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I need advice please. My girlfriend's orgasms are way too strong. She will have multiple orgasms when we have sex and they are massively strong and intense. It is very painful for me and last night, I was in tremendous pain because of how she 'crushed' my penis during intercourse with vaginal contractions that exerted too much squeezing pressure on my penis.

I am scared to have sex with her again, but of course, our relationship won't last if I refuse sex altogether. I really care about her and want a future with her, so I would appreciate advice regarding how I can proceed.

I have tried pleasuring her and allowing her to finish her series of orgasms and then go in afterwards for my fix, but it's to no avail. She continues to have them no matter how long I give her to feel satisfied. If I put only my fingers in, she orgasms. If I put my member in, she orgasms. If I make her orgasm 8 to 12 times and then go in, she will still orgasm again and again.

Any sps out there that can give me advice would also be appreciated. I just want to be able to enjoy sex with her without having her continually squeeze my best friend to death. And if there was a way to prevent her from orgasming temporarily, I would like to know how. Or if there is a technique which will protect me or at least reduce the intensity of her orgasms, such disclosure would be appreciated.

I have tried asking her not to orgasm and she has tried to prevent herself from doing it too much, but she says she cant control it all the time. Plus, I feel bad because I am essentially telling her not to enjoy it. Of course, I want her to enjoy sex and I am happy she feels good, but when she puts so much squeezing pressure on my penis, it really, really hurts afterwards.

Thanks in advance.
 
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Sounds as if you need a second opinion. Maybe even a third and a fourth.

I am sure we can find a few people to assist.
 
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I forgot to add...please pm me your suggestions/responses. I can't always check this board, but can see my pm's when they arrive in my email account's inbox. Thanks.
 
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You poor guy.


In my experience, the only 'problem' with womens' orgasms is the noise level.
 
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A referal to the Sexual Disfunctions clinic in Toronto? A case like this should make their day.
 
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If you're not happy with her, you can give her to me. I like the sound of that.

Now that you've explained to her that you don't like her orgasms, and planted the idea that she's a lousy lay and that your own pleasure is vastly more important than hers, you should be prepared for some consequences. I'm surprised she hasn't left you already, and I wouldn't be surprised if it happens soon. If you want to hang onto her, you should perhaps try to make it up to her.

but seriously, folks, just a few halfbaked notions here:

viagra/cialis -- chemical enhancements might make it feel better for you

positions -- doggy/side doggy, something that feels good for you without going so deep might soften her grip

cuddle -- pull back and stop thrusting when she starts clamping, help her with her orgasm, then go back inside when it's safe again.

swinging/swapping -- if you don't want to do the job yourself, find someone who does (I know this guy called sleazure on TERB, for example...)
 
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Do core exercises that strengthen your core muscles this allow you to weather the storm much better.
No kidding around here......I'm being completely serious.

Cheers! Good Luck
 
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mb12ca said:
I need advice please. My girlfriend's orgasms are way too strong. She will have multiple orgasms when we have sex and they are massively strong and intense. It is very painful for me and last night, I was in tremendous pain because of how she 'crushed' my penis during intercourse with vaginal contractions that exerted too much squeezing pressure on my penis.

I am scared to have sex with her again, but of course, our relationship won't last if I refuse sex altogether. I really care about her and want a future with her, so I would appreciate advice regarding how I can proceed.

I have tried pleasuring her and allowing her to finish her series of orgasms and then go in afterwards for my fix, but it's to no avail. She continues to have them no matter how long I give her to feel satisfied. If I put only my fingers in, she orgasms. If I put my member in, she orgasms. If I make her orgasm 8 to 12 times and then go in, she will still orgasm again and again.

Any sps out there that can give me advice would also be appreciated. I just want to be able to enjoy sex with her without having her continually squeeze my best friend to death. And if there was a way to prevent her from orgasming temporarily, I would like to know how. Or if there is a technique which will protect me or at least reduce the intensity of her orgasms, such disclosure would be appreciated.

I have tried asking her not to orgasm and she has tried to prevent herself from doing it too much, but she says she cant control it all the time. Plus, I feel bad because I am essentially telling her not to enjoy it. Of course, I want her to enjoy sex and I am happy she feels good, but when she puts so much squeezing pressure on my penis, it really, really hurts afterwards.

Thanks in advance.
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that really sounds like fun!!!!!!!!!
 
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Is this a joke???? I use to see a lady years ago who was the same and I clouldn't get enough of her, ultimately she married so time to move on.......lucky husband of hers, lol.

If you really want to be with her you can always let her lose and let her have her sexual escapades and then return home to you, as long as your ego can take it.
 
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mb12, you should stop hobbying for now, let your libido build up, concentrate on your woman, and then f@$k the shit out of her and show her who is boss. Don't be a girlie man otherwise you just might find another guy is doing the job on her and doing it well.
 
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