Has an SP ever wanted you to stay the night?

[dubbleyou]

A while ago I had a session with an agency SP for the last hour of her night, incall at a hotel.

When the hour was up, we were still having fun and thereafter just chatting, cuddled on the bed together.

She never looked at the time but I was feeling bad when I saw I had gone way over, and told her I should get cleaned up and head out.

She held onto my arm as I tried to get out of the bed and gently pulled me back in, rolled over so I could spoon her, and told me she wanted to take a nap with me.

Woke up around 2am, told her I should go, but similarly without saying it, she subtly motioned for me to stay with her, so I did. Finally left after waking up around 7am and saying our farewells.

Does this happen sometimes? I'm trying not to read into this in any way other than her just wanting a body and I happen to be the one that night.

 

[rlnga]

She didn’t let you fuck again one last time before you left? I can understand them wanting the companionship and would assume her not wanting to fuck again without you paying her for it.

 

[dubbleyou]

Correct, no sexual fun during the overnight stay. I didn't try to either knowing I overstayed what I paid her for

 

[rlnga]

Correct, no sexual fun during the overnight stay. I didn't try to either knowing I overstayed what I paid her for

I’ve had the same situation occur as well twice. In those situations I had stayed overnight but they didn’t let me fuck again. In those cases I wanted to but I didn’t want to pay again lol.

 

[dubbleyou]

I wanted to

Oh 100% junior was wide awake

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Yes.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I obviously dont know the person but she's only human. Its a lonely job. I met a lot of people and had a lot of sex but there was no connection anywhere. Men generally treated me as a sex object at work and a sex object in my regular life. Sometimes its just nice to spend time with someone. It might not mean anything to you and it might not mean anything to her but obviously some part of her needed that.

I think its great that you stayed.

A while ago I had a session with an agency SP for the last hour of her night, incall at a hotel.

When the hour was up, we were still having fun and thereafter just chatting, cuddled on the bed together.

She never looked at the time but I was feeling bad when I saw I had gone way over, and told her I should get cleaned up and head out.

She held onto my arm as I tried to get out of the bed and gently pulled me back in, rolled over so I could spoon her, and told me she wanted to take a nap with me.

Woke up around 2am, told her I should go, but similarly without saying it, she subtly motioned for me to stay with her, so I did. Finally left after waking up around 7am and saying our farewells.

Does this happen sometimes? I'm trying not to read into this in any way other than her just wanting a body and I happen to be the one that night.

 

[dubbleyou]

I obviously dont know the person but she's only human. Its a lonely job. I met a lot of people and had a lot of sex but there was no connection anywhere. Men generally treated me as a sex object at work and a sex object in my regular life. Sometimes its just nice to spend time with someone. It might not mean anything to you and it might not mean anything to her but obviously some part of her needed that.

I think its great that you stayed.

Thank you, that loneliness for her crossed my mind which ultimately led me to stay. I went so far as treating her like a one-night girlfriend, cuddling her, giving frequent kisses, and the difficult massaging of her back while she's laying on her side lol. I needed to do all of it for myself too. Now the idea is in my head and I want to see her again, so it was a successful selling point for her in some ways.

 

[Brown Nose Bear]

It's happened to me with two ladies, both regulars that I already got along well with.

The first time it happened we stayed up for several hours chatting and drinking, then she decided to sleep over and go home in the morning, and she said I could stay if I didn't want to drive home, so I did. We had a quickie in the morning, no extra charge. This was more about practicality than anything else but it was nice.

The second time it happened she had just returned from a hiatus due to health and personal issues. I told her I was coming to see her, she told me she really needed to cut loose after a rough few months, and I could stay as long as I wanted. We stayed up all night, drank and talked a lot (she basically told me her whole life story), fucked twice, ordered room service for breakfast, slept a few hours in the morning, then went on our way. She told me I really helped her get out of her funk, which was nice to hear. She moved on to civilian life shortly after that but we had a great sendoff.

This is a job for these ladies, but sometimes it can be hard for any of us to separate the physical act from the emotional side. If she trusts you enough to show some vulnerability, consider yourself fortunate and don't mess it up.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Its a nice to spend time with someone you enjoy - it never hurts to be kind - you did a great thing @dubbleyou and I'm sure both of you will remember that moment. Life is about connections and some connections mean more to others than we realize, I personally think it was a beautiful gesture mate.

 

[massman]

Not overnight, but a long time ago after a nice outcall hour with an agency girl, we cuddled for quite a while past the time limit, and then she dozed off and slept for some time. She did eventually leave.

 

[rhuarc29]

I don't hobby late at night, so this has never happened. I have gone out to dinner, shopping and even once to a club, with a few ladies. No charge for time, but I did pick up the tab otherwise.

 

[Ping]

I think people forget that its really draining working for an agency if you dont have a social network to go home to. I connected with a agency girl last summer and we were half way thru the session and she asked if id take her out after for coffee or dinner dinner. I was on a bit of a timeline, but then she followed up with that there was no strings attached, she was from Europe and staying in the incall and just needed someone 'real' to talk to. We grabbed a late lunch and she was -by far
- the prettiest girl there and just chatted about her travels and Canada, then I walked her back, and she thanked me for the break from work and a peek back into reality.

 

[dubbleyou]

Thank you all for sharing. They're all much needed reminders that SPs are human too.

 

[ogibowt]

once, if i paid...and once no charge..so to speak

 

[The Options Menu]

No but I typically book early in a provider's shift, or relatively early in the day / evening. I pity the provider that tries to sleep beside me.

 

[J Smoove]

Yes, a former regular.

 

[brokenglass]

I became friends with someone I was seeing last year for about 3 encounters that were paid otherwise we did a bit of fwb where we still did it but the amount wasn't necessary because I'd get meals and she was fine with it. Crashed the night a few times too and spent the weekend at her place, but it wasn't someone worth repeating or even being friends with much so I ghosted. The paid and nonpaid service wasn't enjoyable either.

 

[Mr Deeds]

I've had several wanting to stay over, but as soon as I fall asleep and start snoring they bolt for the door so fast they don't even ask for cab fare

 

[Y_Diner]

Yes a few times.
In those few, infrequently let me do stuff in the morning.
Other times w regs we just both fell asleep.