fake moaning problem

[burt-oh-my!]

There is a woman I see every 3 months or so, I would best describe her as a VERY part time SP. She doesn't advertise very often. I quite like to go see her every now and then for a bit of the 'ole in 'n out. It is in her house, it's quiet, she's reasonably sexy, I enjoy myself. She is overjoyed at the money.

The problem is what I perceive as fake moaning. Usually we start off with a bit of DFK, then she might do oral on me for awhile, then I like her to clamber up on top of my face for awhile, so I can do DATY while she rides my face. I think she genuinely likes that, as she gets into it.

The problem is once we switch to normal sex, she invariably lets out a moan as I enter her, then continues as we go on. But it seems to me to be fake. It is almost porn-star ish - not the same as when she is receiving DATY. I would truly rather her not make any sound at all then to be fake.

I need to figure out how to get the message across.

 

[Brill]

She probably thinks you like it and it creates the right atmosphere, it's good she's trying to please you.

If you get along with her on a personal basis you could gently mock her by saying, "I know I'm not that good!" when she fakes a moan.
But also encourage her when she truly gets into it, it's nice you found someone who likes sex and appreciates you.

 

[69Shooter]

try this... everytime she lets out a "fake" moan, you moan even louder and with more enthusiasm... she'll get the message.

 

[luv4lust]

lmfao how about moaning before anyone touches her now thats faking it

 

[Wings]

One of my gfs confessed to watching porn and practising so she could mimic some of the women she thought sounded hot. I thought it was awesome that she did that.
As for your problem, Id try and talk to her while youre going at it. Ask her what she likes what makes her moan. Maybe that will get a genuine reaction out of her. If that doesnt work try and work in a gag hahah

 

[Incall]

I guess there could be a chance that she is not faking it?

 

[HetroGuy]

Careful what you wish for ..... let's assume she is faking it and really is ho-hum about your efforts. You tell her to stop the moaning so now your are working your ass off but she has nothing to do except look around the room, stare at the clock , maybe let that yawn slip out. I'm guessing that you will leave pissed and she will have learned her lesson to never stop faking it.

 

[Molly Robinson]

To moan or not to Moan is the question?

I like to give feed back that I am enjoying what you are doing to me so I quietly give a lil moan of reassurance, is this OK?

I even find that sometimes a moan will pop out of me involuntarily when I am thinking back on an exceptionally great experience. We all know the acronym LOL....I got a new one MOL "moaning out loud". Come to think about it, it happens quite a bit to me.

 

[rhuarc29]

try this... everytime she lets out a "fake" moan, you moan even louder and with more enthusiasm... she'll get the message.

Not sure mocking her is the best idea here.

 

[skypilot]

I am not a moaning fan at all, I prefer the screaming obscenities type of girl. When she starts moaning just tell her to talk dirty.

 

[hinz]

What fake moaning problem are you talking about?

Both civilians and SPs fake moaning routinely for different reasons.

Depends on my mood, if I am feeling good, I will pretend to enjoy her acting, ie faking. If I am really in bad mood, I will tell her to stop this BS.

My only problem in bed will be after the action, she either says my time is up or ask me whether I really cum....in missionary position!

 

[freestuff]

Since you're paying, it's your show. Just tell her that to stop faking those moans.

 

[Tokyo Heights]

If she is an oriental or a full Chinese lady or a girl it's inborn in them they just start moaning as soon as you start kissing her neck and on caressing her breasts the sound increases, and when you are about to fix her with your dick the moaning goes extreme loud, so nothing new with South Asian Girls and Ladies! If she is a part time lady do send me her contact or email addy I may go and like to hear her moans it's a real turn on for me, I am use to such sexual moans by my Chinese friends wife who I regularly f....k as she is not happy with her hubby's small d..k pounding her once a month, so I keep her happy by giving her a weekly quota of her desires so I am used to her loud moans while having pounding from me!

 

[EntertainmentMan2000]

There is a woman I see every 3 months or so, I would best describe her as a VERY part time SP. She doesn't advertise very often. I quite like to go see her every now and then for a bit of the 'ole in 'n out. It is in her house, it's quiet, she's reasonably sexy, I enjoy myself. She is overjoyed at the money.

The problem is what I perceive as fake moaning. Usually we start off with a bit of DFK, then she might do oral on me for awhile, then I like her to clamber up on top of my face for awhile, so I can do DATY while she rides my face. I think she genuinely likes that, as she gets into it.

The problem is once we switch to normal sex, she invariably lets out a moan as I enter her, then continues as we go on. But it seems to me to be fake. It is almost porn-star ish - not the same as when she is receiving DATY. I would truly rather her not make any sound at all then to be fake.

I need to figure out how to get the message across.

start fake moaning back to her..but make it really loud and exaggerated...

 

[red]

send me her contact details

 

[SecretRendezvous]

Do you guys even understand why women moan, what types of moans are for what etc.

We can moan being entered that has nothing to do with us having an "O". Just like alot of men grunt during sex and they don't even realize.

I think I have about 20 different moans for different types of sex play. Some to help me get more aroused, some because of the physical contact, some because of the different types of O's I am having. {small, big, squirting}

Just something to think about. It may not be fake. It may be just the way she is in the position.

 

[Brill]

Check her whore moan levels by asking for a urine sample afterward.

 

[train]

Just something to think about. It may not be fake. It may be just the way she is in the position.

The moans he is complaining about are the ones that are obviously fake. The ones where she is watching the TV over your shoulder at the same time. What old porn movie was that where the girl was smoking a cigarette while the guy was going down on her ? That type of fake.

Every hobbiest has run into it some time or another. I agree with burt, its annoying bordering on the insulting that certain sp's think we are that dumb. Fortunately most are intelligent enough and respectful enough not to go over the top but for the very few that do its a "no repeat" for me.

 

[scarlet6969]

well if a girl doesn't moan then were pegged aas being a dead fish in bed so you really cant win either way

 

[luv4lust]

well if a girl doesn't moan then were pegged aas being a dead fish in bed so you really cant win either way

it's called being real some of you might try it makes for some awesome sex