I started doing this back in the late 1980s, initially out east and eventually here in Ottawa. It was a different game back then. For instance:
Things started to change in the late 1990s. I found some great providers here in Ottawa (Victoria and Shannon come to mind), the options started to open up and then the original Lyla forum went online. It's pretty sweet now compared to those days, I'm kind of surprised I stuck with it really.
- Most cities have some equivalent to the Ottawa Sun, and that tabloid paper was your friend when it came to finding providers. The Citizen equivalents generally thumbed their nose at escort ads. That wasn't the only source - I actually found my first provider in the Yellow Pages of all places. When the Metro type freebies started popping up you could find escort ads there too.
- You could pretty much ignore the byline in the Sun ads, it rarely had anything to do with the provider. You took your chances, and hoped for the best. There were a lot of blah experiences to go through before finding someone worth seeing again.
- Outcalls were far more common. For years it was either my place or a hotel room. I suppose that was due to different LE pressures back then.
- The menu of services was a lot more restricted. Forget about BBBJ, kissing was off the list and even Russian-type finishes weren't very common. Even the separation into 30 minute and hour appointments wasn't there, it was just "get to it and get out".
Things started to change in the late 1990s. I found some great providers here in Ottawa (Victoria and Shannon come to mind), the options started to open up and then the original Lyla forum went online. It's pretty sweet now compared to those days, I'm kind of surprised I stuck with it really.