how long does the magic last?

[vmaze]

just wondering how long does guys stay interested with a particular SP before things get dull?
i read how some guys just see an SP for a few sessions then move on while some been seeing the same girls for 5+ yrs. just wondering what the percentage breakdown mightt be like? what keeps you interested?
would like to hear from both clients and SPs.

 

[kkelso]

I saw one lady quite regularly for 4+ years and two more for 3+ years. Sometime you know someone just doesn't do it for you, sometimes it take 2-3 sessions to decide.

A few ladies just keep getting better and better. I love an SP who remembers what works for you and builds on that each time.

KK

 

[Dorian Grey]

Uh oh. Why do I feel another long, drawn out discussion about 'chemistry' is suddenly looming large on the horizon? Just kill me now.

 

[Celticman]

Uh oh. Why do I feel another long, drawn out discussion about 'chemistry' is suddenly looming large on the horizon? Just kill me now.

If so, it could be truly epic if it were combined with tipping and SPs racial preferences. The Golden Trifecta in one neat bundle of angst and vitriol

 

[fmcgrew]

I move on after 3 sessions.

I want the excitement of a fling not the comfort of a girlfriend.

 

[Titalian]

Uh oh. Why do I feel another long, drawn out discussion about 'chemistry' is suddenly looming large on the horizon? Just kill me now.

Your in luck, nobody's biting !!!!

 

[MadonnaLove]

Some of my regulars crossed the line and wanted a serious relationship now if i had the same feelings for those guys i would have went for it but I didn't so thats when the magic died and i was honest and upfront about it and i told them i couldn't see them anymore.

 

[out4fun]

An hour.

 

[wild4sex]

Depends on the Girl. There is one lady I've been seeing regular for over 5 years. She loves sex and every session is amazing.
Other ladies seem less motivated to please over time. At some point you move on.

 

[Jack_attack]

Voted for once but it's probably more like twice. Three times if you're amazing or if I've been having a string of bad luck and need a sure thing. Sorry to the lovely providers out there - it's nothing personal. I'm just not currently looking for what I would consider a "relationship". Maybe my mind will change as time passes, but right now I feel as though if I were searching for something long term, I would maybe try and find a girlfriend?

That's totally my opinion and current needs only - hopefully it doesn't come off as insulting to anyone.

 

[rhuarc29]

As with any relationship, it depends on the girl.

Most I see only once or twice, several for a year or more, and one for close to five years now.

 

[DB123]

Depends on the Girl. There is one lady I've been seeing regular for over 5 years. She loves sex and every session is amazing.
Other ladies seem less motivated to please over time. At some point you move on.

This. If I like them I keep going, if they get too comfortable and/or routine and/or the effort seems to wane, I move on.

Of the choices in the poll, and not factoring in exceptional women or exceptional circumstances, 3 months to a year, while a little broad, is probably closest to the mark.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Regulars can become like mistresses or girlfriends in a way.

To keep it 'fresh', you space visits apart. That also keeps it fresh for the lady.

Sometimes, seeing a new gal will confirm that your regular(s) is still irreplaceable.

Other times, a new first-time experience with a gal will be mind blowing from a sexual standpoint, but she may not have much to talk about, or give you the GFE that you enjoy too.

Then there are 'repeat' gals. Ones who you've had a good time, but for which you can't make them your regular because of various constraints (budget, time, opportunity, physical lol, and chemistry). You don't seem them frequently, just occasionally or rarely.

The best answer I can give you is that if I like someone, I will see them for as long as I enjoy their company and afford it. That includes repeat gals as opposed to regulars.

 

[Titalian]

the best answer i can give you is that if i like someone, i will see them for as long as i enjoy their company and afford it. That includes repeat gals as opposed to regulars.

this ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

[legmann]

I've got a few 'retired' ex-agency ladies I've been seeing going on three years now, and well over a dozen visits each.

I like variety and am always checking agency rosters for new girls, but there is something about having a few trusted regulars you feel comfortable with and can ring up at whatever hour for a no-surprises late-night encounter.

 

[justfor]

I am a lot more comfortable with trusted regulars than with new girls. There were a few I would have continued seeing had they not retired. I have one regular whom I have been seeing going on three years now. The way it is going, I will probably see her until she retires.

 

[Titalian]

There's a chemistry related joke or pun here...ugh, my mind is too tired to think of one though!

NO!! no joke or pun...Hes just fed up of hearing about it !!!

 

[Titalian]