How old is too old to attend your first orgy?

[Oistins]

How old is too old to attend your first orgy?


I realize that there are multiple variables in play. Are you confident, unique, fit, tall, good looking, funny, polite….?

I think that I may have some of those qualities (average + really) and I’ve been invited to attend 6 orgies this year but my schedule did not allow for any of these. I understand that most of the guys there are in their 40’s but I’m an older gent and would like to attend at least one or two of these in future. Should I be nervous?

I know a lot of the facts. A good set of the people there know each other already. You are going to see some things. You do what you are comfortable with, but with how many girls is it realistic to play with in a 3 hour period?

I’ve heard a lot of the complements from SPs (you will definitely not be the oldest guy there, you can definitely handle it, you have the dick for it…) and some may be genuine but I would have thought that any SP inviting me would have an ulterior motive. Are there that few safe, clean guys out there that have the resources?

Will I be embarrassed, or is judgement usually checked at the door?

I’ve been painted some fairly energetic pictures. Would it be better to be more of a voyeur the first time?

A larger play party may allow me to be more anonymous, but I may know more girls at a smaller do. Which is recommended?

Anybody out there remember their first? All comments and opinions are welcome. Am I overthinking this?

 

[Robert Mugabe]

How old is too old to attend your first orgy?


I realize that there are multiple variables in play. Are you confident, unique, fit, tall, good looking, funny, polite….?

I think that I may have some of those qualities (average + really) and I’ve been invited to attend 6 orgies this year but my schedule did not allow for any of these. I understand that most of the guys there are in their 40’s but I’m an older gent and would like to attend at least one or two of these in future. Should I be nervous?

I know a lot of the facts. A good set of the people there know each other already. You are going to see some things. You do what you are comfortable with, but with how many girls is it realistic to play with in a 3 hour period?

I’ve heard a lot of the complements from SPs (you will definitely not be the oldest guy there, you can definitely handle it, you have the dick for it…) and some may be genuine but I would have thought that any SP inviting me would have an ulterior motive. Are there that few safe, clean guys out there that have the resources?

Will I be embarrassed, or is judgement usually checked at the door?

I’ve been painted some fairly energetic pictures. Would it be better to be more of a voyeur the first time?

A larger play party may allow me to be more anonymous, but I may know more girls at a smaller do. Which is recommended?

Anybody out there remember their first? All comments and opinions are welcome. Am I overthinking this?

I don't know. Does this look good?

 

[newguy20]

How old is too old to attend your first orgy?


I realize that there are multiple variables in play. Are you confident, unique, fit, tall, good looking, funny, polite….?

I think that I may have some of those qualities (average + really) and I’ve been invited to attend 6 orgies this year but my schedule did not allow for any of these. I understand that most of the guys there are in their 40’s but I’m an older gent and would like to attend at least one or two of these in future. Should I be nervous?

I know a lot of the facts. A good set of the people there know each other already. You are going to see some things. You do what you are comfortable with, but with how many girls is it realistic to play with in a 3 hour period?

I’ve heard a lot of the complements from SPs (you will definitely not be the oldest guy there, you can definitely handle it, you have the dick for it…) and some may be genuine but I would have thought that any SP inviting me would have an ulterior motive. Are there that few safe, clean guys out there that have the resources?

Will I be embarrassed, or is judgement usually checked at the door?

I’ve been painted some fairly energetic pictures. Would it be better to be more of a voyeur the first time?

A larger play party may allow me to be more anonymous, but I may know more girls at a smaller do. Which is recommended?

Anybody out there remember their first? All comments and opinions are welcome. Am I overthinking this?

I attended my first in my mid fifties. A lot of guys were younger than me but there was at least one older gent.
I had a good time and didn't feel out of place. I had some play with four different ladies and saw two of them again later. It turned out to be not really my thing but I attended a second orgy later, just to be sure.
If you're curious and want to check it out, you should do it.
You only live once.

 

[IM469]

What side of the coin are we referring to ?

On my side, I'm never too old.

 

[Mr Deeds]

I was in high-school my first time, I later have been to several I don't think there is an age limit just go have fun. BTW if there's room for one more I'm in

 

[Oistins]

I was in high-school my first time, I later have been to several I don't think there is an age limit just go have fun. BTW if there's room for one more I'm in

Stay tuned. Might have to screen. Then again, if you’ve been to several, maybe not.

 

[Joyrection]

Go for it and find out. I clearly need to find better connected friends.

 

[jalimon]

I have done many. Usually you get a few info before the event as to what type of guys the girl wants... (no black, no older then X age, only fit people... etc...) So you can judge before hand.

In gangbangs it happened 2-3 times that I back off. I just encourage others as they were so much younger then me (like in early 30 and me mid fifties...) they were destroying... oups sorry, pleasing the girl very well without me. I would just get a blow and finish quickly but I was not on par with the others. But never other participant made me felt out of place.

Once in a swinger party I left before any action as it was obvious they were all couples! I was the only single dude. That is more problematic then your age I would say.

Once in a ganbang a dude was probably in late 70 early 80's.... Still cool chaps! He waited and waited and went last and after 4-5 minutes of pounding he screamed the loudest orgasm scream ever and then silence... I said out loud 'At least he died happy!' It was quite humorous...

 

[NotADcotor]

 

[Oistins]

Love it

 

[Sonic Temple]

I'm with you @Oistins - been invited but never could pull the trigger. I really want too but man I wish I could get over this hesitation. It took me forever to do a duo and much kudo's to @EricaBowes and @MissSageHunter for making feel so welcomed and relaxed. Tbh - would love to attend one of their play parties eventually but until that time comes I will read and read until I can finally pull the trigger.

 

[Oistins]

I'm with you @Oistins - been invited but never could pull the trigger. I really want too but man I wish I could get over this hesitation. It took me forever to do a duo and much kudo's to @EricaBowes and @MissSageHunter for making feel so welcomed and relaxed. Tbh - would love to attend one of their play parties eventually but until that time comes I will read and read until I can finally pull the trigger.

You stay tuned too. I saw that you wanted to go once before. I bet we would make good roping partners.

 

[Sonic Temple]

You stay turned, too. I saw that you wanted to go once before. I bet we would make good roping partners.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

You stay turned, too. I saw that you wanted to go once before. I bet we would make good roping partners.

Or if it you can't find any takers....groping partners.

 

[Oistins]

Or if it you can't find any takers....groping partners.

Not even bi-curious. Was invited to a MFM once though

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Not even bi-curious. Was invited to a MFM once though

Well at our age we can't be too choosey.

 

[Oistins]

Well at our age we can't be too choosey.

Didn’t go . Was too fucked out already. Might sometime later though. Try double vag or DP .

 

[Sonic Temple]

Not even bi-curious. Was invited to a MFM once though

Now this I would try now that I have experience FMF.

 

[Oistins]

In my opinion any age. Gross. Even the name sounds gross.

You are the first to say no outright. Even taking into account all the private messages with various sensitivities. I’ve pretty well decided I’m doing it anyway. I’ve already done 3 duos and a trio, so I’m almost there anyhow. Try using the words “play parties”

 

[Oistins]

You are the first to say no outright. Even taking into account all the private messages with various sensitivities. I’ve pretty well decided I’m doing it anyway. I’ve already done 3 duos and a trio, so I’m almost there anyhow. Try using the words “play parties”

In fact, want to do a sex club with one or two SP’s, too. Which ever comes first, cums first