I Have A Question

[MindJohn]

To Annessa

Granted I have seen many real men out here posting respectably but the 'rate/grade' system.... I just see that and thank God it's not my name because I know I wouldn't be able to handle it emotionally.

I honestly feel at that point I would feel like 2 cents for the first time ever in this profession and I wouldn't be able to 'wash that clean'

I worked very hard for years to keep my 'job' very discreet and I'd really like to keep it that way since I want to be a doctor and I don't need this coming back to haunt me in 10 years.

Annessa
xoxo

Annessa,

Good for you for having those emotions because they do a lot more for your appeal in the eyes of your clients than those physical features rated above.

This advice won't stick with you for ten years but I'd like to plant the idea somewhere deep inside that you would do well to take-on any later "rediscoveries" with a poised front. The woman who ducks into the nurse's station at the mere chance that she recognizes someone from her past only invites a curious insider into a nerve-wracking game of pursuit.

The direct approach throws them off a bit and when they sense you're not made uncomfortable then the chase becomes less entertaining.

All I can do in closing is hope that you offer some of that poise and emotion with each person you see in your present work.

Good luck with that career goal!

 

[gramage]

what man would fake it with an SP? thats a considerate person, even I wouldn't do that and I've had many people tell me I'm the nicest guy they've ever met!
I can totally respect the point of view that explicit reviews can be degrading. I can only imagine how I would feel if my penis was rated less then an 8 on a public board. I've used scales (although never as specific as the examples here) but may have to rethink that now.

 

[Jaman50]

I hear what you are saying

selina,

let us know how much feed back is OK vs what is too much .. In your opinion ??

 

[Annessa]

Re: Au contraire

I am disappointed to say that some of my best dates absolutely refuse to post reviews......... These fine gentlemen are so gracious, (or paranoid) that I am left wondering: was that not awesome or did someone slip me some E?
Yet I rarely receive public feedback......Repeat appointments yes, courteous e-mails sure, but reviews? Nope......
Hmmm, maybe I imagined all of the wildness, maybe they were faking it! Maybe they have other SP's!!!
Regardless, of the reviews that have indeed filtered in, I find that often I am pleasantly surprised by comments on things I may have felt insecure about, and have taken great pleasure in finding inadvertent complements from statements like "she doesn't need makeup" etc. On the other hand, some may use blunt language, but really, this is a men's forum and it's to be expected, like a virtual locker room.
Personally, I feel that any feedback is a great opportunity to improve our level of customer service, and reflect upon whether we are succesfully projecting ourselves in a world where fantasy and reality merge, hopefully in sync with expectations........


xoxo Selina
http://www.geocities.com/sinfulselina

I agree with you 100% but it's not that difficult to use some taste when reviewing. That's all I'm saying.



Annessa

 

[8.5" and Thick]

Discretion---a two way street....

Annessa,

I for one would respect the wishes of the SP, and I would expect confidentiality from her as well. SP and the recipient put a lot of faith/trust in each other --- the request to not review is not unreasonable and should be respected. If the person receiving the service is not happy, he does not have to go back.

I believe that some reviews go up because, truthfully, there are some very poor SP's out there and its sometimes hard to digest a bad experience.

Just my two cents.

8.5"

 

[slyjohn]

If a lady does not want to be reviewed, I will not review her.

Almost all good SPs who are not reviewed here are great women.

So, if some of you say "Well, how can we find out about this girl if she doesn't have any reviews or I don't want to waste my money away on a bad experience. "

Well, to sum it up, you will not have a bad review from a SP that is not reviewed. All bad experiences my us will be posted and some might be debated between us.

my two cents

 

[Jaman50]

RESPECT the Lady's Wishes

This is a very interesting and thought provoking thread. Great idea Annessa.

It really hits at the question of RESPECT for the ladies.

I have adopted the input from various people here especially the ladies and will in the future send a draft of a proposed review to a lady for her approval prior to posting.

 

[Jaman50]

Value of a Review

A comment on the value of reviews.

They give a small window on the gent as well as the lady hence one can asses.. abet only preliminary … whether the lady is one who would possibly enjoy a meeting with the observer (reader of the review)

One must not underestimate the value of communication prior to setting up a meeting to .. as best possible.. ensure that both people are on the same page on what would make an enjoyable encounter.

Talking (via e-mail, PM’s, phone) goes a long way to avoiding dissapointments in life. IMVHO

 

[homonger]

Oh geez, this topic again.

It should go without saying that if an sp asks not to be reviewed then the hobbyist should accede to her wishes.

As far as the wide range of reviewing styles on this board go, I personally do prefer the numerical scales to the flowery prose, but I appreciate a few explanatory sentences alongside the numbers. I don't honestly pay much attention to the exact numbers, provided they are not very low. I can see how the notion of reducing an intimate encounter down to a few numbers might cause some to bristle, but personally, I would rather scan a few numbers and sentences than plow through some of the longwinded "art" we get around here.

And you know what, I may not like how some guys express themselves, but this is a review board, and I appreciate when guys offer up information, no matter how overblown, inarticulate or crude they may be. I'm all for keeping an eye on the level of public crudeness, but anyone who thinks that boys don't talk about sex with girls in graphic details at some point is deluding themselves.