How would you feel if you got rejected for an ugly guy.
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I'd think...
...that clearly I am not done maturing if I spent time concerning myself why people make the choices they do in regards to relationships, as though I somehow had a divine right to be with whomever I chose...and others right to chose was secondary to that.
Yup...that is what I'd think.
...that clearly I am not done maturing if I spent time concerning myself why people make the choices they do in regards to relationships, as though I somehow had a divine right to be with whomever I chose...and others right to chose was secondary to that.
Yup...that is what I'd think.
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OnTheWayOut
Makes me say she picked the right person. You sound shallow, vain and one dimensional.hyperdog said:
"...clearly uglier than you."????? I guess that's in your, er, "humble" opinion. Different people find different features and qualities attractive. Deal with it.hyperdog said:
For what it's worth, I'm no Brad Pitt. I was associated with group of individuals in which a very attractive female in that group told me she was attracted to me. I was stunned. Every guy in this group lusted for her, and many were more attractive than me. I told her this, and she simply said "I like your type" and she also said that while other males were attractive, she did not like their personality traits as much as she liked mine. Go and figure...
As for the Original Poster, how does your situation make me feel? Pretty damned good - it shows that guys with ego's don't always finish first.
As for the Original Poster, how does your situation make me feel? Pretty damned good - it shows that guys with ego's don't always finish first.
Obviously, there are many other factors to consider among them, the personalities of those involved.
However, as a "truism" few of us enjoy being rejected.
However, as a "truism" few of us enjoy being rejected.
I think by asking this question, you have invalidated your statement "and it is not you are an asshole or anything".hyperdog said:
Nice grammar, BTW....
That really is the best way to look at it.Mongrel4u said:
You thought she was hot, but she rejected you and she went with someone else (maybe she likes guys with a certain eye colour, hairstyle, accent, sense of humour, etc. Maybe she likes a certain zodiac sign, or likes the 'vibes' one guy gives off). So, fine, her loss - move on to another hot girl. As I said, relationships are fickle. Girls do not always go for the guy who is the most hot/biggest hunk/most attractive.
There are a multitude of things that attract girls to a guy (or not). For instance, most hot university age girls in Toronto are Liberals or NDP, so, for example, wearing a 'John Birch Society' t-shirt wouldn't help one get dates in the 18-22 age group even if you were a hunk.
I guess i would have to think
"Nice girl, not too bright"
& then move on
Actually I have seen the other side more often
The chick goes for the really good looking guy even though you can tell a mile away he is shallow , self centered & will treat her like shit
Then I just think
"Nice girl, not too bright"
& then move on
"Nice girl, not too bright"
& then move on
Actually I have seen the other side more often
The chick goes for the really good looking guy even though you can tell a mile away he is shallow , self centered & will treat her like shit
Then I just think
"Nice girl, not too bright"
& then move on
