Falling for a client???Am I the only one?

[The Baroness]

and no,Im not talking about the one that tryed to f*** the one I fell for(she knows who she is)
Just wondering if Im the only one that ever met their Prince Charming at "work"???????

 

[conte]

Charming Prince is right here

 

[bobistheowl]

She crosses her fingers that she hasn't known his dad professionally.

 

[pblues]

Is there a happy ending in sight Miranda?

 

[Shine905]

If you know he feels the same way...then what the hell do you have to lose? Screw the politics, screw what everyone else tells ya...I say: GO FOR IT!!!

Love conquers all and if you're feeling it..you might as well risk it...

~Advice from a hopless romantic

 

[einar]

There are plenty of god-fearing older couples who met in bars, and maybe don't broadcast this after their fifty years of marriage. There are plenty of couples who don't broadcast that they married because their baby was on the way. There are plenty of couples who ditched their prior partners, and caused much pain in divorcing, yet are now happy together.

My point fits with Shine905's: it doesn't matter how two people meet or connect. If the bond is there, good for them!

Einar

 

[nautilus]

Shine= old rabbit who is now hopless. Just kidding.
Mir. Does he know how you feel. Have you told him you no longer want to take money from him?
Have you asked HIM out on a date?

 

[train]

Re: Prince charming

No Mir your not the only lady to fall for a client but it does not mean that because you found your Prince charming the 2 of you will live happily everafter in marital bliss like in the story books. . Blue

This , of course , applies to all relationships regardless of how they start.

 

[Looking]

Why bother?

I'm wondering why in hell a seasoned pro like you Miranda would even think about "falling" for a john, look elsewhere, Prince Charming only exist in fairy tales?

 

[Mrs_Stiffler]

In my opinion that is not fair Looking. I don't believe that the heart chooses where or when to fall in love. If Miranda has met the man that she feels can give her the type of satisfaction she is looking for, then I say go for it. There is never a guarantee in any relationship, regardless of where it was forged. If anything, the fact that she met him through business could be a positive. At least she doesn't have to worry about hiding her past and whether or not he could be accepting.

Personally, and maybe this is just because I'm a 40 year old woman, I don't see what the big deal is. So we have been around a bit. Would it matter if I had simply been a high profile cougar on the prowl to pick up men in bars for sex, while waiting for Mr. Right to take me off the market? The only difference is that the money is left on my nightstand rather than on the bar for my drinks.

 

[Nibbler]

Shine905 and Mrs. Stiffler said it best.

It does not matter that Miranda met her Prince Charming through work, in fact as Mrs. Stiffler mentioned it may be better this way since there is no wondering when to bring up the past if at all.

Personally I don't think it matters where they met or how, if they feel that they have each found the one they have been looking for then the easiest thing to say is; May the two of you enjoy the rest of your lives together.

Congratulations Miranda and all the best to the two of you.

 

[learningtoplay]

Best of Luck Miranda. Two concenting adults can make up the rules as they go.

 

[Looking]

Maybe so!

I'm not sure if its fair or not, if one john is introduced by a mutual friend or simply a cold call makes a difference, or if one "really" can't help one self, if the "right person" comes along, this all sounds very "romantic". I believe, that we all might feel one way about a person or other things, but what one does or not do in reaction to what we feel is all up to each of us, we've to be accountable for our actions.

Feeling is one thing, how we act out our feelings is entirely different is all I'm saying. I still think that its most most difficult to mix professional and personal life, especially in the sex trade or one is free to do whatever one feels like doing in the name of "love"!

I'm all for feeling good feelings for one another, but...thats simply not all there is to it, there're many other things to take into considerations.

 

[drlove]

Re: You bet

I was at a dinner meeting here in Toronto with a couple of exec's and the joke at the table was one of they guys noticed a man and a younger women having dinner a few tables away....Needless to say, in conversation the guy mentioned that the lady at the table was a high profile escort here in town....She in fact is a member of this board.

My question would be.....How would you like to be that "guy" other tables are talking about?

I don't know about the rest of you, but I'd LOVE IT!!!

The other tables may be cracking jokes, but whether they want to admit to it or not, they're all secretly wishing they were the guy with the escort. After all, it's pretty obvious who's getting laid at the end of the night with a beautiful woman... ME!!!

 

[twobigo]

Good luck,Miranda , with your man! Regards ,Jenn,s chauffeur.

 

[milehigh]

You're not the only one Miranda

Tends to happen when you become a "Regular".

Rules of attraction no different than from other circumstances.

There have been times I've had to quit a regular SP "cold turkey" because you were in fact becoming too involved.

On the extreme odd occasion, some sparks you could not control really flew.

When you do care for someone that way, it really does make your life sort of miserable - you start caring and worrying too much.

I tended to be happy go luckiest when just showing up for appointments at various venues and going on my merry way.

When you become a regular, there then tends to be some emotional attachment.

I suppose I sometimes care too much for people for my own fucking good... gotta watch that Mr. Spock on Star Trek and see many different babes - I suppose that is the best.

Anyway, I would say what you went through is quite normal.

Don't mean to sound like an alalyst - this is just my opinion.

 

[Morgan Ellis]

She crosses her fingers that she hasn't known his dad professionally.

Which reminds me of the story I shared on here once, long long ago...

Morgan

 

[Mrs_Stiffler]

Blue is so very right. On this day as we talk about Johnny Cash, John Ritter, Charles Bronson, a day after remembering 9/11, it all makes me miss my father. I don't mean to be melancholy by bringing up these thoughts . . but when he passed the thing that was most said about him was how he lived his life with passion. He always expressed his affection and love for friends and family. He lived without regrets. He always followed his heart, and even if the endeavour failed, he was pleased for the adventure enroute and that he had tried.

I would rather try and fail then live with my head in the sand.

 

[milehigh]

"Love messes you up severley"

I say Go have a good time and fuck half a city.

"The Pain of love" messes you up, man

 

[Ophelia Black]

I don't fall for civilians anymore, let alone clients. Why that is, I don't know, but it sure make things a hell of a lot simpler, and MAN! do I feel free for the first time in my life. Hallelujah!