My ex never denied a roll in the sheets, at least that's what the other guys said. LOL
I've been divorced almost 25 years. She is now 52 years old. Who knows if her "desire" would have kept pace. Who knows if either of us would still be drawn to each other. Would this have lead to cheating, hobbying anyways?
My divorce cost a pretty dime at the time, fifty cents in today's money.
With all the hobbying I've done over the last 15+ years, I would just about now be breaking even if I hadn't married and divorced.
Was it worth it, the hobbying I mean, divorce always has it's benefits.
Don't forget relationships have a cost all their own without a performance guarantee.
I've seen so many different women, ethnicity, nationality, body type and so forth.
Something I don't have to think about. I've seen and done all I've wanted to.
Tall, short, blonde, dark, flat, super busty... Many that were off the uber scale appearance wise only to discover that pussy is pussy and it's the attitude that really counts.
I've been able to request certain acts that I'm not sure I would have asked a woman I was involved with. Nothing extreme, but I've done threesomes, foursomes, facefuck, other acts I've seen in movies that looked interesting. Some I enjoyed and others not as much.
You can't take back things like that if you're with a long term SO. It will always be the pink elephant in the room.
"You're a pig"
"Were did you get that idea"
And so on.
Even thought the cost is well defined in the hobby as apposed to the grey area of relationship spending, other than a few duds, the money I've spent has been well worth it.
I've been fortunate to have the resources to dedicate to the hobby.
I wouldn't take any of it back.
