This topic has come up here in various forms and a variety of threads before. I was surprised last night though to find someone had written a letter to Sasha (Love Bites, eye) to express concern and ask advice. Not trying to 'out' anybody or ask anyone to come forward if this is their letter. First thing that did cross my mind though when reading... could be a fellow TERBite.
http://www.eye.net/eye/issue/issue_12.12.02/city/lovebites.html
http://www.eye.net/eye/issue/issue_12.12.02/city/lovebites.html