Don’t Hold Back

[1xBurned2xShy]

So I’m someone who has lurked for a little while and am fairly recent into hobbying. H/T to all the hobbyists who share insights, tips, and reviews. A question for all, new or veteran alike, how do you bounce back from a scam?
Some context, I guess I TOFTT this week after more than one red flag and letting small head rule the big. It was against my better judgment so losing the money wasn’t as bad as knowing I should have know better. I don’t want to impugn so I’ll leave it as M&M duo west end. Communication was easy, pic to verify, but abrasive in person. I acknowledge some missteps and while a little fun was had it wasn’t as advertised (they began bickering with one another).
I know I can add some review experience of some of the more well reviewed (wonderful Olivia’s and Christina Lee’s out there) out there if I can not making them as rambling as this post.
Anyways thank you in advance for any tips on how to recover and move forward and get back on the hobby horse so to speak

~1x2x

 

[PurpleHelmet]

I think it has been mentioned on other threads previously. If it looks TGTBT it probably is. If she doesn’t have an electronic trail then it’s best to avoid. Yes, we all appreciate the one who takes the plunge and pioneers to discover a gem, but these appear to be few and far between these days. This site is great for checking phone numbers and names to find positive reviews. Be a part of the Twitter community and see if she has been active there. I do a lot of homework prior to my meetings and I generally know what to expect. There are going to be some disappointments every now and then, but it doesn’t usually lead to scamming. If you operate on a tight budget then those are the types of people who are likely to disappoint.

so, if you surge forward with someone who is reputable, that’s likely the best way to get back on the horse. FYI… Olivia Eden would be a great place to start

 

[1xBurned2xShy]

Sorry to hear this. You didn’t get scammed if you got some services? “Bickering at each other”. Is better than taking your money and asking you leave….

was it these two?

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/duo-melina-and-mia-3353.775640/

Can’t confirm or deny but your detective skills are above reproach.

It started with some duo action on their part and a little double bj but none of what was offered in text was delivered. After the bickering the mood was shot and it became that awkward “well why the hell am I still here?”

 

[1xBurned2xShy]

I think it has been mentioned on other threads previously. If it looks TGTBT it probably is. If she doesn’t have an electronic trail then it’s best to avoid. Yes, we all appreciate the one who takes the plunge and pioneers to discover a gem, but these appear to be few and far between these days. This site is great for checking phone numbers and names to find positive reviews. Be a part of the Twitter community and see if she has been active there. I do a lot of homework prior to my meetings and I generally know what to expect. There are going to be some disappointments every now and then, but it doesn’t usually lead to scamming. If you operate on a tight budget then those are the types of people who are likely to disappoint.

so, if you surge forward with someone who is reputable, that’s likely the best way to get back on the horse. FYI… Olivia Eden would be a great place to start

Thank you. All valuable points. Def no reviews or presence. Pics were also only from the back and when the robes opened up there was a boat load of ink and piercings. I almost turned around and around and walked out but the duo appeal force was too magnetic to pull away from

As Mark Twain said “sing like no one’s listening…dance like no one’s watching and spend like you don’t need the money” (ok might have taken some creative license there)

 

[Roger"verbal"Kint]

This doesn't really matter, but I am curious: what exactly were they bickering about? As others have said, there will always be some disappointments; that's inevitable. And the best way to move forward is to book an appointment with a very reputable and reliable provider who is well reviewed: that will restore your faith and confidence. Solidarity!

 

[1xBurned2xShy]

This doesn't really matter, but I am curious: what exactly were they bickering about? As others have said, there will always be some disappointments; that's inevitable. And the best way to move forward is to book an appointment with a very reputable and reliable provider who is well reviewed: that will restore your faith and confidence. Solidarity!

Unless it was a good acting job everything that was discussed and offered in text with one of them was clearly not what the other was up for.
So a duo bbj lasting 2 min yes but dfk/lfk (not allowed to kiss either), level of interactive (slowed after a minute), Greek, were all no even after offered. $350 for what was 20 min (actually $360 bc I was too lazy to break the bills)
From what I could understand bw French and English one didn’t like how they were committed to doing things they didn’t like. I started doggy with one (too thick for the other?!? Pumped my ego sure but I didn’t believe it) and then it started unravelling even just asking them to enjoy each other while in doggy. So all lasted 20min maybe?

 

[Roger"verbal"Kint]

So a bait and switch and a major disappointment with services. Sorry you had such a shitty experience. It happens to all of us. I've learned it's crucial to do lots of research about a provider's reputation before making an appointment. TOFTT is less tempting the more times you've been burned.

 

[MaverickHunter]

Let's face the duo facts here, and why they are a very risky decision.

Duos are expensive, frequently expensive to the point of unreasonable. Often times two providers will share a single incall and fight over scheduling. An easy resolution is to push duos so one doesn't have to go hide at Tim Hortons for an hour while the other one meets their John. Yet for some reason most providers except the same hourly pay or even higher. When a client books a duo he's out of pocket the same amount of money or more had he had two separate encounters, thus his one on one time with each provider is vastly less with a duo.

Rarely do providers actually do duos well. As a man who has had many sometimes I felt as though I was in a WWF wrestling match and my opponents kept tagging each other in so the other could sit on the sidelines and take a break. It's a rarity to find two provides who actually have the chemistry to perform a proper duo. It felt like I paid double for two half hour sessions that occured congruently.

You mix a high chance of a lack luster session with a high price and your change of being dissapointed is fairly high.

 

[dynomyte]

I have had 5 duos in my life. The first was a massage + duo with Hope and Harmony. It was amazing. The second was with two Mirage ladies (I forget their names) also amazing. However, the last three were with girls who clearly not into each other and I way overpaid considering the lack of interaction. Lesson learned? Duos are rarely worth the price you pay and unless the ladies are into each other, likely not worth it at all.

My dream duos would be any combination of Bridget Woods, Jackie Gilcrest, Nadia Lovechanko, Tara Parker, Olivia (from Mtl), and / or Victoria (from MTL). These ladies are all exceptional in their own way and ooze sexuality. I hesitate though because I either cant afford it or worry about the connections between the ladies

 

[scarecrow119]

I am generally not a fan of duos. The first one I ever had was with a couple of college age girls working off Prince of Wales. Looking back in hindsight they were definitely amateurs. It was really awkward. I think the were a couple and were looking to make a few bucks on the side. One was kind of into it but the other was clearly not. She got really upset when I was going down on her friend. It was really offputting.

The only really good experience was a massage duo with Kimora and Allison. I was during one of their specials. I figured why not. It was super intense. Definitely top 5 experiences I have ever had. I had seen Kimora many times before and this was the hardest I have ever seen he cum. It was one of the sexiest things I have ever seen.

 

[Pinkpanther80]

I've never been into duos. Always figured if I wanted to disappoint 2 people at the same time I'd just have dinner with my parents!

 

[Slickjoe]

Sorry to hear this. You didn’t get scammed if you got some services? “Bickering at each other”. Is better than taking your money and asking you leave….

was it these two?

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/duo-melina-and-mia-3353.775640/

Is taking your money and asking you should leave a rare occasion or is it a common scam?