Does anyone else think that writing reviews is wrong?

[newbieatthis]

I mean graphic reviews. If you wrote "You will have a great time, trust me" that's not bad, but some people go into extreme detail, and in short, it basically turns the girl into a piece of meat. Come on, some of you have daughters, some have sisters, can you imagine someone saying that stuff about her?

Anyone else feel this way?

 

[newbieatthis]

I know a lady on another board, and we are very good friends, and reading people write that stuff about her makes me ill.

I do. I think any reviews should be informative, but tasteful, and that we should respect the boundaries of any lady with regards to reviews.

 

[newbieatthis]

I don't have a sister, yet this still bothers me!

Wait until Goober's Mom reviews your sister!

 

[Back Burner]

I mean graphic reviews. If you wrote "You will have a great time, trust me" that's not bad, but some people go into extreme detail, and in short, it basically turns the girl into a piece of meat. Come on, some of you have daughters, some have sisters, can you imagine someone saying that stuff about her?

Anyone else feel this way?

If someone wrote that about my sister, I hit her up for the $50 she owes me.

 

[newbieatthis]

wow, you are evil.

If someone wrote that about my sister, I hit her up for the $50 she owes me.

 

[red]

I mean graphic reviews. If you wrote "You will have a great time, trust me" that's not bad, but some people go into extreme detail, and in short, it basically turns the girl into a piece of meat. Come on, some of you have daughters, some have sisters, can you imagine someone saying that stuff about her?

Anyone else feel this way?

define extreme detail?

 

[newbieatthis]

Instead of BBBJ someone actually describes the act and how it was. Just going into detail, it's so wrong!

define extreme detail?

 

[Back Burner]

Instead of BBBJ someone actually describes the act and how it was. Just going into detail, it's so wrong!

Whys is it wrong?

 

[newbieatthis]

Because it's distateful, we all know what it's like, you don't have to describe it. Just say it was nice, or she's great at something. But don't sit there and do a play by play of everything that happened. Christ, these girls have dads you know.. They have baby pictures of themselves. ugh. this is so wrong.. Sorry, it's yom kippur now and I'm atoning for my sins.

Whys is it wrong?

 

[Back Burner]

Because it's distateful, we all know what it's like, you don't have to describe it. Just say it was nice, or she's great at something. But don't sit there and do a play by play of everything that happened. Christ, these girls have dads you know.. They have baby pictures of themselves. ugh. this is so wrong.. Sorry, it's yom kippur now and I'm atoning for my sins.

Yea, I can tell. And what's with all the family references. Someone review a family member of yours?

 

[red]

I don't really follow what you are saying- can you put more detail in your example?

 

[Svend]

Sex is distasteful only when she hasn't scrubbed up.

 

[A-ROD]

I am sure my SO would think writting reviews is a bad thing.

Now theres a thought writting a review of your SO, I will have to think hard 'bout that one.

 

[Meister]

As my tongue was slowly exploring the back of her succulent earlobes her beautiful hands were squeezing my buttox with a firm grip like she was kneading Ms. Fields cookie dough and I was ever so elated to feel the ....

 

[Stoo]

Ah, gimme a break....

Christ, these girls have dads you know.. They have baby pictures of themselves. ugh. this is so wrong.. Sorry, it's yom kippur now and I'm atoning for my sins.

Newbie, with respect, I think you might be in the wrong hobby. These women are involved in a business transaction with us. Yes, we enjoy their time, and some of us even forget, just briefly, that they are having sex with us because we are paying them well to do so. Does that give us the right to be abusive? Of course not. But this is a review board, and within reason, a review requires some level of detail to be of any use.

I'm not sure what you are getting at with all the family references. These women have made the choice to become prostitutes, and I would hope that they are comfortable with their choice, just as I am comfortable with my choice to become a "John". Most of the women that I have met are intelligent, savvy, well-adjusted ladies... that's part of what makes them so appealling.

I do think that some members of the Board "get off" by writing unnecessarily graphic reviews, just as others "get off" reading them. But please don't try to lay some guilt trip on us questioning whether it's "proper" to review the services these women provide. If you aren't comfortable with reviews, then don't participate in the Board. But to post a review along the lines of, "Sally was really pretty and made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside", is a waste of bandwidth! (IMHO, of course!)

 

[PHNINE]

Newbie, with respect, I think you might be in the wrong hobby. These women are involved in a business transaction with us. Yes, we enjoy their time, and some of us even forget, just briefly, that they are having sex with us because we are paying them well to do so. Does that give us the right to be abusive? Of course not. But this is a review board, and within reason, a review requires some level of detail to be of any use.

I'm not sure what you are getting at with all the family references. These women have made the choice to become prostitutes, and I would hope that they are comfortable with their choice, just as I am comfortable with my choice to become a "John". Most of the women that I have met are intelligent, savvy, well-adjusted ladies... that's part of what makes them so appealling.

I do think that some members of the Board "get off" by writing unnecessarily graphic reviews, just as others "get off" reading them. But please don't try to lay some guilt trip on us questioning whether it's "proper" to review the services these women provide. If you aren't comfortable with reviews, then don't participate in the Board. But to post a review along the lines of, "Sally was really pretty and made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside", is a waste of bandwidth! (IMHO, of course!)

Totally agreed. The whole function of these boards is to be descriptive and review ladies so that the next guy knows what he is getting himself into. Although I agree sometimes people can be graphic or looked upon as being harsh, but that is the nature of this industry. You will hit both sides of the spectrum. Some people will say the same old shit, like "Sally was really pretty and me feel all nice" (as said above). But then again you will get guys that post and make the reviews intersesting and sometimes detailed, very detailed, which is what I think the original starter of this thread has a problem with. My advice to the starter of this thread is just don't comment on them. If it is too much for you then just go on to the next thread. But don't rip on people or critisize because it is thier right to do whatever they want on these threads. I mean it is a review board...let them review. The stipulation is in the definition of review, and we cannot control what every "john" defines as a suitable review.

The key to a good review is to do it tastefully. A standard blueprint for a review should be as follows: presenting the link/contact information, the experience of the session (whatever the john chooses to tell), what is on the menu, the cost of the session (if not advertised), the repeat/recommendation factor, and maybe finish with a comment.

So please guys try to make the reviews intersting and fun to read otherwise it is a waste of bandwidth......

 

["Techie"]

Vegetarians

Maybe a more generalized approach would be better, you know like a rating system. Numbers from 1 to 10 could be assigned to things like looks, service, etc. Wait a minute, that's already out there! And come to think of it, I read a post on that board about someone not liking the rating system because it makes the ladies seem like a piece of meat. So what's less "meaty", a generalized rating system like "Grade A" (and don't forget "Grade B" - I'm sure the ladies will like that one), or a detailed description of the ladies and service? Both too meaty you say, well vegetarians, keep away, I want detail to make an informed choice! Isn't that the point?

 

[champ]

Call me Crazy ...

Newbie,

I admire the sentiment of your post but would encourage you to think about something.

You enter into an exchange of commerce with a woman. You pay her cash to have sex. The act is not based on love or not in many cases (for her) lust but purely and simply for ... money. The acts that you have commited with these woman may be lewd and even deviant.

For this you seem to have no problem.

But talking about it openly is wrong. Reprehensively wrong in your opinion.

The same women who are daughters, sisters and mothers that you are mindful of JUST FINISHED SUCKING YOUR DICK ... FOR MONEY!!!

I think that you need to consider not just the talking but the doing.

It is normal for you to feel bad about this. I am certain that in each of our heart of hearts we all feel like that ... kinda.

If it really bothers you take up another hobby. If you can live with it, enjoy it.

Just my thoughts.

Champ

 

[tboy]

I bet he thinks penthouse forum is wrong too! but then again, I wonder if he has ever said to one of his buddies: man, she could suck a golfball thru a garden hose, or her tits were so _____. Maybe not, but remember my friend, women are WORSE than men. They just don't publicize it openly like we do....

Also, back before we had sites like this guys were getting B & S'd all the time and getting poor service and ripped off repeatedly. Reviews, descriptive or otherwise have saved us all many heartaches and tons of dough. While some reviews are more descriptive of others, these reviews allow us to choose a woman who will satisfy our needs. If you can go out and spend your hard earned cash based on only your numbering system, then by all means, don't read the review, just look at the ratings at the end. No one here is forcing you to read them.....you can always close your eyes!

 

[Vancouver Femme Fatale]

My solution? Not take as clients somebody who would prefer writing "Then I crammed my throbbing manmeat into her throat and choked the bitch with my 12" ego" rather than, "Boy, this woman definitely loves cock and snarfed mine with wanton abandon".

Most of the graphic and nasty reviews are all about the guy and his dick and not the woman he's reviewing...which makes them demeaning to the ladies and of questionable use to the guys.