do i have problem?

[korean]

I having problem releasing with sp or mp
if you read my post "review:sunny@TOG
i have been inside her for almost 50min, and still not cum
all my exprience with sp or mp, only once, i had a release.
so.... my question is.... do i have problem with my tool or it just that i need more time?
for question i need to ask the terbian
1) is that normal? or is just that i should book 2hr session instead of 1 hr to ensure at least SOG?
2) even know, i am at rock hard state, if the sp or mp is too lose, i don't feel anything ( or should i say, my doesn't do anything for my tool). is that normal ?
3)what's your state or mind when you do the thing with sp or mp?
my mind is start off as YESSSSS, then as time goes by, it slowly going to blink, or thinking something else.
is that normal too?

P.S: i do cum when i masterbate

 

[korean]

Re: Re: do i have problem?

you should be in porn movies

i wish too, but my tool is not big enough, and not thick enoght

 

[groo39]

Sounds like a psychological issue, if the same problem isn't presenting itself with a real GF. Or perhaps you've started taking some meds that are interfering. Even exhaustion can cause problems...

 

[Remo]

I doubt its a problem with your member. When I am with a woman who is new to me, I am so afraid of cumming to soon and being laughed at and riduculed that I can't cum at all. I can stay hard but no cumming.

Even my first time I pumped my girlfriend till she was raw and yelling at me for supposedly lying about being a virgin, and I still didn't cum.

After I got comfortable with her my performance time was all downhill from there comparatively speaking from the first time.

Maybe you have a similar issue?

 

[BigBlack]

I find with a condom it is ahrd with the ladies that aren't tight. I was with one sp and she was so loose I knew I'd never cum despite fast continual thrusting for long periods until the muscles started aching (I'm in good shape so we are talking a ton of reps). If I were to go bareback, even on a very loose vagina i could cum quite easily. At least the first SOG.

BBLACK

 

[La Contessa]

While I can't speak from the male perspective on this topic, I can say that women often have the same problem which is often solved by increasing the FOREPLAY.

Book a longer session and take your time. Don't rush, and don't even think about trying to perform within a specific time frame. Get the know the person you are with. Make sure the atmosphere is condusive to sex. Increase the amount of time that you do the 'touchy feely' thing. Slow down and have her start the session with a nice loooong sensual blow job. And, if you still don't cum, forget it not a big deal to the woman, concentrate on 'her' for awhile.

Your big head is getting in the way of your little head.

MrsW

 

[pool]

I having problem releasing with sp or mp ...
P.S: i do cum when i masterbate

My guess is that you have become used to your own method of self stimulation and are desensitised when it comes to screwing. ( and if it's not only an issue with actually screwing, then, the same applies - after all, nobody knows your body better than you and it's a life time affair )

I'm trying to read between the lines here, but it seems you are only referring to actual penetration and I assume you are using a condom. For me, condoms almost completely kill the sensation. Unless the person I'm with is hot, tight and / or has good muscle control, and I remain focused, I cannot come, no matter how long we go on. Inside or outside an MP, makes no difference.

If my above assumption is right and you are only referring to "FS", then I'm just wondering if you have the same problem with a HJ in an MP. Although it could still be psychological, if you can cum, as you are not under the same expectation to "perform", but it is less likely psychological in that respect.

Try the obvious things like not "pleasuring yourself" for a week prior, use the thinnest condoms possible etc

As for your mind drifting, it does make sense, as it sounds like you are no longer enjoying the act, mentally. After 50 minutes I'd lose focus too. Maybe, you should take give yourself and your dick a break, do some other stuff ( like daty, dfk etc - not dusting or laundry ) and get back to it when you are heated up again. I think you have to mix things up and find out what stimulates you ( visually, mentally, and physically ) ... and above all, focus !!!

pool johansen

but then again, WTF do I know. I can't even fix 2 sexxxy's computer

 

[conte]

Just stop to masturbate and have fun with your sex partner, You'll notice huge improvement.

 

[pool]

eeeer

I think possibly the problem is your lack of Dani.

 

[groo39]

Dani(Have to go for a latte)

Yeah, sure, you go for a latte, while the rest of us now need cold showers...

 

[twobigo]

you are not alone ,Korean, believe me.I rerely come if ever during FS with a condom.Infact the same thing applies to me with a bbbj or cbj.Once aroused i stay hard but come? ..No. When i see escorts sometimes i don,t bother with FS [so many other things to do!] and when i do it,s with short slow strokes..it feels good.I,m not like a jackhammer just trying to get off.The bottom line is it doesn,t bother me as much as it used to.I just go with the flow, enjoy myself and have fun.FS and coming is only part of the equation for me.Spending an hour or two with GFE types who for the most part are half my age is good enough for me.

 

[groo39]

you are not alone ,Korean, believe me.I rerely come if ever during FS with a condom.Infact the same thing applies to me with a bbbj or cbj.

I was going to comment that making sure you use a comfortable wrap might help, but if BBBJ isn't providing enough sensation, it wouldn't be the wrap causing the problem.

Sometimes "old faithful" fails. It's rare, it's annoying, but if it's not happening all the time you consider the possibilities of drug interactions or exhaustion, laugh it off, and try again some other time.

One of the last ladies I'd seen on the GTA trip had the tightest, sweetest bits I've encountered over the years. She had great energy, great attitude, and hit my hormone triggers 100%. Yet thanks to my exhaustion at the time, she had to do a lot of work to obtain a finish.

It happens. *shrug*

 

[groo39]

I must say this thread cums as a great comfort to all of us "premature" guys in the audience. For years we thought it was a curse, now it turns out to be a blessing!

Have patience -- I thought myself invulnerable and "fool proof" for almost 20 years before I was proven wrong. Just don't take it too "hard" when you learn you're only human... *g*

 

[thighspy]

Cant Cum Can't Spell-Cum a Spell

Man--are you Fucked-Up,



Life is too short to hurry.

P.S buy a "Funk+Wagnalls

 

[hedway]

Korean, sounds like your dick is too small, at least in diameter. Maybe anal will give you a tighter fit, or just finish yourself off with pearls on the lady.

 

[homonger]

I tend to agree with pool. Try not whacking off for a few days before seeing your next sp, and see if that helps.

I have this problem from time to time and it is directly attributable to overuse. Thinking about it just makes it worse.

 

[korean]

Re: Let me get this striaght!

You can't figure out why your not getting off even though you do all the following things within the first 10 minutes of your session before your banging her for the remainder.

You let the SP in the door and she calls the agency. 1 min.
She uses the washroom and freshens up. 4 min.
You get her undressed. 1 min.
You talk. 2 min.
You do foreplay. 2 min.

Geez, beats me why you can't get off....


Try some romance for christ sake!

TOG is incall
so me walking to door, 1second
undress take 10 second for me, maybe 15 second for her
talk 4min 34 second.
DFK and touching 5 min
not sure if that make any difference

 

[Alucard]

no

no you don't have a problem, you have a gift, a lot of men would want to go as long as you go and a lot of their wives would like them to as well =P

 

[Alucard]

maybe stop thinking of sports so much during sex =P

relax and don't worry about it I think your too concerned about it and its not happening