of the escorts that I have powerful feelings for. I’m wondering if you clients approach this the same way when it comes to dating?

 

[onomatopoeia]

A man and a woman were close platonic friends while attending University together, but they never dated each other.

Years later, they met again by chance, discussed old and new times over coffee, then they started a relationship.

On the night when they had sex together for the first time, the man was about to commence DATY when he remarked, "You have a beautiful pussy, [insert her name]. It's so symmetrical.".

She says "What are you, a gynecologist?".

"No, " he replies, "I'm a guy you went to college with".

 

[jsanchez]

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[NotADcotor]

A man and a woman were close platonic friends while attending University together, but they never dated each other.

Years later, they met again by chance, discussed old and new times over coffee, then they started a relationship.

On the night when they had sex together for the first time, the man was about to commence DATY when he remarked, "You have a beautiful pussy, [insert her name]. It's so symmetrical.".

She says "What are you, a gynecologist?".

"No, " he replies, "I'm a guy you went to college with".

I don't get it. I know the "rule" is if you have to explain it, it's not funny, but I never believed in that rule, so can I haz explanation?

 

[Leimonis]

I don't get it. I know the "rule" is if you have to explain it, it's not funny, but I never believed in that rule, so can I haz explanation?

I think the rule in this case works just as it should

 

[onomatopoeia]

I don't get it. I know the "rule" is if you have to explain it, it's not funny, but I never believed in that rule, so can I haz explanation?

It's the similarity between 'gynecologist' and 'guy you went to college with'.

 

[massman]

I have learned more about myself as I interact with more women in my life outside of the sex industry. I reunited with my female friends I’ve known for more than half of my life. When I was younger, I did develop romantic feelings with most of them. A few of them when were kids and one of them when I was an adult. (this is why I think men can never be platonic friends with women) but now those feelings are gone (at least for now. I don’t think they will come back and I’ll tell you why). I think I have love for them though but it’s a different kind of love. It’s quite hard to describe. I don’t ever think about fucking their brains out or them giving me a sloppy toppy. I don’t have a sexual attraction to them compared to my regulars

My romantic and sexual feelings towards my regulars are far more powerful. I always think about my regulars; I always want to have sex with them, I think about having sex with them and sometimes I masturbate to their pictures online. I think ideally that these are the kinds of feelings that I should have if I want to date or be in a relationship with somebody otherwise I’d never be happy to be in a relationship with them.

This is not to exactly say that I want to be in a relationship with my regulars (even though I do) but I’m saying that I would need to develop those powerful feelings for a woman as I do with my regulars. In otherwords, that woman would need to have that archetype of the escorts that I have powerful feelings for. I’m wondering if you clients approach this the same way when it comes to dating?

We’ve seen many of this type of post from you, many that are quite weird and baffling to me (no offence). But I do congratulate you, on a couple little breakthroughs here. Let me reframe some of what you have just told us. You have women in your life, who you once had romantic feelings for, that now you can set a reasonable boundary and enjoy them as friends, not as potential mates. So you have the potential to do the same with your “regulars”.

The issue is, sex and other types of physics intimacy activates much of the same parts of the brain that lead to feelings of attachment and love. But that is just a chemical reaction in your brain. Real attachment and love is far beyond that, it involves sharing real experiences together, not just sex, and requires some commitment and sacrifice (or willingness to sacrifice) as well. Now what you describe as “ideally the feelings I want to have in someone I date” is a bit warped. Yes, of course your romantic partner should turn you on, and you should look forward to being intimate with them. But you are looking at only one dimension.

I think many have said to you here in the past, that maybe this world is not for you. You are wrapped up in a confusion between sex and lust and love. You probably should step back, meet some down to earth women, get to know them, and see if some of that leads to relationships that satisfy what you are looking for. To quote a cliché, you were looking for love in the wrong places.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Well said @massman - this industry is not meant to find love - the exact opposite - meant to find relief imho. Love has no financial boundary - our industry - you better have a boundary.

 

[onomatopoeia]

I have learned more about myself as I interact with more women in my life outside of the sex industry. I reunited with my female friends I’ve known for more than half of my life. When I was younger, I did develop romantic feelings with most of them. A few of them when were kids and one of them when I was an adult. (this is why I think men can never be platonic friends with women) but now those feelings are gone (at least for now. I don’t think they will come back and I’ll tell you why). I think I have love for them though but it’s a different kind of love. It’s quite hard to describe. I don’t ever think about fucking their brains out or them giving me a sloppy toppy. I don’t have a sexual attraction to them compared to my regulars

My romantic and sexual feelings towards my regulars are far more powerful. I always think about my regulars; I always want to have sex with them, I think about having sex with them and sometimes I masturbate to their pictures online. I think ideally that these are the kinds of feelings that I should have if I want to date or be in a relationship with somebody otherwise I’d never be happy to be in a relationship with them.

This is not to exactly say that I want to be in a relationship with my regulars (even though I do) but I’m saying that I would need to develop those powerful feelings for a woman as I do with my regulars. In otherwords, that woman would need to have that archetype of the escorts that I have powerful feelings for. I’m wondering if you clients approach this the same way when it comes to dating?

It's VERY easy for men and women to be platonic friends, ESPECIALLY if neither is sexually attracted to the other.

If you have male friends, I'm assuming that you are not sexually attracted to them. So, why are you friends with them? It's probably a combination of common interests, intellectual compatibility, earned trust, past or current proximity, a common ethnic culture, social class or religion, and some degree of convenience. Those same similarities apply to women as well.

One big difference between having male friends and platonic women friends is that the women are more likely to introduce you to one of their friends who might be compatible with you physically, as well as mentally. A guy friend is more likely to keep her from you, particularly if he has unrequited romantic feelings. Very few men would want one of their buds to bang a woman that they could never get themselves.

 

[twoteeshots]

I have learned more about myself as I interact with more women in my life outside of the sex industry. I reunited with my female friends I’ve known for more than half of my life. When I was younger, I did develop romantic feelings with most of them. A few of them when were kids and one of them when I was an adult. (this is why I think men can never be platonic friends with women) but now those feelings are gone (at least for now. I don’t think they will come back and I’ll tell you why). I think I have love for them though but it’s a different kind of love. It’s quite hard to describe. I don’t ever think about fucking their brains out or them giving me a sloppy toppy. I don’t have a sexual attraction to them compared to my regulars

My romantic and sexual feelings towards my regulars are far more powerful. I always think about my regulars; I always want to have sex with them, I think about having sex with them and sometimes I masturbate to their pictures online. I think ideally that these are the kinds of feelings that I should have if I want to date or be in a relationship with somebody otherwise I’d never be happy to be in a relationship with them.

This is not to exactly say that I want to be in a relationship with my regulars (even though I do) but I’m saying that I would need to develop those powerful feelings for a woman as I do with my regulars. In otherwords, that woman would need to have that archetype of the escorts that I have powerful feelings for. I’m wondering if you clients approach this the same way when it comes to dating?

I don't believe it. If any of these women invited you to their place and dropped down to their knees, you'd do it in a heartbeat. You sound like you haven't been in a relationship in a long time (if ever) if you're comparing your feelings towards regulars and civilians. I don't particularly do DATY or kissing much while hobbying because that's not what I'm there for. I just enjoy putting women in poses while I shove my cock in one of their holes. The best sex you'll ever have is with somebody who wants you, not somebody you compensate for their time. Yes, in my experience, some SPs enjoy your company more than others, but it's just business. If you're younger than 30, get on dating apps or to the bar and try your luck there. The best things in life are free!

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I have learned more about myself as I interact with more women in my life outside of the sex industry. I reunited with my female friends I’ve known for more than half of my life. When I was younger, I did develop romantic feelings with most of them. A few of them when were kids and one of them when I was an adult. (this is why I think men can never be platonic friends with women) but now those feelings are gone (at least for now. I don’t think they will come back and I’ll tell you why). I think I have love for them though but it’s a different kind of love. It’s quite hard to describe. I don’t ever think about fucking their brains out or them giving me a sloppy toppy. I don’t have a sexual attraction to them compared to my regulars

My romantic and sexual feelings towards my regulars are far more powerful. I always think about my regulars; I always want to have sex with them, I think about having sex with them and sometimes I masturbate to their pictures online. I think ideally that these are the kinds of feelings that I should have if I want to date or be in a relationship with somebody otherwise I’d never be happy to be in a relationship with them.

This is not to exactly say that I want to be in a relationship with my regulars (even though I do) but I’m saying that I would need to develop those powerful feelings for a woman as I do with my regulars. In otherwords, that woman would need to have that archetype of the escorts that I have powerful feelings for. I’m wondering if you clients approach this the same way when it comes to dating?

What do you normally do with them (do you book longer sessions and take them on dates ?)
what do you talk about ?
what is it about the setting that make the experience memorable?
how are your senses engaged during your time with the sp?
go from there on how to replicate with others.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I don't believe it. If any of these women invited you to their place and dropped down to their knees, you'd do it in a heartbeat. You sound like you haven't been in a relationship in a long time (if ever) if you're comparing your feelings towards regulars and civilians. I don't particularly do DATY or kissing much while hobbying because that's not what I'm there for. I just enjoy putting women in poses while I shove my cock in one of their holes. The best sex you'll ever have is with somebody who wants you, not somebody you compensate for their time. Yes, in my experience, some SPs enjoy your company more than others, but it's just business. If you're younger than 30, get on dating apps or to the bar and try your luck there. The best things in life are free!

going to the bar or a club is literally a horrific suggestion.
especially dependent on the individuals personality. especially If they’re not a drinker.
sex In early mid twenties was not that great
free sex made me feel more empty my experience
you could say it’s just business for every interaction in life. (marriage- it’s just business to save on taxes !)
That barista doesn’t want me to actually have a good day - it’s just business!
I’m not delusional - many sp do actually catch feelings for clients as well - humans, not robot cash machines. (Unless that’s what you purchased online).
sometimes I get free samples for products in the mail or through loyalty programs but they cause allergic reactions or I don’t like the scent or simply have no use for them.… not enjoyable but nice notion

 

[princekwekua]

My romantic and sexual feelings towards my regulars are far more powerful. I always think about my regulars; I always want to have sex with them, I think about having sex with them and sometimes I masturbate to their pictures online. I think ideally that these are the kinds of feelings that I should have if I want to date or be in a relationship with somebody otherwise I’d never be happy to be in a relationship with them.

This is not to exactly say that I want to be in a relationship with my regulars (even though I do) but I’m saying that I would need to develop those powerful feelings for a woman as I do with my regulars. In otherwords, that woman would need to have that archetype of the escorts that I have powerful feelings for. I’m wondering if you clients approach this the same way when it comes to dating?

Great escorts work out to keep their bodies in shape and then deliver service to our liking so we will retain them as regulars. It is a business. And your (our) regulars have obviously succeeded in that respect. But keep in mind they will have nothing to do with you (us) if you (we) werent paying them.
A civilian who has sex with you without payment has more genuine feelings for you.
Instead of a temporary rush, you seem to dwell in the land of fantasy where you perpetually prefer the fake escort love to the genuine thing. Which is not a recipe for success. Rather, it is a path to disaster. Be careful and good luck.

 

[princekwekua]

This is an image dropped on my twitter feed by a escort I follow. Stunning beauty who delivers all the acronyms. Which is why we adore our regulars. They deliver a fantasy hard to find in real life. But, as hard as it is sometimes, we should not confuse this existence with reality. It is not.

 

[Spunky1]

 

[richaceg]

I don't get it. I know the "rule" is if you have to explain it, it's not funny, but I never believed in that rule, so can I haz explanation?

you don't need to be a gynecologist to know what a beautiful pussy looks like...

 

[onomatopoeia]

you don't need to be a gynecologist to know what a beautiful pussy looks like...

You also don't need to go to college to know that.

 

[NotADcotor]

It's the similarity between 'gynecologist' and 'guy you went to college with'.

Ah, I would never have picked up on that. I suppose when my mother told me I was special, it was in the modern sense of the term.

 

[richaceg]

You also don't need to go to college to know that.

you just need to be a thirsty dude...