Do You Close Your Eyes and Think of Someone Else?

[TROOPS]

I know for some of you guys with long term partners, the sex eventually becomes routine. Does the sex get so boring at times where you have to close your eyes and think of someone else?

I often find that dating for even a couple months the same chick, i get bored of the same poon, same face, same moans, same blow job, the same sandwich she makes me after sex.

The honeymoon phase usually ends after 6 months for most, but for me it ends sooner and i'm bored of her. I have to close my eyes and pretend i'm banging someone else, often my next sexual conquest a chick i met at the bar the week before, or a famous ass pic i see on terb, or my sexy aunt. I'm sure the women do this too where they think of some other dude while banging you.

Do you think of someone else? Who do you think of when you're banging your wife or gf?

 

[Goodoer]

I'm unable to cum unless I'm thinking of someone else... So many images flash in front of my mind that it is difficult to focus on just one - as such the other chick is random and I'm unable to accurately describe her. She has a high sex drive though...

 

[Butler1000]

Feeling sorry for ya Troops. When I'm with the SO I got me some real love making going on. I totally zone in. This after 20 years. Still that good. I used to run into that with previous ex's. That's hiw a really know this is the one. Well that and she makes the BEST DAMN cookies in the world!

 

[TROOPS]

I'm unable to cum unless I'm thinking of someone else... So many images flash in front of my mind that it is difficult to focus on just one - as such the other chick is random and I'm unable to accurately describe her. She has a high sex drive though...

My friend has the opposite problem. He cums too quick so he has to think of someone who he will never bang in order to prolong his ejaculatory explosion. He told me in confidence one time, and i laughed my ass off. He told me he thinks of his dog. I was like WTF?........lol. Some of my friends are more fucked than Troops.

 

[TROOPS]

Feeling sorry for ya Troops. When I'm with the SO I got me some real love making going on. I totally zone in. This after 20 years. Still that good. I used to run into that with previous ex's. That's hiw a really know this is the one. Well that and she makes the BEST DAMN cookies in the world!

Yes.....you are lucky my friend. Women like that are very hard to come by. I too had someone like that years ago, where the sex never ever got boring. We both had high sex drives and i think at the time we were both sex addicts. Even after 2 and half yrs. She was as adventurous and carefree as Troops and lived on the edge. Till cross border problems kept us permanantley apart. We both moved on.

20yrs...:thumb: I envy you. plus she bakes you cookies? fuck now i'm jealous.

 

[needinit]

Its okay to fantasize no matter what your situation....it is a problem only when it is the only way you can get off with your SO....I have a great sex life with my SO and occasionally I think of the girls on myfreecams as the eye candy is good for you too! (I'm sure she thinks of some young stud form time to time too - not me now - But I was!!)

PS Those that don't know me, I joined here when getting divorced, got hooke don the threads and variety of discussions and don't partake when I have an (or maybe should say with THIS) SO - which has been around 4 years now.

 

[nobody123]

I've been doing a lot of jerking off lately so it's a safe bet that yes, I think of someone else.

(follow-up question: You know how they say if you do it with your left hand, it feels like someone else? What I want to know is if someone else jerks me off with THEIR left hand, does it feel like me?)

 

[jazzpig]

Feeling sorry for ya Troops. When I'm with the SO I got me some real love making going on. I totally zone in. This after 20 years. Still that good. I used to run into that with previous ex's. That's hiw a really know this is the one. Well that and she makes the BEST DAMN cookies in the world!

Nice to hear a positive story once in a while.
Good for you!

 

[luv2fress]

I think of my first wife sometimes

 

[destillat]

i'm with you troops... if i need to fantasize to get the job done with my SO it will typically be about some strange that i recently got into, or am working on getting into.

 

[great bear]

when I need to delay I attempt to picture what Ms Locki looks like.

 

[mrsCALoki]

when I need to delay I attempt to picture what Ms Locki looks like.

Ask the people who met me or saw me. No no no. That was a dumb idea, given your desires. Sorry I had a brain fart. I wonder if reading troopsy's words result in brain farts? Is letting him near your pussy creates pussy farts, it would sort of be logical

 

[great bear]

Ask the people who met me or saw me. No no no. That was a dumb idea, given your desires. Sorry I had a brain fart. I wonder if reading troopsy's words result in brain farts? Is letting him near your pussy creates pussy farts, it would sort of be logical

Its like catching fish who have not eaten in a month.

 

[Curious36]

My friend has the opposite problem. He cums too quick so he has to think of someone who he will never bang in order to prolong his ejaculatory explosion. He told me in confidence one time, and i laughed my ass off. He told me he thinks of his dog. I was like WTF?........lol. Some of my friends are more fucked than Troops.

If your friend fantisizes about dog fucking, i can only assume he is a unionized worker.....