In chatting with my partner about our ottawa trip, we began with thinking about going to a strip club together. Now our conversation has moved on to the possiblitiy of seeking a joint massage. We were thinking of a couples massage that was erotic in nature. We do not want a third party so to speak between us but rather, a "coach" type who will help us learn about ourselves and each other. In other words, we want to learn more ways about pleasing each other from someone who has more experience/ knowledge than we do. The focus of activity will be between us, but I expect it woudl be a hands-on interactive sort of coaching.
Do such services exist? How does one go about finding them and understanding what is expected/ appropriate and what is not?
If anyone can help, I would appreciate it. My partner was going to call a few of the massage studios in the yellow pages but I imagine what they say over the phone will be pretty guarded for obvious reasons. If it is more appropriate to respond by private email, that is fine.
This is totally new for both of us and may / may not happen but we have talked through it and if we can find someone who we are comfortable with and is able to provide what we are looking for, I think we'll end up going for it.
Thanks again in advance.
Do such services exist? How does one go about finding them and understanding what is expected/ appropriate and what is not?
If anyone can help, I would appreciate it. My partner was going to call a few of the massage studios in the yellow pages but I imagine what they say over the phone will be pretty guarded for obvious reasons. If it is more appropriate to respond by private email, that is fine.
This is totally new for both of us and may / may not happen but we have talked through it and if we can find someone who we are comfortable with and is able to provide what we are looking for, I think we'll end up going for it.
Thanks again in advance.
