Do you actually care or prefer to have more of a romantic encouter with an sp?

Are you more of a romantic during your session?

  • I like and want to be romantic with the sp.

    Votes: 45 73.8%
  • No I don't care to be romantic.

    Votes: 16 26.2%

  • Total voters
    61

Articulate_Touch

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I was curious to know this. How many of you guys actually care about having a romantic, adventurous encounter with the escort that you are actually with? and that could share some thoughts on this.

I mean, I am fully aware that this is a "business", most if not all the ladies priority is the money. Also I presume it would be difficult to have a "genuine" romantic encounter with the sp especially in the first initial session/contact. The others reason can be such as that she just doesn't want to get into these kind of circumstances, they don't know the man, because they just simply dont care and just want to have fun. They might be afraid that they will actually get attached to their client or they might be afraid for the client, as he might actually start connecting with her on a deeper level, and then he will want to have some affair with her outside of this industry. Maybe also on the womens side of this, its more of a psychological issue, were past instances have turned out bad, so they tend to put up a wall pretty quickly by how they have been treated and so forth by other men. Yea, like I mentioned I am aware this is basically just business, and we are there and supposed to be there to just have fun, live out a fantasy, be in the company of a woman, have sex, climax and leave... speaking from my point of view at least.

I am sure there might be some ladies who have regulars who actually share more of "realistic" romantic encounters, and I am not asking which ones, haha. For one that is really not what I want here (to get in love with an escort), plus its not my business and everyone attracts to each other differently.

When I go into a session for the FS with intercourse, I personally want and hope to have an affectionate, sensual and passionate encounter. Small chat, couple laughs, maybe a lap dance or an actual slow dance, or latin dance, Hahaha. Then slowly start out by hugging, pleasuring her, first by kissing, licking, ect., caressing her body... neck, shoulders, arms, back, breasts and stomach and even her feet sometimes before she starts to pleasure me. Then move on from that point into the "Full service" intercourse part of the session. I am not really intrigued by the idea to leave the women un-pleasured by not worshiping and caressing her body (and making her orgasm) even though I know she could of had that done to her a couple times before me in the same day by another client. Basically what I mean is that I dont get intrigued by the idea to just go in there, take my clothes of, get a blowjob, or even just give her oral for a minute or two and then move right away to the sex (bam-bam) and leave. Believe me though, sometimes I do just want to be a really bad boy and get all the attention on me (which I think I should start doing more often), just get into it right away, have a quick chat if need be and have hard, fast sex and leave. I am sure that a lot women dont mind that either in the bedroom and might even prefer it too, switch it up sometimes. But when I am actually there with the lady I loose my train of thought and want to divule, explore her mentally and psychically. Usually though I spend more time exploring her body as their is too little time to explore her mind in an hour.. as to having a long chat with her. Another thing I cant really afford to have sessions over an hour, even though a I have had a couple in the past.

So are you more romantic and picturesque? Do you actually care about having a good, stimulating, intimate experience? or are you just there to do your thing, display your magic skills and leave?

I am aware to have a true stimulating experience their needs to be actual chemistry between the man and woman for it to occur and manifest. I am sure there are some, open minded, more of passionate and sensual women in this industry than others or who at least know how to fake pretty well, but I prefer not the fakers. Hahaha.

I've heard that Alice, Sydney Fox can be more passionate and sensual. If you can disclose any other woman like the two I mentioned then you are welcome to do so and it would be much appreciated even in private if you dont want to share it to the public. Thanks.
 

neverwas

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I am always looking for some connection that leads to a feeling of mutual respect along with my feelings of lust. I also feel the need for more than just a sexual experience. That may arise from my feelings of guilt based on my Baptist upbringing or from my view that even business relationships can be warm, and in this case, mutually sexually satisfying.
Having said that, we must remember that this is a business transaction and avoid thinking it is "love". "Lke" should be enough.
 

Articulate_Touch

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I am always looking for some connection that leads to a feeling of mutual respect along with my feelings of lust. I also feel the need for more than just a sexual experience. That may arise from my feelings of guilt based on my Baptist upbringing or from my view that even business relationships can be warm, and in this case, mutually sexually satisfying.
Having said that, we must remember that this is a business transaction and avoid thinking it is "love". "Lke" should be enough.
Good point, but what does "lke" stand for? Light kinky experience? Haha
 

Bubbles99

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I prefer to beat that pussy and to be shown to the door when I'm done! :mad:
 

akatimw

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I am always looking for some connection that leads to a feeling of mutual respect along with my feelings of lust. I also feel the need for more than just a sexual experience. That may arise from my feelings of guilt based on my Baptist upbringing or from my view that even business relationships can be warm, and in this case, mutually sexually satisfying.
Having said that, we must remember that this is a business transaction and avoid thinking it is "love". "Lke" should be enough.
Yes I agree
 

frankcastle

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yes, seeing as it doesnt cost extra above n beyond say a slide or fs so why not.

but more to the point i enjoy the ego stroke and fantasy.

mileage, looks are easy to find so that extra bit adds to the appeal or makes a girl stand out.

similarly thats why a nice room and facility are a must for me.......atmosphere.
 

massman

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Yes, definitely want some "connection"/ intimacy. Plus the dirty stuff. Having a laugh, having her kiss u back, or making her cum, and a nice relaxed cuddle afterwards makes it for me and is less important than menu.
 

Powershot

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I didn't bother beyond small talk and being respectful.. That's what dating and relationships are for, no interest in faking it.
 

LordLoki

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I was told by several women that being a great actress pays better than anything else. Once you can fake a connection you got it made. I guess they were right.
 

frankcastle

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I was told by several women that being a great actress pays better than anything else. Once you can fake a connection you got it made. I guess they were right.
Don't think this poll was all that surprising I mean why else is GFE so popular?

Anyone can go through the motions and given the amount of choice out there it's no surprise that people would want to spend their money for what they deem the best value and service.

Aside from Denny's that's why restaurants encourage their employees to be friendly. :)
 

Scott75

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Articulate, I agree with your sentiments. For myself, to be honest, I only had sex with an SP my first time and it was a fairly short session. That being said, I have done some research on the subject and have heard of stories from SPs. I think that, for the most part, stronger feelings can develop the longer the relationship; basically, multiple sessions over a series of time and getting to know about each other's lives. It can, ofcourse, entail risk on both sides, but I don't think that love can exist without risk. Some SPs have certainly formed long term relationships with former clients. I think that this article also delves into relationships of SPs with many of their regular clients:
Male Sexual Scripts: Intimacy, Sexuality and Pleasure in the Purchase of Commercial Sex
 
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