Gay Pick Ups

[2sexxxy]

As a comfused young man I was curious how you are sopposed to take a comment to you by a gay fellow.

As I was walking to my friends house yesterday agroup of 3 guys were making comments to me. Sexual coments.

Here is my question

A) Do I get mad when guys hit on me

B) Do I take it as a compliment and move away swiftly

C) Say thank you and explain my preference for the pretty ladies

D) Stop wearing purple velvet pants

 

[sara@select]

hehe

Well 2sexxxy, whatever you decide, NEVER stop wearing the purple pants- they show character................lol
If you are seriously being hit on by gay men you should be flattered, they generally tend to be attracted to some of the nicest looking boys around!
Take it as a compliment- afterall, it could be worse, no one could be glancing your way!

Sara x

 

[gramage]

combination B and D.
They aren't assuming your gay (unless you in velvet in the villiage), they're using the comments as a way to find out. aggressive but hey, worth a shot after all.

for whatever reason this has happened to me a few times, I've had several gay men make offers to fuck my brains out (friends and strangers alike) and yet women give me nothing. it's a mad mad world

 

[Heather]

I thought you were joking about wearing purple velvet pants in another post you made a couple months ago. You actually wear them?

 

[2sexxxy]

I thought you were joking about wearing purple velvet pants in another post you made a couple months ago. You actually wear them?

Yes I wore them yesterday because I know Sara really likes them and wanted to make her happy.

 

[Mudd Stuffin]

The HIV-thing may actually have a worse effect. I saw a news report on US tv that there are actually gays that are looking for HIV carriers. Some said they wanted it to be the way they go out. Almost slow-suicide.
Just tell them "thanks but no thanks'.

 

[Craven Morasian]

Unwanted yet flattering attention........

I think it's your god-given right as a contemporary man about town to wear your purple velvet pants with PRIDE. (no pun intended)
You might want to lose the cropped belly tops though.

I used to have the same problem last summer. I live downtown and I used to go to the Second Cup on Church St. for a latte or two on the weekend. I soon realized that my leather chaps were not a good idea at 3:00 in the afternoon.
Now they only come out at night.
Gawd........it was horrible. I felt like a piece of meat.

Craven.

 

[Groucho]

2Sexxxy

Depends on the way they come across. If they seem mellow and laid-back, I'd say something like--Guys! That's that nicest thing I've heard in weeks! Afraid I'm straight, though. I'm heading over to my regular bar, c'mon along and we'll shoot some pool. (I've found that gay guys tend to have LOTS of attractive female friends. If you are cool with the gay guys, the female friends will be cool with you.)
On the other hand, if they are jerks trying to provoke you, treat them like any other group of jerks. Politely ignore them and move on.

Groucho

 

[Cool Dude]

So if applejack approaches you and your girlfriend on the street

Depends on the way they come across.

and tells you to lose the "whore", let's have some fun, you just quietly ignore him and move on?

 

[Groucho]

Cool Dude

>>tells you to lose the "whore", let's have some fun, you just quietly ignore him and move on?<<

My general policy in regards to jerks is to ignore them. Otherwise you're letting them set the agenda. How would you handle the situation?

Groucho

 

[Cool Dude]

Sorry Groucho.

My general policy in regards to jerks is to ignore them. Otherwise you're letting them set the agenda. How would you handle the situation?

I was using your post to take a shot at another poster. To answer your question, I would not ignore them if they were jerks. I would change the agenda.
If they were sincere, then I would laugh my ass off.

 

[Groucho]

Cool Dude

I kind of figured that that was what you were doing, but I gave an honest reply just in case you weren't.

In my experience, it takes a LOT of time and effort to take the agenda away from a jerk. And then, when it's all over, you realize you just spent a lot of time and effort talking to a jerk. Instead of, in your example, talking with an attractive young lady.
Choosing between the two is a no-brainer for me.

(One of the reasons I picked Groucho as my forum name is that HE always set the agenda.)

Groucho

 

[TravellingGuy]

Friendly Gays

I've been hit on by gay men and even have gay friends, I am not gay at all but I take it as a compliment. I've been to gay clubs (let me just say that they party hard) and the best thing about it is if someone comes on to you, just tell them you are straight, they then leave you alone (sexually, but are still cool to talk to) and even spread the word, much better then in a regular club when a guy hits on a girl and she says she's not interested and then she's still pestered all night long.

 

[Dr. Gonzo]

I'd have to agree...gays know how to party.....and as far as getting hit on goes, just be cool about it and take it as a compliment but make sure to draw a line and not let things get carried away. Make it clear that you are flattered but that you are without a doubt straight and no ammount of flattery will alter that. Then proceed to the good times.....