I'm a talker, but nearing completion 'grunter' might be the more apt term.
Talking is a sign of respect.
We see SP's largely for a release.
Not in the fishing sense.
Though I suppose in that frame of discussion, marriage would be called catch but no release.
Back on track...
We are all people.
Being a SP societally can be hard.
It behooves those of us who use their services to speak to them in conversation.
For it shows that we see them as people.
We want to value what we can say to each other while we are together.
That said, it does not preclude what polite society might call the use of off colour phrases at times.