I remember a lady named Robyn I think her name was. Sounds like her too. She used to have her ad in the Durham papers a couple years back. Don't think she had a web site though. She was a washed up stripper that turned to s.p.'in. Biker type chic. Did this lady you are looking for do out calls only? In calls? If in call what was the specific location? Your description probably fits have a dozen or more older women in the Durham area of this biz now and in the recent past. If you could add anymore specifics Edifice it would help others to narrow it down more for you. Go luck in you search.