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hesitant

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I am sure that most guys here have had a similar experience at one time or other... maybe a lot more than once... You know the one where despite the many poor reviews or that little nagging voice in your head you still go to see that crappy CL service provider....:eek:

Despite considering myself an intelligent and somewhat experienced hobbiest... after waking up at 3 a.m. the other night from dreaming about my favorite unavailable SP, I found myself jonesing for a fix and surfing CL...

While I balanced that by researching the SP on terb I ignored some poor reviews of the lady since she was only available provider...

At that point I was in serious need of an intervention!!!

What is a crying shame is that we dont have an Escorts Anonymous, where just like AA so we could call a sponsor if we were jonesing for a fix so badly we were even considering a poorly rated SP...

What would be even better is if terb could facilitate such a connection! There could be a profile setting that members could select if they were willing to act as a sponsor, and an SP review rating system.

Whenever members are reviewing SP ratings and reviews with the thought to booking with an SP with a poor rating terb could automatically prompt the member to see if they wouldnt rather connect to a Escorts Anonymous sponsor via "live chat" so they could provide the member with a voice of reason and save them from the inevitable grief.

If terb were to implement such a system I'd sign onboard as an EA sponsor to help my fellow terbites.
 

hesitant

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Interesting concept! A number of comments, one funny, and others serious:

1) I'd not want to have the Graveyard "1am to 5am" shift to meet needs like the one you described ;)

2) It's a good idea because it makes me wonder what other kinds of risks/bad behaviour we would consider if we are in such a mood to get an itch scratched

3) To the point above, you're really talking about an addiction counselling service. Besides just seeing a bad SP, there are financial, family and societal issues as well that could be helped.

4) Unfortunately, it takes a fair bit of training to be a qualified counsellor/sponsor, and I'm not sure TERB would want to take the legal responsibility for dispensing that kind of advice, especially if something were to go wrong.

5) If there's another angle, it would be good to explore...
Hey 4tees, my comments were meant to be more tongue in cheek... and at most the thought was just to have someone "talk you down". Just someone to make you think twice...

If you want to get really serious, as your sobering thoughtss suggest, I am sure that everyone here at terb has considered such things from time to time... I have never considered addition counselling, but I have frequently thought about the money I spend on SPs and what that could have provided for my family... Of course, my family has a good home, and never lacks for food, shelter, clothing, or all the toys of modern life so I dont feel too bad about the money I spend...
 

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Step One:

We admitted we were powerless over Craigslist - that our hobbying lives had become unmanageable.
 

reaper29

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hesitant;3054626 If terb were to implement such a system I'd sign onboard as an EA sponsor to help my fellow terbites.[/QUOTE said:
What would one say at these sort of meetings... Hi my name is Reaper and I haven`t seen an SP in 2hrs.. :)
 

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It looks like most people have never been to an Anonymous Meeting. I suggest you try one and go 2-3 meetings, you eyes/knowledge will evolve.
If you don't drink or are a victim of drinkers try Al-non Anon. if you drink try AA.
Your view will change. A sponsor simply listens and try to "prevent" you from....

I like the idea of an Escort. THis is funny stuff.
 

hesitant

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A sponsor simply listens and try to "prevent" you from....

I like the idea of an Escort. THis is funny stuff.
Thanks for the suggestion.

The simply listen and try to prevent you from.... is just what I was seeking...
 
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