I did. Told her I went to a club and got #'s from 3 girls that were hot. And they were! My girl friend is a sp. I was sick and tired of having to wait untill she was done with a john. So I went out to see what I could find. I found out that there is a different world out there. Why I was so captivated by this controling person is beyond me. Maybe the gooood sex and sweet talk! I am a sucker for this. I have contacted these 3 girls and they want to get it on! BBBoy is she pissed!!!!!!! Control friek. Too bad.
ever try to piss off your girfriend?
- Thread starter 4leafclover
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Well Mr 4leafclover
I'm not really one to get involved in others personal affairs, but since you posted here......
Do you think that maybe you should take some time to re-evaluate your relationship? You're obviously not all that happy.
1. Shes an active SP (not that thats bad per se) but thats just asking for trouble right off the bat...and it seems to be adding up on you.
2. You're starting to stray
3. Control freekiness can't be good
just my $.02
I'm not really one to get involved in others personal affairs, but since you posted here......
Do you think that maybe you should take some time to re-evaluate your relationship? You're obviously not all that happy.
1. Shes an active SP (not that thats bad per se) but thats just asking for trouble right off the bat...and it seems to be adding up on you.
2. You're starting to stray
3. Control freekiness can't be good
just my $.02
Thank you for your response. Is she a control friek? Helllloooowwww. Like her warm body and uncontrolable sex urges. Only can last so long.
Yes, she is seeing men in a professional setting. Takes their respectuful pants off and goes at it. Kind of going to a bank for a loan,only you do not get fucked for ever.
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WhOiSyOdAdDy?
I never have to TRY to piss her off...it happens naturally, and without reason!WhOiSyOdAdDy? said:
Are you serious?
She sleeps with men for money as part of her job. You are doing it voluntarily for sport. Reverse the roles. You have to sleep with middle aged overweight women for money while your girlfriend goes clubbing at night, collecting phone numbers and screwing other men. Now how "fair" is it?
*takes seat next to Jenn and bangs head on table*
Cut this gal loose. It is obvious that you can not deal with the fact that she is a SP. Thought you could deal with it and it is quite evident that you can't(good sex has a way to cloud one's judgement). That being said, it is better you both go your own way. The longer you stay in this relationship, the more it will cost you-BOTH-emotionally. Chalk this one up to life experience.
Well let me make one thing clear, the guy starting this thread is purposely trying to piss off his gf (who may use this board). The relationship is doomed.MuffinMuncher said:
I have also dated an sp and had a bi swinger. With the bi-swinger she felt she was "allowed" to have sex with any girl she wanted yet I had to stick to her. i felt it should have been open but she demanded I could only have sex with her or other guys. my point was...she was enjoying her sexual preferences, I should be able to enjoy mine which means other women, not guys for christ's sake!.
The worst thing was the triangle. WHen she was fighting with one of her gf's she would spend more time with me. When we weren't having the greatest time she would spend more time with the girls. It's tough "sharing" someone. I knew it wouldn't work, became more and more detached and eventually decided to find a situation that was not a double standard. Had one of her gf's call me threatening to get me "wacked" for the break up. Too funny.
The sp I dated I met as a client. We hit it off, but it was tough. Her clients would leave her sore and tired. So the sex life wasn't ideal. I also had to hear what a-holes Johns were all day long which gets tired pretty quick (I never knew how tough mentally this business was until then). When we were not too happy with eachother she would say that she had clients and had to dissapear all night long ( yet the finances which I was managing) didn't add up. So I figured she was seeing clients and screwing around wityh non clients(later confirmed by her the day of the break up) which was ok. I was young and didn't want anything serious.
Well she would call me up night and day checking to see exactly where I was and accusing me of cheating. I thought it was great at first since i knew she was safe but it was happening so often I couldn't take a piss without a call. SHe couldn't give me hell for being jealous so she gave me hell for not being jealous claiming I would be if I cared. *G* What can I say. When we would disagree off she would go with a client. Besides hearing they were scum occasionally in the bedroom I'd hear...blah blah does this...blah blah does that...gee great but I am not blah blah. In the end she was the most jealous girl I have ever dated. Isn't that a kick in the nuts! lol.
In the end I think the issue is separating love and sex. Sex is physical, love is so much more. A relationship with multiple partners coming and going bring a whole lot of problems. The emphasis should be on eachother with others having a distant second or third priority. Everything should be in the open. If this is possible then it could work...which is rare.
BBLACK
geez BBlack, most people I have spoken with that have dated SPs/MPAs seem to have somewhat of the exact same experience......BigBlack said:
There either must be one particular girl who is quite "busy" ....or this just seems to be the effect of the business on SPs when it comes to personal love lives.
