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how do you turn down lap dances from strippers?

pokergod

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I haven't been to a strip club in along time, I went there on Friday. I guess depending where you go, there's a fee to go into the area to get lap dances and its usually 20 bucks per song. I don't participate in lap dances as I find them a rip off considering the kind of money spent there can get you a SP.

I was there for about an hour, about 8 girls asked me if I wanted a dance. Most of them tried really hard. They excuse I use is that I'm waiting for friends. That excuse usually works and they leave you alone. I find in my experiences, if you say no, they bug you even more lol

So, how or can you avoid them asking you lol. Do you politely decline or do you have any excuses?
 

HOF

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1. No thank, I'm only here for the stageshow.

2. Thank you for offering, but I'm waiting for another lady that caught my eye.

3. No thanks, but could you send your friend over?

4. Well, what's in it for me?
 

WoodPeckr

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Just say no....
 

Lagavulin2

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I find in my experiences, if you say no, they bug you even more
Tell them all you have left is $10 for another beer, they will disappear as if by magic.
 

S.C. Joe

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I yelled NO to a chick once who just said HI to me.

She goes shouting back, boy all I did was say HI, I didn't ask you anything and goes running off / likely trying to make me feel guilty.
 

Thousand

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My fellow terbites, I expect more respect from you guys than to say no to a lady.

You run! (and try not to shout "holy shit!")

:D
 

anon1

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dancer: u wanna dance?
me: sorry, I've just been cleaned out by another girl, in more ways than one!
dancer: oh....................maybe next time............bye.
 

Brill

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Just say "no thank you", most of them will appreciate you aren't wasting their time. If they persist, be even firmer.

If you don't intend to get dances, don't lead them on. If they want to sit with you, tell them up front that you're not interested in a dance.
Not a coy "no" either, that means you might want one if you can be persuaded.

If you plan to get dances, but not with her - say "I've got my eye on someone else, no thank you".
 

Thousand

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dancer: You lied to me, you were in the VIP with another girl.
me: Yeah, the dance was free!
 

S.C. Joe

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Lol this thread is so funny.


On a mostly female site the talk is how to turn down guys asking you out since most will not take no for an answer, which is true cause like we know how they "never" say yes at first.

On here us guys are asking how to turn down women, ha ha.
 

The Bandit

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I usually just say, "not right now, thanks" or "I'm waiting for someone". When you say you're waiting for someone, they say "go with me while you're waiting", or "change it up instead of your regular dancer all the time".

The biggest peeve is when they sit down and talk for a bit and then give you attitude when you say no. Hello...I didn't ask you to sit down in the first place and waste your time.
 
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