Glad this week is over

[marriedwithchildren]

Well, started out ok, made an appointment with my favorite mpa. Went through the usual stuff and the happy ending happened, well happy turned to terror. Out comes blood, she screamed, I'm like holy fuck, what the hell is this? Anyway cleaned up and called the doc. Got in same day and it's no big deal to him, I'm thinking cancer or something, he says that it's quite common, I never heard of it before. He says that overweight, high blood pressure and stress are the main cause, gee I 've got all that. Anyway I wasn't happy with that opinion so saw a specialist the next day and he said the same, said its tiny blood vessels in the prostate that rupture, similiar to nose bleeds, gee great! He says that in 6 months shood be all gone, but may reoccur. He called it Hematospermia even the name is scary. So now what, don't think sp's or mpa's will see me now, anyone heard of this before, how did you or they deal with it?

 

[antlerman]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hematospermia

Check this out......it does actually call for more massage work......

 

[marriedwithchildren]

I can't see a massage attendant being to eager after I explain things.

 

[marriedwithchildren]

Well, I think I'll start the weekend with Captain Morgan and take things from there.

 

[Jennifer_]

I've seen it happen with a few different clients.

It's definitely scary when it happens (when it's unexpected) - until it clears up - if you plan on seeing MPAs - definitely warn your attendant beforehand and make sure you're lying on your back for the "grand finale".

 

[Macator2003]

Thanks for sharing MWC. Good that you got a second opinion but I wouldn't stop there. Seems like your body is sending out warning bells. No disrespect, but if you are overweight, overstressed and suffer from high blood pressure, do something about it (and I'm not talking about Captain Morgan -that's only temporary relief). Life is too short. Take a look at your diet, exercise a little more, quite smoking (if you do light up).

There are so many options.

This could have been much worse, it could have been a heart attack or a stroke. Its like your little head is trying to tell you something.

I look forward to many more threads MWC, of a more uplifting nature!!

 

[MarkII]

Well, started out ok, made an appointment with my favorite mpa. Went through the usual stuff and the happy ending happened, well happy turned to terror. Out comes blood, she screamed, I'm like holy fuck, what the hell is this? Anyway cleaned up and called the doc. Got in same day and it's no big deal to him, I'm thinking cancer or something, he says that it's quite common, I never heard of it before. He says that overweight, high blood pressure and stress are the main cause, gee I 've got all that. Anyway I wasn't happy with that opinion so saw a specialist the next day and he said the same, said its tiny blood vessels in the prostate that rupture, similiar to nose bleeds, gee great! He says that in 6 months shood be all gone, but may reoccur. He called it Hematospermia even the name is scary. So now what, don't think sp's or mpa's will see me now, anyone heard of this before, how did you or they deal with it?

Glad to hear it was nothing serious. Have you offered to have an STD test to put the Sp's fears to rest? That would really be the correct thing to do. As you said she was undertandably "freaked out".

Everything else aside, you do need to have an STD test done. You were bleeding and you were having sex. The Sp and you are at risk. You really DO NEED to be tested. If I was an SP ar MPA I would not see you based on this post.

Please report back on the results.

M2

 

[Jennifer_]

Glad to hear it was nothing serious. Have you offered to have an STD test to put the Sp's fears to rest? That would really be the correct thing to do. As you said she was undertandably "freaked out".

Everything else aside, you do need to have an STD test done. You were bleeding and you were having sex. The Sp and you are at risk. You really DO NEED to be tested. If I was an SP ar MPA I would not see you based on this post.

Please report back on the results.

M2

he wasn't bleeding when he was having sex - he was with an MPA.

The results have already been reported - no need to cause him unnecessary worry - he's had two doctors tell him the same thing - as well as me: who has seen three different men with the same condition whose doctors told them the same thing.

Ejaculate and blood carry the same level of risk.

I would suggest against seeing SPs until your situation clears up because in my experience with clients with this condition - it seems that a lot of blood comes out - more than the normal amount of ejaculate. I wouldn't tust condoms in this situation.

With a hj = the STD risk doesn't increase however you need to ensure that your attendant is prepared and you are positioned so towels aren't stained and you don't cover her with blood.

Not all girls have encountered this - although i've heard about it from a few others - you definitely need to forewarn her and understand if she's not comfortable with seeing you.

 

[marriedwithchildren]

Well it's been a few months now and my problem is mostly cleared up, just the occasional surprise. Lost 25lbs, bp is lower but job is still stressful but I'm working on it. In the last few months though I did find 2 ladies that agreed to see me and we worked on a way to have fun but keep the ending safe. With these 2 lovely ladies we would go through a session as anybody else would but when the end was near I would let the woman know and then pull out and she would finish me with a latex glove and I would keep the condom on. It was the same for mpa's, when it was time, she would slip a glove on and continue as normal.
At least I was able to get some stress relief and have some fun at the same time.

Many thanks to this board and to the ladies that kept my spirits up.