do you hate men?
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I don't think SPs hate men in general. However, I'm sure that many (most?) SPs hate what they have to do in order to earn a living. Many (most?) single SPs would probably like to just settle down with one man, perhaps get married, and have children. I may be wrong, but that's the way I see it. I hope some SPs will sign in and provide their personal opinions.Guru of $in said:
i don't hate men i actually get along better with men.
i know most only want one thing from me
and the rest are gay
{not that there is anything wrong with that}
i know most only want one thing from me
and the rest are gay{not that there is anything wrong with that}
There was a drop dead gorgeous waitress who worked at one of the local dive strip clubs in the town where I went to college. She was a fellow student of mine. She always wore a pin on her sweater when she was working, that said "You can't beat a woman". I never asked her if that was a statement about violence against women or if it was an expression of her belief in a woman's strength. Either way though, I had little doubt that her opinion of the men (in the strip club at least) was less than stellar.
I'm willing to bet that SPs' opinions of men reflect that of women in general society. Some hate us, some pity us, some envy us, some love us madly. When I'm with an SP, though, I really don't care. I just want her to smile and treat me well. I do the same for her and we both go our separate ways, each of us having extracted from the encounter exactly what we wanted.
I'm willing to bet that SPs' opinions of men reflect that of women in general society. Some hate us, some pity us, some envy us, some love us madly. When I'm with an SP, though, I really don't care. I just want her to smile and treat me well. I do the same for her and we both go our separate ways, each of us having extracted from the encounter exactly what we wanted.
no this is not a silly question. not silly at all yet very important and I hope sps would think about it and give me an honest answer.
Guru of $in said:
I LOVE men!! I love big men, small men.....I love them all...well almost all. As long as a man treats me with kindness and respect!
I'm in this business because I love sex and I love the way a man looks when he has reached his peak for ME!! That is the biggest turn on and self confidence builder!
I could easily be an escort for years to come...but I have goals...so as soon as I have accomplished everything that I set out to...I may retire and go to university...but I think I'll still see all my regulars for years to come! As long as you all will have me!!
How could anybody hate men and provide great service...maybe that's the key..Maybe the sp's that provide horrible service dislike men...Who knows that's just my two cents!!
One more time...I LOVE MEN!!!
I don't want to lose the question of the thread, but the question has also been discussed at length to what extent men who frequent SCs, MPs, and SPs do or don't hate women. Certainly such behaviours would exhibit a desire for women. But not necessarily a love of women.Guru of $in said:
I would posit that some women may hold a contempt for many men, and find an outlet for that contempt in certain professions, just as some men may hold a contempt for women and find pleasure in demeaning women through certain behaviours. It doesn't mean that other men intend to demean those same women through similar behaviours, nor that other women fail to become emotionally involved in the situations in which they find themselves within the same industry.
But all I know for certain is that that's only one opinion. Yes, it would be interesting to do a social study to better understand the dynamics involved, but I doubt that the degree of trust required to get deep and honest answers for such a study could be built up over any short period of time.
I also think this is a dumb question.
I too, like the other SPs who have posted, LOVE MEN (and that appendage they have that i dont! - is that penis envy?)
I too, like the other SPs who have posted, LOVE MEN (and that appendage they have that i dont! - is that penis envy?)
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This probably isn't the answer you are looking for, but here I go:
I like men. I like women. I like people who are polite, kind and respectful.
If you are rude, classless and inappropriate it does not matter what gender you are. It is not just men who are like this, it is ladies too. And it doesn't just apply to this business either. It applies to all walks of life.
I like men. I like women. I like people who are polite, kind and respectful.
If you are rude, classless and inappropriate it does not matter what gender you are. It is not just men who are like this, it is ladies too. And it doesn't just apply to this business either. It applies to all walks of life.
It IS silly and is not important at all. There is an old misconception dating back to at least the 19th century that female sexworkers are sexworkers because they hate men.Guru of $in said:
From the way you phrase your question it appears to me that you want SP's to confirm your feeling that they do hate men, or if they don't they haven't really thought about or aren't being honest.
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