How many SO's of MPA's and/or SP's know about their "jobs"?

[dfk_needed]

Do most SO's of MPA's and/or SP's know what they do for a living? If not, I wonder how these ladies keep it secret from their SO's? If the SO knows about it, what goes thru their minds when their ladies' are "working"? Do they try to keep out of their minds but wonder at the 15 minute mark, is the guy totally groping her or who knows what? Is she actually getting into it and turned on enough to lose a little control? Is she enjoying herself a little more than he would like to think? Is she falling for the guy? Did she catch anything from the guy? NOT something for a jealous-type of guy.

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Does the SO have to be a "I like to watch..." type of guy who fantasizes about her getting it on with tons of guys and doesn't mind sharing?

Any terbites out there that have dated MPA's or SP's knowing what they did? How did you handle the above thoughts?

Any that found out while dating what they do and how did you react?

 

[thecoolguyms72]

Never dated an MPA or SP, but did date a stripper. Actually, she lived with me, we dated off and on as she rented a room from me, although her room didn't get used all that often. It's a little different, but it didn't bother me all that much mainly because it was here in Windsor, and it is very restrictive here. There's hardly any touching, and any that happens is unintentional. I'm not sure I could date an MPA or SP, not out of jealousy specifically, but because of my own insecurities and inadequacies. I would have to really know that she loved me to feel that I could satisfy her after all that she would go through each day.

I would never ask her to change career's for me, though, that would be up to here. The guys that start dating them(I've had friends that did this) and then would complain and ask them to quit are losers. They knew going into it what they did, and even got off on it at first, but then the real person came out, and they got insanely jealous. They would piss me off, but even if I pointed out what idiots they were, they couldn't understand. Maybe I wasn't tactful enough? LOL. If you can do it and be comfortable, go for it. This is an interesting thread, I'd like to see how it goes.

 

[Hugger]

Do most SO's of MPA's and/or SP's know what they do for a living? If not, I wonder how these ladies keep it secret from their SO's?

I know many SPs and MPAs, my SO being one of them. I don't know of one who keeps it from their SO, except when it comes to dating, it seems the employment information isn't shared right away sometimes. Many FSPs are not in serious relationships I find.


][/QUOTE]If the SO knows about it, what goes thru their minds when their ladies' are "working"? ][/QUOTE]

my own work, grocery list, Sat plans, oil change for car, the game... when she's at work, she's at work

][/QUOTE]Do they try to keep out of their minds but wonder at the 15 minute mark, is the guy totally groping her or who knows what? Is she actually getting into it and turned on enough to lose a little control? Is she enjoying herself a little more than he would like to think? Is she falling for the guy? Did she catch anything from the guy? NOT something for a jealous-type of guy.][/QUOTE]


With us It all comes down to TRUST. I find she has her own set of rules that I'm comfortable with. She was her own person before she became my SO. Sometimes rules get broken but she's human and gets into it sometimes. as long as she's honest and tells me it's no big deal. If she has 5 clients a day and gets into it with one
and has an O or whatever, it sort of makes up for the not so appealing customers she has.


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Does the SO have to be a "I like to watch..." type of guy who fantasizes about her getting it on with tons of guys and doesn't mind sharing? ][/QUOTE]

She knows if she comes accross a guy she want's to go further with she can always bring them home. we dabble in swinging so she never has the feeling or need to hide someone or something. It means she can also bring home other MPAs and FSs to share and have little parties...

HOWEVER I do find with MPAs many many downplay their sessions due to jealouy issues...I'd say 1 in 10 are completely honest.

are hobbiest turned on at the thought of their MPA being married or single? how many would pursue their MPA more if they knew they were into swinging? and knowledge/fantasy of getting together out of the MPA?
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[drlove]

MHO...

While I haven't dated an escort myself (yet! -*lol*) I can say that those I have spoken with about this issue seem more concerned about their immediate family finding out about their occupation than an SO. Some ladies are involved with the industry in part to satisfy their own sexual needs, as they do not have the time or desire to enter into a relationship.

Personally, I wouldn't have an issue with an SO being an escort. I'd be concerned about her health and safety, but IMO, she is perfectly capable of deciding for herself what she wants to do. As long as she is comfortable with the idea, she doesn't need me or anyone else persuading her otherwise.

As far as the personal/work aspect is concerned, guys need to get it out of their heads that it's anything other than work - sometimes enjoyable, sometimes not. If a man is so insecure about what she does that it becomes an issue, he shouldn't be dating her in the first place.

 

[xarir]

I agree!

As far as the personal/work aspect is concerned, guys need to get it out of their heads that it's anything other than work - sometimes enjoyable, sometimes not. If a man is so insecure about what she does that it becomes an issue, he shouldn't be dating her in the first place.

Keep in mind folks - there's a difference between sex & love. A strong relationship is based on trust that stems from love. Sex is supposed to be a by-product of that relationship.

With an SP / MPA you can start with the sex, but as long as the relationship part develops properly later on, there should be no issues. If a guy is worried about his SO while she's at work being an SP / MPA, I would submit that the trust factor is not there and that the relationship is not a solid one.