How do you define "GFE"?

[Stoo]

I am planning a trip to Montreal this week, and in the course of "researching" my hobbying options, I came across this, from an indie escorts website:

"Q: What is a true GFE?

GFE (Girl Friend Experience)

She interacts with you for extended periods of time... afternoons, evenings, days, weekends, etc.

The time shared is more personal and emotionally intimate than what usually transpires during hour appointments. In other words, her services differ from those of the Traveling Escort, in that she would never book two clients in one day. Consequently, the gentleman is expected to pay handsomely for her time.

A Girl Friend Experience take the services to a whole new level. She prides herself in being educated and accomplished as well as a perfect companion.

Her gentleman is looking for an esteemed woman who speaks her mind and presents something of an sophisticated and creative challenge."

If I read this correctly, her definition of a GFE is a premium-priced woman, who talks to you over a longer than average appointment.

My understanding of a GFE would include DFK, BBBJ etc. and generally more intimite than "average". Am I wrong? How would you define "GFE"

 

[Vancouver Femme Fatale]

BBBJ(TC?)

Good luck with that. IMO, quality is not enhanced by compromising anyone's health. In my town, you can get that for $20 in the DTES...as long as you don't mind what else comes with that territory.

 

[Svend]

That's why the term is almost meaningless, people don't agree on what GFE is.
TERB's vague definition doesn't mention condoms.
Any non SP girlfriend I've had lately prefers condoms, some have been porn star experiences.
I'd ask the escort what she specifically offers if it isn't on her site.

 

[PHNINE]

This topic has been discussed in length in many previous threads. I agree with you as a matter of fact. GFE should consist of LFK/DFK, BBBJ, FS and a more intimate encounter rather then the usual hour session that is so casually exchanged. Of course YMMV comes into play whenever exploring the GFE phenomenon. Some SP's are just more comfortable with certain clients then others and are willing to expand their menu for that given evening. To have a universal definition of GFE would be difficult to say the least, but useful to us who know the business and are familiar with the hobby. The strategy of representing a GFE to the average joe is primarily what drives the business. Us TERBite's only make up a small percentage of the market, IMHO. Most of the bookings, I think, are just to get the deed done. We TERBite's are the only ones who trade anecdotes and reviews opposed to those that are not aware of this forum to in turn share their experiences and warn thier peers of B&S or lacking menu options. I wish the definition was correctly portrayed. I have spent lots of lost money on girls that I thought would be providing GFE, but didn't. I have read the the definition you speak of as well in my searches of this hobby in Montreal and I disagree. What we get is far from it. Good luck in Montreal, I have not had great experiences in Montreal, just mediocre ones. Happy hunting TERBite!!

 

[CapitalGuy]

The most realistic GFE would be the one who cuts her hair really short and gains 30 pounds once you're a regular with her. That'd be perfect.....pay $300 to spend an hour with a chubby short-haired girl who says "no" when you ask her for sex.

Gee did I say that out loud?

 

[Stoo]

The most realistic GFE would be the one who cuts her hair really short and gains 30 pounds once you're a regular with her. That'd be perfect.....pay $300 to spend an hour with a chubby short-haired girl who says "no" when you ask her for sex.

Gee did I say that out loud?

I purposely left that choice off of the poll as some would take this as a "WE"..wife experience

 

[Keebler Elf]

If you're paying for her time, it isn't a GFE. Unless you've had some pretty bizarro relationships.

 

[The Lurker]

If you're paying for her time, it isn't a GFE. Unless you've had some pretty bizarro relationships.

Wow. Only one got it right? Mind you, I have friends who have had GF's that would take one in the face...

 

[sybaritic]

Oh! That GFE!

I am planning a trip to Montreal this week, and in the course of "researching" my hobbying options, I came across this, from an indie escorts website:

If I read this correctly, her definition of a GFE is a premium-priced woman, who talks to you over a longer than average appointment.

My understanding of a GFE would include DFK, BBBJ etc. and generally more intimite than "average". Am I wrong? How would you define "GFE"

Um, um, um....by any definition that I know, the indie escort that you refer to is the real GFE deal...although, come to think of it, she never locked herself in the bathroom and screamed at me in the middle of the night....

 

[WhaWhaWha]

A true girlfriend will eventually lock herself in your bathroom and call you a bastard at 3 inthe morning for no apparent reason. Then she will go through your belongings and discard the items she doesnt like. She will also rip up your black book and get to know your mom really well so she can use the information they share against you.

 

[George OTJ]

That's why the term is almost meaningless, people don't agree on what GFE is.

I disagree. The term "GFE" is meaningless because guys want their girl friends to act like porn stars in the bedroom. The result is there's very little difference (if any) between GFE and PSE.

Pesonally, all I want from a GFE is:
- clean the apartment
- wash my undies
- make me breakfast and dinner
- keep me warm at night

Oh, and bring home a paycheck

 

[The Lurker]

Oh I SOO disagree.

Being a confirmed batch NOT bitch:

1) She mUST be single;
2) She must wanna be single;
3) She must be hot;
4) She must be able to act on her own;
5) She must be able to suck it up and move on!!!

My 2 Euro / cents!!!

 

[Acubed]

You guys are being too literal with the term. My guess is that the term GFE started on boards in the U.S. because these services are illegal and can't be openly talked about.

GFE varies somewhat but basically it means: GFE = bbbj + daty + "lfk or dfk" but espescially bbbj. I have no problem with the terms "safe GFE" or "covered GFE" but they are not GFE.

For some reason people who are uncomfortable with bbbj (and I can understand why they are uncomfortable) deliberately try to confuse the meaning of GFE. I am sick of this.

 

[CapitalGuy]

It's about the intimacy, however you define that.

I don't think there is a technically acurate definition of GFE, related to a specific service such as BBBJ. I honestly think GFE refers to a slightly more intimate, or close, session, than what you get from a purely functional visit. Remember, some SP's are strictly business, CBJ to FS and NOTHING else. Some escorts give very similar service to what you would get from a streetwalker in the back of a car, except you're getting that service in a bed.
You can't touch her hair, stroke her body, nuzzle into her neck, nothing. Just the bare minimum manipulation to bring the male to a finish.

A GFE SP is one that allows you to hold her, at the very least have some LFK, plus you get to explore her body as well, with your hands and with your mouth. With a GFE, you get at least a little bit of intimacy which makes you believe, however briefly, that you're with someone who likes you and wants to be with you. So I think there's a wide range of definitions for GFE, but as a minimum it means that you get to feel like you're a participant in the event, as opposed to just being the guy at the end of a penis.

 

[George OTJ]

GFE varies somewhat but basically it means: GFE = bbbj + daty + "lfk or dfk" but espescially bbbj. I have no problem with the terms "safe GFE" or "covered GFE" but they are not GFE.

That's your definition and we're not in the U.S.

Think of it as the difference between "color" and "colour".

 

[Svend]

I agree, it's more about the intimacy than whether they go bareback or not, but there's no use in debating this.

 

[George OTJ]

Oh I SOO disagree.

Being a confirmed batch NOT bitch:

1) She mUST be single;
2) She must wanna be single;
3) She must be hot;
4) She must be able to act on her own;
5) She must be able to suck it up and move on!!!

My 2 Euro / cents!!!

LOL Don't you love it!!

Not only can't we agree on what a GFE is, we can't even agree on why the term is useless!!

 

[George OTJ]

I agree, it's more about the intimacy than whether they go bareback or not, but there's no use in debating this.

... again... and again...and again!


P.S. I agree with you and bayisle66.

 

[Don]

Looking back at the type of sex I had w/my girlfriends, it sums up to

-DFK is a must for a GFE.
-I only got BJ very randomly. It was always a BBBJ when I got it but I didn't always get it. Probably only like 10% of the time. That is why I really consider BBBJ a PSE thing.
-Never did Greek. Never offered and never wanted to
-MSOG was iffy depending on how much energy we had that night.
-DATY was always accepted so I guess that is a GFE thing
-Digits were random. Some girls I dated didn't like it.

Thus for my experience, I'd say only DFK and DATY are "musts" for a GFE...

 

[stang]

How would you define "GFE"

One who makes you post topics such as "I'm in love with a stripper".