If sheer repetition and volume were all it took, I'd say I'd have to be an incredible lover by now. I don't think it is quite that simple, however.
Some very good points have already been brought up, and in my mind, the two sides of the coin can be boiled down to "practice makes perfect" vs. "no incentive to improve". I would like to think that hobbying helps, but I honestly don't know. It might make you better at sex, but I'd argue there is a distinction between that and being a good lover. If you read the reviews, though, it seems every guy thinks he is a great lover.
Some very good points have already been brought up, and in my mind, the two sides of the coin can be boiled down to "practice makes perfect" vs. "no incentive to improve". I would like to think that hobbying helps, but I honestly don't know. It might make you better at sex, but I'd argue there is a distinction between that and being a good lover. If you read the reviews, though, it seems every guy thinks he is a great lover.
