Does size matter?

[rexst]

Belle De Jour - your website mentions:

"I am very selective with the person with whom I intend to spend my time with. I look for a well manned, well groomed, respectful gentlemen not older than 50."


- is <50 still your rule / preference?

- i would imagine / i'd guess that in general, older men would be more inclined to seek / prefer the overall experience (personality, friendliness / interested in a mutual fun time etc) over some narrow specifics of body type

- in any event - it is in my case

 

[malata]

size matters, only if she says it does

 

[Sarge2145]

Sexy is sexy no matter what size.

Totally agree. It doesn’t matter if you are $110lbs or 210lbs. To me it’s more about how you carry yourself and if I am attracted to you. I’m an husky body type myself. I know I’m not every woman’s cup of tea.

 

[Southern Gentleman]

I concur with rext.

- i would imagine / i'd guess that in general, older men would be more inclined to seek / prefer the overall experience (personality, friendliness / interested in a mutual fun time etc) over some narrow specifics of body type

- in any event - it is in my case

To address the original question, however, for me, personally, physical attraction is not about size as much as it is proportion. A woman's "hourglass" figure doesn't have to be an "hour." It could 00:30, 00:45, 1:30, 01:45, or more or less...hell, it could be of a proportion to time a LOTR movie. Ultimately, for me, feminine beauty involves curves. What catches my eye is when both halves of the "-glass" hold roughly the same amount of sand.

Far beyond that, however, the ladies that I choose to spend time with all possess majestic 'Ruben-esque' proportions in intellect and personalities. I appreciate the physical beauty of pretty much all sizes. But what I find truly attractive is a woman with plenty of curves and complexities to explore, both physical and intellectual.

If they happen to be "fabulously full-figured" in all of these areas, so much the better.

/SG

 

[Db750]

I’ve lusted after all types. I’m not into the extremely skinny or extremely overweight but everything else in between has certainly gotten me turned on before. As someone else said it’s all about how a woman carries her weight. Some of my favorite pornstars right now are Angela White and Alena Croft.

Personality goes a long way too when choosing a lady. I love reading twitter feeds of ladies to get a better idea of their personalities and tastes.

 

[Sharemyinkwell]

I've had the privilege of meeting beautiful women of different sizes and size has never been an issue for me as what is truly important to me is ...

Attitude
Chemistry
Mutual respect of each other's boundaries
Being attentive to each other's pleasures (within consensual boundaries of course)

These are the attributes which I feel are the most important to ensure a wonderful experience is enjoyed by both.

I have been fortunate to have experienced the above many times with some incredible women here on TERB

 

[kherg007]

Or sometimes the contrasting types in an interactive duo....beach volleyball v voluptuous, dark v light, ebony v asian, spinner v statuesque....big bum and small boobs v big boobs and small bum...

 

[Medman52]

I might get raked over the coals for this but in my many years around the block I’ve found the larger women are tighter. Not sure why, just my experience.

 

[Belle De Jour]

Wow I didn’t expect this thread to get so many responses but I’m happy to see the different answers. Thanks so much!

 

[curvluvr]

Good question.

I like bigger women. Period. BTW, I love your pictures on your website (as well as Jessica's). I don't like spinners or skinny girls.
(For what it's worth, I'm a skinny guy.)
But I do know that I'm in a minority. Just a browse through the pictures of attendants at Massage Parlor websites will show you the average preference.
I wish there were more bigger women like you and Jessica in the industry.
I'm always looking for bigger ladies at Massage Parlors, but they're definitely hard to find.

Jessica does have a point that comments on this board are sometimes skewed towards what I think is the "average preference" of a skinny lady. Sometimes when a poster inquires or reviews a bigger (sometimes BBW) lady, it sometimes receives negative comments of "not my type" or "too much for me". I get that everyone has their personal preferences of body type, but the review of a larger lady is posted for the benefit of the members of the minority who prefer larger ladies, and not for others to comment that she's "not my type".

I could go on, but it boils down to the fact that everyone has their own personal preferences, and that some of us guys in the minority of preferring larger ladies realize that we are a minority.

 

[Belle De Jour]

Good question.

I like bigger women. Period. BTW, I love your pictures on your website (as well as Jessica's). I don't like spinners or skinny girls.
(For what it's worth, I'm a skinny guy.)
But I do know that I'm in a minority. Just a browse through the pictures of attendants at Massage Parlor websites will show you the average preference.
I wish there were more bigger women like you and Jessica in the industry.
I'm always looking for bigger ladies at Massage Parlors, but they're definitely hard to find.

Jessica does have a point that comments on this board are sometimes skewed towards what I think is the "average preference" of a skinny lady. Sometimes when a poster inquires or reviews a bigger (sometimes BBW) lady, it sometimes receives negative comments of "not my type" or "too much for me". I get that everyone has their personal preferences of body type, but the review of a larger lady is posted for the benefit of the members of the minority who prefer larger ladies, and not for others to comment that she's "not my type".

I could go on, but it boils down to the fact that everyone has their own personal preferences, and that some of us guys in the minority of preferring larger ladies realize that we are a minority.

Thank you for your opinion and compliments

 

[stevieray]

For me, when I was younger and just starting out in this hobby, I was looking for the `model` look, i.e., tall, slim, etc. But then a few years back I met this lovely `older` lady. So she had a few sags & wrinkles, but oh my god, did she have oral skills! But more importantly, we really bonded, got to be good friends. Always looked forward to her next visit. It really hurt when she announced that she was retiring from the biz. Since then, I`ve had the pleasure of meeting some amazing, attractive women, but none of them have the same talents or personal chemistry as this lady. And I guess it works both ways, as I`m far from any kind of perfect physical specimen, yet I`ve had lots of ladies say they truly enjoy my company.

 

[luvdog]

I like Tall women too. I just wished more of them liked shorter guys.
5'6.

Good discussion here.

Luvdog

 

[luvdog]

As for size of woman, I prefer mostly Women equal to my weight and size. Busty and curvy.
It is just a preference. But it is how you wear it that makes the difference.
LD

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Sophia Loren: "I think the quality of sexiness comes from within. It is something that is in you or it isn't and it really doesn't have much to do with breasts or thighs or the pout of your lips."

 

[simba_one]

Sophia Loren: "I think the quality of sexiness comes from within. It is something that is in you or it isn't and it really doesn't have much to do with breasts or thighs or the pout of your lips."

I think that makes perfect sense Ms. Sinclair. Of course those internal qualities couple with how Ms. Loren looked in her heyday is a pretty wicked combination.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

Sophia Loren: "I think the quality of sexiness comes from within. It is something that is in you or it isn't and it really doesn't have much to do with breasts or thighs or the pout of your lips."

That is a great quote and so true. Guys don't come to see me because I have rock hard and. They come to me because I love sex, fuck like a champ and cum like a wild river. LOL.

 

[niniveh]

All so true. But I do like the pout of your lips esp. when you bite that lower lip!