Do you feel guilty....
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lol it's only cheating if you swallow 
(me and bill would have got along real well)
to answer the question when i'm in a relationship i never cheat
(me and bill would have got along real well)
to answer the question when i'm in a relationship i never cheat
I've never cheated on anything in my life...
Honestly.
Oh chit... that's another thread... never mind
Honestly.
Oh chit... that's another thread... never mind
To be quite honest, cheating is relative.
In my opinion, I don't cheat, because my heart belongs to the one I love. If I go elsewhere for service, albeit cheating in some peoples eyes, I don't see it entirely as such. I like to experiment while my SO does not. I like variety. Etc, Etc ....
I've heard it said, if you imagine someone else during sex with your SO, that is cheating as well. Very hard to define.
I personally don't always equate sex with love.
My SO would be hurt is she knew, no doubt, but I also KNOW she would understand. Our relationship is full and we share very special feelings.
I know it sounds like rationalizing, but I feel real cheating is when you are carrying on a relationship outside of the one you have, where feelings (love/like) are there. I try NOT to see the same SP over and over, because to me, that would be starting to push my own comfort level, and borders on cheating by my definition.
I will now prepare myself to be flayed, drawn and quartered.
In my opinion, I don't cheat, because my heart belongs to the one I love. If I go elsewhere for service, albeit cheating in some peoples eyes, I don't see it entirely as such. I like to experiment while my SO does not. I like variety. Etc, Etc ....
I've heard it said, if you imagine someone else during sex with your SO, that is cheating as well. Very hard to define.
I personally don't always equate sex with love.
My SO would be hurt is she knew, no doubt, but I also KNOW she would understand. Our relationship is full and we share very special feelings.
I know it sounds like rationalizing, but I feel real cheating is when you are carrying on a relationship outside of the one you have, where feelings (love/like) are there. I try NOT to see the same SP over and over, because to me, that would be starting to push my own comfort level, and borders on cheating by my definition.
I will now prepare myself to be flayed, drawn and quartered.
luv4lust said:lol it's only cheating if you swallow
(me and bill would have got along real well)
to answer the question when i'm in a relationship i never cheat
Again, while the bird of love is the dove, the actual bird of TRUE love is the swallow.
I hobby because I do not have the time to give a SO my undivided attention. I feel that if you are committed to someone you should give the same amount of respect that you yourself expect and saying that how many of us here would like it if we found out that our SO was doing what we were doing. If I did have a SO I think my hobbing would end.
OK OK....let the flogging begin.
OK OK....let the flogging begin.
