I don't understand why a lady would be considered "not well groomed" if she didn't shave down there. Back in the 70's and earlier, shaving in that area was extremely rare and no one dared say they weren't well groomed. Grooming was only referred to in regard to other areas where hair was found, like the head, face, legs, underarms, etc. Just because a woman may not choose to follow the "style" of the times doesn't mean she isn't well groomed. Personally, I guess I'm one of those rare guys, but I absolutely love hair in "that" area of a woman. I have always found it to be very visually erotic. Totally clean-shaven is so "pre-pubescent" and a turn-off for me. Sadly, most adult films and exotic dancers now bore me because of the current cleanshaven look. I'm always on the hund for "natural women". God, how I long for the good old days!