Hobbying has cured me from porn.

[waynward]

Before Hobbying, I used to be in a long term unsatisfactory sexual relationship. I settled for boring monotomous sex in exchange for regular companionship. But hey I cared about her so it was a trade off I chose. (Reading a good book on that subject called Mating in Captivity. How we often give up eroticism for intimacy and the two can contradict each other). However I would watch allot of porn and fantasize about my favourite scenes out of them.

Once getting out of that dull sexual relationship I started hobbying. Now I realize I don't seem to watch porn much. And when I fantasize its usually re-enacting my favourite memories with an SP.

So I'm CURED!

Well okay more like switching one addiction to another. Upgrading from Marijuana to smoking Opium....meh, smoke 'em if you got 'em.

Anyone else have similar transformation?

 

[Funny321]

Your right (or left) hand is feeling neglected. Maybe compromise and watch porn with an sp?

 

[waynward]

Good thinking!

Your right (or left) hand is feeling neglected. Maybe compromise and watch porn with an sp?

 

[elmo]

You should tell Joy Smith, she wants everyone cured from porn.

 

[waynward]

Well if she has Bill C36 enforced like she wants, then I will go back to porn. But then she wants to setup another law stopping porn. What to do, what to do.

Oh I know, I will just become devoutly religious and feel guilty whenever I have any form of sexual thoughts and live in complete misery. Problem solved.

You should tell Joy Smith, she wants everyone cured from porn.

 

[lenny2]

Hobbying has enhanced my experiences of wanking while watching porn.

Watching porn has enhanced my experience of hobbying.

They are complimentary.

Normally watching porn is not a sickness that needs to be "cured".

 

[DB123]

Ya no kidding...I haven't looked at porn since high school

 

[goawayleafs]

I just can't get interested in porn anymore. 2 days ago I stood in front of a mirror and watched a young beautiful woman naked on her knees sucking my cock. Why bother with fantasy when I can have the real thing so easily.

 

[lenny2]

Why bother with fantasy when I can have the real thing so easily.

Aside from the fact the "real thing" usually only lasts an average of 5 minutes, leaving you with 23 hrs & 55minutes in the day to fill up, & porn is great entertainment, as well as educational?

Or the "real thing" is generally much more expensive than a bit of lube, much more of a hassle & much more dangerous re STI's etc?

Additionally, if the "real thing" is often a real disappointment & real autoeroticism with fantasy often feels way better, i think that about sums up the answer to your question in a nutshell.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Well if she has Bill C36 enforced like she wants, then I will go back to porn. But then she wants to setup another law stopping porn. What to do, what to do.

Oh I know, I will just become devoutly religious and feel guilty whenever I have any form of sexual thoughts and live in complete misery. Problem solved.

No, she wants you to get married to have sex; any other way is criminalized. This fits with her moral view.

 

[GPIDEAL]

I just can't get interested in porn anymore. 2 days ago I stood in front of a mirror and watched a young beautiful woman naked on her knees sucking my cock. Why bother with fantasy when I can have the real thing so easily.

I have pics and vids of a secret admirer sucking my cock or me fucking her or cumming on her. THAT is better than porn, when I'm not hobbying or with her. However, I also have quite the porn collection too.

 

[MaxxxEdge]

Why can't you have both???

 

[FunAndGames]

Hobbying has enhanced my experiences of wanking while watching porn.

Watching porn has enhanced my experience of hobbying.

They are complimentary.

Normally watching porn is not a sickness that needs to be "cured".

I agree they are complimentary. Sometimes I venture out to see a beautiful SP. Sometimes I prefer to stay in with my stash. Each has its pros and cons.

 

[legmann]

she wants you to get married to have sex

But only for procreation, of course.

 

[Born2Star]

Your right (or left) hand is feeling neglected. Maybe compromise and watch porn with an sp?

This reminds me did we ever had a poll of whether people use their right hand or they're lefty, or even ambidextrous?

Same q can be asked when digit too....