Guys that love sex but dont trust women will they ever get professional help

[Claudia Love]

I'm recently back in the dating world and its pretty pathetic
Almost every guy is hung up on his ex saying she fucked him over
saying she ruined his life saying he will never spend money on another woman
saying he lost a few years of his life
saying "All women are the same"

How fuckin pathetic is listening to this shit

this poor me pity trips are seriously not manageable for the next woman to conquer

these men that are like this and feel so sorry for themselves

IMO need professional counselling to grasp a better outlook on life


I know what's its like to get divorced after almost 17 years its like grieving a death
but most of the woman I know that broke up in bad relationships have reached out for help dealt with it healed and moved the fuck on to greener pastures

people that think all women are users and all woman do is take take take
I garanfuckin tee you these men are miserable pricks that whine n cry about one bad lousy relationship and want to punish every single woman after her

I seriously wish men would get off the pot stop feeling sorry for themselves and start being better humans so this way they can have a positive life

you cant change people but you can change yourself and ive never seen so much fuckin ex girlfriend ex wife baggage from men that carry on with this poor me shit

nobody is to blame everything an experience if you dont take chances and get out there and think positive you'll die alone in your miserable rut

hanging up my heels for dating sites and keeping an open mind for men I meet in person -my best advice for men that are seriously bitter and miserable in life is this

dont expect anything from anyone and this way you'll never be disappointed

 

[H82Wait]

I'm recently back in the dating world and its pretty pathetic
Almost every guy is hung up on his ex saying she fucked him over
saying she ruined his life saying he will never spend money on another woman
saying he lost a few years of his life
saying "All women are the same"

How fuckin pathetic is listening to this shit

this poor me pity trips are seriously not manageable for the next woman to conquer

these men that are like this and feel so sorry for themselves

IMO need professional counselling to grasp a better outlook on life


I know what's its like to get divorced after almost 17 years its like grieving a death
but most of the woman I know that broke up in bad relationships have reached out for help dealt with it healed and moved the fuck on to greener pastures

people that think all women are users and all woman do is take take take
I garanfuckin tee you these men are miserable pricks that whine n cry about one bad lousy relationship and want to punish every single woman after her

I seriously wish men would get off the pot stop feeling sorry for themselves and start being better humans so this way they can have a positive life

you cant change people but you can change yourself and ive never seen so much fuckin ex girlfriend ex wife baggage from men that carry on with this poor me shit

nobody is to blame everything an experience if you dont take chances and get out there and think positive you'll die alone in your miserable rut

hanging up my heels for dating sites and keeping an open mind for men I meet in person -my best advice for men that are seriously bitter and miserable in life is this

dont expect anything from anyone and this way you'll never be disappointed

Do you ever stop man hating? Really if you dont like it there are plenty of females out there. Painting men this way on an escort review board cannot be positive for business. Perhaps it's the type of man you attract? Maybe look at changing yourself and you may see different results.

 

[forgo10]

Do you ever stop man hating? Really if you dont like it there are plenty of females out there. Painting men this way on an escort review board cannot be positive for business. Perhaps it's the type of man you attract? Maybe look at changing yourself and you may see different results.

But, H82Wait, the OP is back in the dating world and I assume it is with civi's rather than with the incels on this site (as she says):

I never knew there so many incels til this year its really bad in here.

She has or had a low opinion of her customers from terb, so why should it be different in the real dating world. Ah well, what Wastage.

 

[Geee]

I Believe the saying goes.

If by noon you've met 5 assholes, it's probably you that's the asshole.

That said eons ago when I dipped my toe in the dating pool I found plenty of women with laudry lists of "I don't wan't no drama but here's a bucket of drama for you to navigate" on their profiles, can't even fathom what lind of eggshell situation that would have been if I'd actually tried to go on dates so it's not like it's just dudes doing this shit.

 

[mellowjello]

You reap where you sow. If you don’t want rotten fruit, shop at a farmers market.

I use to date a lot in the Toronto Salsa scene. After a while I noticed a recurring pattern of women. Because I like to think I’m not stupid, I stopped fishing in that lake.

Also, you seem to be coming from a negative place. My advice is to work on yourself first and get rid of all this bitterness. Then and only then will you be ready to date and attract a positive partner.

I'm curious, what was the recurring pattern you noticed?

 

[mellowjello]

I'm recently back in the dating world and its pretty pathetic
Almost every guy is hung up on his ex saying she fucked him over
saying she ruined his life saying he will never spend money on another woman
saying he lost a few years of his life
saying "All women are the same"

How fuckin pathetic is listening to this shit

this poor me pity trips are seriously not manageable for the next woman to conquer

these men that are like this and feel so sorry for themselves

IMO need professional counselling to grasp a better outlook on life


I know what's its like to get divorced after almost 17 years its like grieving a death
but most of the woman I know that broke up in bad relationships have reached out for help dealt with it healed and moved the fuck on to greener pastures

people that think all women are users and all woman do is take take take
I garanfuckin tee you these men are miserable pricks that whine n cry about one bad lousy relationship and want to punish every single woman after her

I seriously wish men would get off the pot stop feeling sorry for themselves and start being better humans so this way they can have a positive life

you cant change people but you can change yourself and ive never seen so much fuckin ex girlfriend ex wife baggage from men that carry on with this poor me shit

nobody is to blame everything an experience if you dont take chances and get out there and think positive you'll die alone in your miserable rut

hanging up my heels for dating sites and keeping an open mind for men I meet in person -my best advice for men that are seriously bitter and miserable in life is this

dont expect anything from anyone and this way you'll never be disappointed

If you wrote this in all seriousness, I have to say it's nasty as shit.

I always love that line "don't expect anything from anyone and you won't be disappointed".
What an empty shell of a life.
I wouldn't even want a relationship with a woman or friend who thought this way, as meaningless a connection as could be.

 

[mellowjello]

They all had damage from previous relationships. Damage they hadn’t overcome. The Salsa scene does select for a certain type of woman.

Also, any woman that has been in the Salsa scene longer than 6 months and doesn’t stop is irreparably changed. She had become use to dancing with strange men. In my opinion, she isn’t girlfriend material anymore. These types of girls usually end up continuing to dance even when they are in a relationship - even when her SO doesn’t want to dance. As you can see, this is recipe for disaster.

Salsa and Bachata dancing causes the body to produce endorphins [from the physical activity] and oxytocin [from rubbing bodies together]. Some people love this feeling so much, they want to go dancing even though their SO doesn’t want to. Yes, it does sound like an addiction. In the Salsa Community, they call these people Salsa Addicts or Salsaholics. I know, these aren’t nice terms.

I can see that.
This is very similar to the foot massage discussion in Pulp Fiction.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

They all had damage from previous relationships. Damage they hadn’t overcome. The Salsa scene does select for a certain type of woman.

Also, any woman that has been in the Salsa scene longer than 6 months and doesn’t stop is irreparably changed. She had become use to dancing with strange men. In my opinion, she isn’t girlfriend material anymore. These types of girls usually end up continuing to dance even when they are in a relationship - even when her SO doesn’t want to dance. As you can see, this is recipe for disaster.

Salsa and Bachata dancing causes the body to produce endorphins [from the physical activity] and oxytocin [from rubbing bodies together]. Some people love this feeling so much, they want to go dancing even though their SO doesn’t want to. Yes, it does sound like an addiction. In the Salsa Community, they call these people Salsa Addicts or Salsaholics. I know, these aren’t nice terms.

Very interesting. I knew a girl at work. Cuban. Married with 2 kids. We were strictly work friends. She started asking me to go along to a salsa club on Fridays, which was a strain for me because I am usually tucked up in bed on Friday at ten. I even picked her up from home and met the husband who quite rightly trusted me as a chaperone/ friend. I did see evidence of what you are referring to. For me Zero chance of getting laid but watching the action I noticed the same people every week changing partners and dancing non stop. Met a couple of her girlfriends who were Japanese. Total cunts. But they were fucking a series of Latino guys. Who could dance.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I'm recently back in the dating world and its pretty pathetic
Almost every guy is hung up on his ex saying she fucked him over
saying she ruined his life saying he will never spend money on another woman
saying he lost a few years of his life
saying "All women are the same"

How fuckin pathetic is listening to this shit

this poor me pity trips are seriously not manageable for the next woman to conquer

these men that are like this and feel so sorry for themselves

IMO need professional counselling to grasp a better outlook on life


I know what's its like to get divorced after almost 17 years its like grieving a death
but most of the woman I know that broke up in bad relationships have reached out for help dealt with it healed and moved the fuck on to greener pastures

people that think all women are users and all woman do is take take take
I garanfuckin tee you these men are miserable pricks that whine n cry about one bad lousy relationship and want to punish every single woman after her

I seriously wish men would get off the pot stop feeling sorry for themselves and start being better humans so this way they can have a positive life

you cant change people but you can change yourself and ive never seen so much fuckin ex girlfriend ex wife baggage from men that carry on with this poor me shit

nobody is to blame everything an experience if you dont take chances and get out there and think positive you'll die alone in your miserable rut

hanging up my heels for dating sites and keeping an open mind for men I meet in person -my best advice for men that are seriously bitter and miserable in life is this

dont expect anything from anyone and this way you'll never be disappointed

Must make for some interesting conversations. What do you tell them you do for a living? How do you fit them in to your "schedule"?

 

[xix]

They all had damage from previous relationships. Damage they hadn’t overcome. The Salsa scene does select for a certain type of woman.

Salsa and Bachata dancing causes the body to produce endorphins [from the physical activity] and oxytocin [from rubbing bodies together]. Some people love this feeling so much, they want to go dancing even though their SO doesn’t want to. Yes, it does sound like an addiction. In the Salsa Community, they call these people Salsa Addicts or Salsaholics. I know, these aren’t nice terms.

Thank you very much I had a theory along these lines but no way to prove it. Not just dancing but also others activities that people become addictive and they think they have healed themselves from any Trauma. Some people travel and fack with strangers thinking they are healed.

Healing Trauma is more complicated than anyone thinks.
It starts with ACCEPTANCE.

 

[xix]

I'm recently back in the dating world and its pretty pathetic
Almost every guy is hung up on his ex saying she fucked him over

IMO need professional counselling to grasp a better outlook on life

dont expect anything from anyone and this way you'll never be disappointed

Well obviously you been out of the loop on Relationships or Dating in the past 5 years or more.
Youtube and Tiktok are filled with women like you complaining about men not showing up.

There are movement called MGTOW, Mansophere, Women self Entitlement, Feminism, The Princess Syndrome! and many other movements. What you experienced is not the tip of the iceberg.

I seen to many videos in the past 4 months and what is causing this Tsunami of disaster, the COURTS are against men. I can give you a thousand videos of examples why you will never get decent dates.

JUST find female friends and be nice to them and hang out with them.

There is a video Once HOE, Always a HOE. Just watch this channel "just pearly things" all topics is covered except for Taxes and Politics.

Link A1
Link A

Link B

This is top 100 best

 

[KittyCaterina]

@Miami Electra you are kind of contradicting yourself by saying this:

"nobody is to blame everything an experience if you dont take chances and get out there and think positive you'll die alone in your miserable rut"

And then this:

"dont expect anything from anyone and this way you'll never be disappointed"

 

[PrinceDarien]

I'm recently back in the dating world and its pretty pathetic
Almost every guy is hung up on his ex saying she fucked him over
saying she ruined his life saying he will never spend money on another woman
saying he lost a few years of his life
saying "All women are the same"

How fuckin pathetic is listening to this shit

this poor me pity trips are seriously not manageable for the next woman to conquer

these men that are like this and feel so sorry for themselves

IMO need professional counselling to grasp a better outlook on life


I know what's its like to get divorced after almost 17 years its like grieving a death
but most of the woman I know that broke up in bad relationships have reached out for help dealt with it healed and moved the fuck on to greener pastures

people that think all women are users and all woman do is take take take
I garanfuckin tee you these men are miserable pricks that whine n cry about one bad lousy relationship and want to punish every single woman after her

I seriously wish men would get off the pot stop feeling sorry for themselves and start being better humans so this way they can have a positive life

you cant change people but you can change yourself and ive never seen so much fuckin ex girlfriend ex wife baggage from men that carry on with this poor me shit

nobody is to blame everything an experience if you dont take chances and get out there and think positive you'll die alone in your miserable rut

hanging up my heels for dating sites and keeping an open mind for men I meet in person -my best advice for men that are seriously bitter and miserable in life is this

dont expect anything from anyone and this way you'll never be disappointed

With such a bright ray of sunshine like you out there I'm surprised these men are so down on dating. I mean, what a catch they're missing out on!

 

[rhuarc29]

I seriously wish men would get off the pot stop feeling sorry for themselves and start being better humans so this way they can have a positive life

I believe that's what the MGTOW movement is all about.

In all seriousness, love comes with risk. When you open yourself to someone, and they end up betraying you or leaving you behind, that's going to scar anyone, of both sexes. That's why breakups take time to get over, varying degrees for each person. Some people wallow in the negativity and use it to paint the opposite gender with a broad brush. "Men are all pigs, all women are gold diggers." It's not true, and often they know that, but in their misery they lash out.

All I'll say OP, is don't cast stones from glass houses.

 

[Claudia Love]

I am surprised OP is not attracting top tier men. Shocking even. I look forward to the next installment.

I married a top tier man for 17 years and im picky you dont qualify

 

[Claudia Love]

If you wrote this in all seriousness, I have to say it's nasty as shit.

I always love that line "don't expect anything from anyone and you won't be disappointed".
What an empty shell of a life.
I wouldn't even want a relationship with a woman or friend who thought this way, as meaningless a connection as could be.

Well then keep being disappointed EXPECTING things from other people. Its not an empty shell it a fullness that you haven't reached.

 

[Claudia Love]

I Believe the saying goes.

If by noon you've met 5 assholes, it's probably you that's the asshole.

That said eons ago when I dipped my toe in the dating pool I found plenty of women with laudry lists of "I don't wan't no drama but here's a bucket of drama for you to navigate" on their profiles, can't even fathom what lind of eggshell situation that would have been if I'd actually tried to go on dates so it's not like it's just dudes doing this shit.

thats not true
ill break it down for you
when your an empath you attract narcissist people
and they try to break you rate you and shake you because they know you feel things like a sponge
and narcissistic have always been attracted to me
they want something good
but they are like sociopaths
run dont walk if you meet them lol

 

[Claudia Love]

Must make for some interesting conversations. What do you tell them you do for a living? How do you fit them in to your "schedule"?

well now I tell them im a fashion designer but when I escorted I said I ran my own business for special needs.haha

 

[Geee]

thats not true
ill break it down for you
when your an empath you attract narcissist people
and they try to break you rate you and shake you because they know you feel things like a sponge
and narcissistic have always been attracted to me
they want something good
but they are like sociopaths
run dont walk if you meet them lol

And Nice Guys don't get dates because women only like assholes

 

[Akila Besos]

What in tarnation did I just read

Who gives a crap if men have some baggage from a past relationship

Everyone carries baggage from relationships and life situations

All that matters Is if one wishes to date , find an individual who matches your personality requirements and who is willing to carry said baggage together . End of the day that is important atleast in my eyes


So we gotta stop posting things that go on a pointless rant