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Hypothetical questions regarding respect and this industry

plugitin

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Good afternoon everyone.
I'm curious on both the working ladies as well as the patrons of those ladies, opinion and point of view.
Would you want to visit a provider who thinks lowly of the people who pay her bills?
If an attendant views her clients as guys who need to "grow up cuz you pay to get your dick jerked"..and are considered creepy because of that and participating in these boards?...would you still want to see her?

Ladies does this seem disrespectful toward you? Like the provider feels what you do is a disservice to yourselves? Does it seem she has an arrogant vibe in making such a statement?

I'm not sure where to go with this information but I feel like I should post about the individual in question.
Thoughts?
 

Nesbot

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It would be ideal if everybody respected each other but thats just not realistic. Just like in any other part of life, there are people who are jaded, jerks who feel entitled, and people who are too selfish to look past their own needs and desires.

You will never get respect from everybody you meet in any walk of life. This is no different.
 

blondefan

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It would be ideal if everybody respected each other but thats just not realistic. Just like in any other part of life, there are people who are jaded, jerks who feel entitled, and people who are too selfish to look past their own needs and desires.

You will never get respect from everybody you meet in any walk of life. This is no different.
this. unfortunately it happens. I have heard stories from Dancers, MAs and SPs.
 

plugitin

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I think my best course of action is to simply avoid that large chain of spas the lady works for.
Eventually she will self destruct, already been through two other spas, and everyone will know who it was.
 

Gntlmn

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I think my best course of action is to simply avoid that large chain of spas the lady works for.
Eventually she will self destruct, already been through two other spas, and everyone will know who it was.
Some feel "this is a review board so provide a review so we all know" but I agree with you: Just let her take herself out thru lack of visits. I suppose letting the spa manager know can help (don't expect immediate action because they have to balance out the truth from the "she didn't do what I want waaaah" sour-grapes liars)
 

ButtMonkey

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These things work themselves out. Always.
Over the years ive seen multiple ladies go from 10 across the board to bitter selfish drama queen. Absolute top stars in bed to total starfish bitching the whole encounter.

Its not an easy game, and it takes brains, balls & planning to survive. It changes a person over time. Most ladies lack at least one of those skills, and eventually shit falls appart.

The pattern is easy to spot. And once engaged, its a matter of months, if not weeks until she quits the industry, or the industry quits her.
 

Sharemyinkwell

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I don't want to avoid this thread plugitin but respect is something lacking in many areas of this industry. The list is endless really.
-How the general public views this industry
-How some clients view providers
-How some providers view clients

Social Media is making more of these opinions accessible to people.
I feel, let people say what they want. In the long run any provider who looks down on clients and broadcasts it on social media is not only doing herself a disservice but to providers in general.
Any poor etiquette or inappropriate behavior by either side of the industry doesn't do any good for that side of the industry and even the industry as a whole.
Well said sir!!!
 
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