Just had a quick question. I don't generally opt for the sp, I am usually a mpa guy. I know i should have done more homework before seeing this sp provider she had one all right review, so i booked an appt with her. This was the first time this has ever happened but she reaked of smoke so bad it was such a turn off. I have been with girls that smoke before but it was like nothing i have smelt before. (I will not name her because she did seem like somewhat of decent person) It turned me off so much that i couldnt get it hard, tried closing my eyes but the smell was just to bad. After less than 5 mins I told her thanks but I am not used to girls that smoke that heavy. Back to my question this is for both service providers and costumers what is the etiquette when something like this arises? Do you give them full payment (no tip) or do you give them partial payment depending on what you can work out?
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- Thread starter Jack Hoffa
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Tough call... hopefully both people can "cum" to an agreement. 
Going forward and knowing that smoke bothers you... be sure to ask the ladies in advance/at time of booking.
Was it simply her breath... or the entire room/incall location?
Going forward and knowing that smoke bothers you... be sure to ask the ladies in advance/at time of booking.
Was it simply her breath... or the entire room/incall location?
If the clothes are off and things are started, generally you pay full amount. I've always obtained that the guy's business end is totally dependent on his own self. If you are stressed, tired, drunk, dont find the lady attractive, then it's YOUR issue. Guys can't fake arousal as easily as girls, so when things aren't going as planned, I always ask if they'd like something else to be worked on instead. I don't smoke cigarettes, but if I did I would always brush before letting a client near my face.
I definitely wouldn't tip her, but if she wreaked that bad to start with, you should have never gotten that far and just made up an excuse to leave LOL.
If the lady ends the session for an absolute emergency, I'm sure a discount would be in order - and a re booking if the client wishes.
If the lady ends the session because a client is not respecting her to her discretion, then the full amount is paid whether you've finished or not.
What did you end up doing?
I definitely wouldn't tip her, but if she wreaked that bad to start with, you should have never gotten that far and just made up an excuse to leave LOL.
If the lady ends the session for an absolute emergency, I'm sure a discount would be in order - and a re booking if the client wishes.
If the lady ends the session because a client is not respecting her to her discretion, then the full amount is paid whether you've finished or not.
What did you end up doing?
Thank you, but I'm not sure what that has to do with this thread lol.
I figured I should have a face pic up because I have red hair and guys seem to get confused with my blonde photos LMAO.
I figured I should have a face pic up because I have red hair and guys seem to get confused with my blonde photos LMAO.
Well, I would have asked her to shower and brush her teeth. If SP's expect the clients to shower, then it's only fair that they should expect the same from us. AND, I would tell her why.
Now, if the whole house smelled like smoke and was nasty, I would have just left, and not paid anything.
I don't smoke, but there were times when I was working that I would ask my clients if my breath was ok, or if I smelled a bit. If I just ate a hamburger with onions (can't have one without) then I want to be sure before we start. I care about what the client deserves, and they don't deserve a stinky SP.
Now, if the whole house smelled like smoke and was nasty, I would have just left, and not paid anything.
I don't smoke, but there were times when I was working that I would ask my clients if my breath was ok, or if I smelled a bit. If I just ate a hamburger with onions (can't have one without) then I want to be sure before we start. I care about what the client deserves, and they don't deserve a stinky SP.
I respectfully disagree with your earlier comment. If an SP smells of smoke or has some other hygiene problem, there should be no expectation of payment. If the client offers something, good on them but really, to expect a payment on issues of hygiene is pushing it a little. Conversely, if a client shows up stinking to high hell, I don't see why an SP would have to continue the session.jessica_dark said:
SP is a fantasy for most folks and that should be recognized by the SP, reeking of smoke etc just shows lack of professionalism and disregard for the work.
Don't get me wrong, I think there should be a mutual understanding between the client/SP but, it's not easy for someone to ask, "Would you mind brushing your teeth or using mouthwash".
I like your point, but if the girl smells bad to the guy and he doesn't say anything and the session continues, and then the client doesn't think he should pay....another issue will pursue LOL.
I'd still like to know what he decided to pay her?
I'd still like to know what he decided to pay her?
Ok, I just read my post againjessica_dark said:
To clarify, I meant before anything happens the client should be able to back out without payment. For sure, once any physical contact starts (other than enough to determine hygiene) then it's a case of speak up or keep your peaceI gave her partial payment (60%). Which i thought was good considering the fact that it was her hygiene that was the factor. The reason I figured partial payment for her services was reasonable was like somebody said I am paying for the girl to provide a fantasy not a nightmare. The girl agreed to the payment, and she felt bad, but I was honest with her what the problem was. The biggest thing is that now, I learnt when seeing a sp to do more research and pm others that my have seen the sp prior for more details about the sp, so that it will be a rewarding time instead of a regrettable time.
